She's probably been suspicious of him for some time. If she did indeed google the number and got a good look at Heather's pics, she'll be jealous for sure. 
Been said Before.... just a reminder Gentlemen
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Well, I suppose she googled my number. I did get some messages asking if I provided phone sex,to which I replied no. The next email was I heard that you did. I replied " not intentionally ". The last message was "I guess he came to see you'!
I can only assume that this is the same woman that called. To be honest the whole situation leaves me feeling kinda shity!
Please be careful guys....we know that last thing you want to do is hurt anyone. You guys and us girls know that sometimes seeing us keeps marriages alive. The SO's can't grasp that unfortunately.
I can only assume that this is the same woman that called. To be honest the whole situation leaves me feeling kinda shity!
Please be careful guys....we know that last thing you want to do is hurt anyone. You guys and us girls know that sometimes seeing us keeps marriages alive. The SO's can't grasp that unfortunately.
You have been touched by an ugly situation not of your making. Chin up, you did your best in a no win situation.
You did nothing wrong Heather. As I said, that SO has probably been suspicious for some time and you probably weren't the first SP that she has contacted.
thanks guys....she is still emailing me this morning .... this is very upsetting....and I do not even know who this guy is!!
Unfortunately, no matter how Heather responds, it just makes this worse for the guy. "Denial" means she's lying. A partial reply.. "phone sex only"... won't be believed.
Yup, the guy is f*cked, and not in a good way.
I posted a reminder about the perils of technology years ago about a guy who had his wife in his hotmail address book, and when he was replying to a booking confirmation from an SP, he accidentally hit "reply all" which exposed the entire conversation to everyone in his account. Oops.
It's always best to have separate hobby email accounts, separate hobby phones etc., if you have a need to keep such activities private.
Yup, the guy is f*cked, and not in a good way.
I posted a reminder about the perils of technology years ago about a guy who had his wife in his hotmail address book, and when he was replying to a booking confirmation from an SP, he accidentally hit "reply all" which exposed the entire conversation to everyone in his account. Oops.
It's always best to have separate hobby email accounts, separate hobby phones etc., if you have a need to keep such activities private.
bad situation...she's thought about it and wondering what you and him did and why...sad...
but I would also hope she knows her husband well enough to anticipate his reaction...
it could get ugly for both of them...
I get a kick of reading stories of dumb asses getting caught by their significant other after being with an escort. Simple solution guys, if you are married or in a serious relationship, dont start screwing around or get out!!! it's that simple. And now for the accusations that I am all "holier than thou" and I dont understand blah blah blah.
Agreed. It is a tough situation for Heather this week.
I would imagine the angry wifeshe is mad at the world right now and would probably kick the neighbour's cat if she could.
I have been divorced for many years. When I was married I never fooled around (thought about it
). My wife was convinced that I was having an affair with a neighbour and really went at me one morning. That was hard to deal with even though I was innocent. So I cannot imagine the hell that must be going on in the home of Mr Hobbyist. Two dozen red roses are not going to get him anywhere near the undoe button this time.Let's face it, if a woman gets suspicious, I mean REALLY suspicious of her partner, she will stop at nothing and no matter how careful you think you are (Fuji) you will get caught.
All she really has to do is have you followed and you are fucked.
Best to have an open marriage - Swingers clubs and the like. Problem is, not too many women will go for it.
All she really has to do is have you followed and you are fucked.
Best to have an open marriage - Swingers clubs and the like. Problem is, not too many women will go for it.
It's tradition to blame the other women even though it's the guy going around parking his car in other ladies garages.
Yes, but why is the guy forced to that? Maybe, he is not getting stuff from his SO in his own garage? They always blame the guy.
The client is the douchebag....
I am not married... and I only "hobby" when I'm not seeing someone, which I am now, (hence my current hiatus, much to the dismay of my regular ladies,), but how idiotic does one have to be, to NOT take certain precautions to protect the innocent.
I am not married... and I only "hobby" when I'm not seeing someone, which I am now, (hence my current hiatus, much to the dismay of my regular ladies,
), but how idiotic does one have to be, to NOT take certain precautions to protect the innocent.
So sorry you are being subjected to this Heather
It's good that you got the message out to the guys to cover their tracks because our job most certainly does not involve harassment questioning and guilt trips by the wives !!! Discretion goes both ways here.
Luv ya long time sexy!
Xox
This could be good for all the ladies.
Yes you can.
Mailwasher Pro is a program you can buy that allows you to identify a sender and blacklist it. The program actually reads your messages on the server and blocks the ones you identify from entering your computer. You can also bounce messages back to the sender. I use it and highly recommended it.
A bunch of guys just got nailed in Maine.
http://www.thestar.com/news/world/article/1272068--how-a-zumba-instructor-s-prostitution-charges-have-become-the-talk-of-a-small-town
http://www.thestar.com/news/world/article/1272068--how-a-zumba-instructor-s-prostitution-charges-have-become-the-talk-of-a-small-town
I'm more interested on what you have to say after 5 years from the day you get married.
