I am not at all, I am open about it to my close group of friends and have even taken SP's to functions. Although when I was married I had kept my 'dirty little secret" to myself, or so I thought. The other day a group of the friends wives and gf's were out for a night on the town and my ex happened to be with them. One of the women told my ex about me frequenting SP'rs and MP's and said it with utter disdain (she isn't exactly my biggest fan). I am 49 divorced no kids and the ex and I split on good terms really, we just grew apart and lost our commonality. The funny thing about this is my ex says "so what!", "I knew he did when we were married, as long as he didn't brag about it and embarrass me at the time, who cares". Well of course this turned into quite a scene, or so I heard.
My buddy told me his wife was watching the entire thing, laughing her ass off as these women began arguing about the merits of extra marital activities and my ex finished it by saying to one or more of them "at least my ex wasn't having affairs like yours"...LMAO
I wonder, if I had just kept it my little secret and not told anyone, how would it be viewed if it was ever discovered.
Anyways, I am not embarrassed about it. The funny thing is, I probably went more often when i was married than now.
Cheers
My buddy told me his wife was watching the entire thing, laughing her ass off as these women began arguing about the merits of extra marital activities and my ex finished it by saying to one or more of them "at least my ex wasn't having affairs like yours"...LMAO
I wonder, if I had just kept it my little secret and not told anyone, how would it be viewed if it was ever discovered.
Anyways, I am not embarrassed about it. The funny thing is, I probably went more often when i was married than now.
Cheers