I have a hot button about people assuming I am a gold digger and I only am with LL because he has a few bucks. It took me over a year to accept that I would not be with him if he had not been able to provide what he can provide, but that I also loved and cared and adored him.
For me, possibly for many woman, a man is the sum of a lot of things: his looks, his personality, his love of laughter, his commitment to me, and the life style his efforts have created and a few hundred other things. All the parts of a man are the man. And his ability to put a roof over my head and great food on my plate are part of that. I accept LL is rich and that I find that attractive in a man.
Mostly I am here for the PMs from people. Posting is only a way of generating PMs. If people think I do not exist they need only ignore me.