Age Difference

passsionplayer69

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Through my years of hobbing, I have targeted the mature providers. The 20 to 25 year olds have always interest me but the age difference has kept me away. I broke 50 a few years ago and have always debated about meeting a 20 year old. Are there any rules when it comes to age difference. I am curious from the man's perspective and also the providers perspective.
 

freespirit

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There is only one rule of TERB club......you don't talk about TERB club. ;)

Hobbyists are free to see whomever they choose regardless of age.

As a "mature" provider and mother, my personal opinion is that it is just wrong for a man to visit a woman who could chronologically be his daughter. But, that being said, I am a woman. Men are wired differently and I'm aware of that.

I'm sure I'll get a lot of flack for this, but it's MY opinion and my opinion only.
 

ultistar

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Half your age plus 7 is the rule. If you turned 50, then 25+7=32 is as low as you should go. That's an 18 year difference, and granted one could have fathered a child at 18 (or younger), but you may be in a similar stage in life.
Age and maturity are not necessarily correlated tho.
 

Plan B

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No rules here pal...I would go as young as possible in your case, younger than 20 if you can find one. Keep in mind that the service will most likely be poor when dealing with this age demographic though.
 

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my personal opinion is that it is just wrong for a man to visit a woman who could chronologically be his daughter. But, that being said, I am a woman. Men are wired differently and I'm aware of that.
I totally agree with Freespirit with “DON’T FUCK YOUR DAUGHTER” but if you can nail her friend (who is of legal age). High Five!

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mykonos

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your age minus your liquid assets divided by 125,000 so if you are 70 and have 5 million cash (outside the worth of your home/rrsp) you can date a 30 year old.
 

teamprf

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your age minus your liquid assets divided by 125,000 so if you are 70 and have 5 million cash (outside the worth of your home/rrsp) you can date a 30 year old.
should i put on the credit application that i am leveraging the shit out of illiquid asset xyz so I can fuck an 18 year old ?
 

afterhours

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your age minus your liquid assets divided by 125,000 so if you are 70 and have 5 million cash (outside the worth of your home/rrsp) you can date a 30 year old.
So if you have a mil it doesn't even entitle you to a ten years difference? I call bs.
 

MattRoxx

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I get around.
Half your age plus 7 is the rule. If you turned 50, then 25+7=32 is as low as you should go. That`s an 18 year difference, and granted one could have fathered a child at 18 (or younger), but you may be in a similar stage in life.
Age and maturity are not necessarily correlated tho.
The definition you linked to says that calculation is for a dating relationship, not for SPs. It would be far more useful to determine the various algorithms used by indies and agencies to resolve the difference between an SP`s advertised vs. her actual age
:wink:

While I often consider myself to be the world`s oldest teenager, before seeing this adorable little firecracker for the first time (and other very young SPs) I `warned` her and asked if it was okay that I was mid-50s and her response was "age is just a state of mind". And I had a great time with her, several great times with her in fact, and hope to continue for as long as she remains in the business.
Through my years of hobbing, I have targeted the mature providers. The 20 to 25 year olds have always interest me but the age difference has kept me away. I broke 50 a few years ago and have always debated about meeting a 20 year old. Are there any rules when it comes to age difference. I am curious from the man`s perspective and also the providers perspective.
If the SP is okay with the age difference there`s no reason for it be a problem for the client.

I`m also quite respectful and grateful towards the young ladies who make themselves available.
 

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As a "mature" provider and mother, my personal opinion is that it is just wrong for a man to visit a woman who could chronologically be his daughter. But, that being said, I am a woman. Men are wired differently and I'm aware of that.
There is nothing wrong with a 60yo seeing an 18yo: if you connect you connect. I'm 24, female and have always preferred older guys because they're more likely to have the same goals and mindset as me, the sex is killer and I'm bound to learn something new.

(I don't know why I feel the need to say this, but in advance yes, I'm very close with my dad/family, they know what I do and I talk to them more than once a week.)
 

Medman52

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There is nothing wrong with a 60yo seeing an 18yo: if you connect you connect. I'm 24, female and have always preferred older guys because they're more likely to have the same goals and mindset as me, the sex is killer and I'm bound to learn something new.

(I don't know why I feel the need to say this, but in advance yes, I'm very close with my dad/family, they know what I do and I talk to them more than once a week.)
I agree! I know many "mature" 20 somethings. If two people feel good together then what's the big deal? If the sex is good, then that's a bonus!
 

eagle1man

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IMHO there is a giant difference answering this question when it comes to seeing an SP versus a person you're dating. I believe the age plus 7 rule makes sense from a relationship perspective, but it makes no sense to me when it comes to seeing an SP. That's a paid for fantasy experience anyway, so the only rule is does it work for both of you since there is no interaction otherwise with the greater world.
 

Piratos

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IMHO there is a giant difference answering this question when it comes to seeing an SP versus a person you're dating. I believe the age plus 7 rule makes sense from a relationship perspective, but it makes no sense to me when it comes to seeing an SP. That's a paid for fantasy experience anyway, so the only rule is does it work for both of you since there is no interaction otherwise with the greater world.
Agree 100% A 50 year old dating a 20 year old just looks creepy but what happens in a commercial transaction in an anonymous hotel room is a different matter.
 

Piratos

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IMHO there is a giant difference answering this question when it comes to seeing an SP versus a person you're dating. I believe the age plus 7 rule makes sense from a relationship perspective, but it makes no sense to me when it comes to seeing an SP. That's a paid for fantasy experience anyway, so the only rule is does it work for both of you since there is no interaction otherwise with the greater world.
Agree 100% A 50 year old dating a 20 year old just looks creepy but what happens in a commercial transaction in an anonymous hotel room is a different matter.
 

krayjee

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No age rules here so long as they are legal age. Age doesn't mean anything in this business if the two are comfortable with each other. I was 64 last yr when I met Camo who was barely 19. We have so much chemistry together, we both enjoy each other's company so much and in one of my overnight date with her we made out till 5 in the morning. We both didn't mind being seen in public either cuz we are of same back ground and look like relatives or something. So was Melody who is only in her early 20s. Pls remember this is not a dating site, its all about SP, service industry.
 
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Frosty

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She probably wouldn't even know your age. Just look young and act young.

But I would say this. If you had white hair with wrinkles and you were banging a 18 yrs old escort, it just wouldn't be right.
 

night ride

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For years past fourty you should be seeing a SP no younger than 18 plus 1 year for every five years you are past fourty.
If you're 50 she should be no younger than 20.
If you're 80 she should be no younger than 26.
 

teamprf

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Hang on there is a different set of rules in another thread. I am so confused. What am I allowed to do ?
 

IM469

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Hang on there is a different set of rules in another thread. I am so confused. What am I allowed to do ?
You can do any consenting female over the age of 18 and those are my guidelines. Do you really think I care what anyone thinks if I can nail a young hottie ?
 
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