Question for the ladies: Does it matter how he makes you cum the first time?

[kkelso]

Earlier tonight I was in a the kind of deep convo with a group of young (under 30) women that you can only have when they are drunk and you are not. One of the topics was whether or not it mattered how a guy made you orgasm the first time with him.

I had always assumed that women perceived it to be more romantic and masculine if you brought them to orgasm via intercourse, at least the first time around. However my focus group of 4 disagreed. The consensus was that an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm, as long as he proves he can get me off who cares? While I buy that this is true for men I always thought differently for women.

Would any of our fine TERB ladies care to voice an opinion?

 

[DigitallyYours]

Many women can't even come from intercourse alone, so....

 

[DELETDrileydaniels]

I like DATY but not all the attention on my clit its almost like guys forget there is a whole land down there with lots of buttons to push its almost like someone needs to watch that episode of friends.

They definitely have to pre-heat the oven first before they put anything in. but after its warmed up they can go to town.

 

[MattRoxx]

I like DATY but not all the attention on my clit its almost like guys forget there is a whole land down there with lots of buttons to push its almost like someone needs to watch that episode of friends.

They definitely have to pre-heat the oven first before they put anything in. but after its warmed up they can go to town.

LOL! :clap2:

 

[Sandra Baxter]

I had this guy over to my house last night and omfg I orgasmed in ways I've never before. This guy is so fucking awesome with his techniques. I rode him for a good hour on my lounge chair on my back deck under the stars. His face was so gorgeous in the moonlight. Lets just say it's a good thing my deck is water sealed. Then when he took me upstairs to my bedroom I really saw stars! Omfg.

 

[bazokajoe]

Sooooo what did he do to make orgasm?Thats kind of the subject of the thread.DATY,Intercourse????

 

[great bear]

I had this guy over to my house last night and omfg I orgasmed in ways I've never before. This guy is so fucking awesome with his techniques. I rode him for a good hour on my lounge chair on my back deck under the stars. His face was so gorgeous in the moonlight. Lets just say it's a good thing my deck is water sealed. Then when he took me upstairs to my bedroom I really saw stars! Omfg.

So, you really like 4tees?

 

[Casey.xox]

No man can make me orgasm the first time he is with me. Takes them a few shots to figure out how I work! And never ever had an orgasm from just intercourse, I need some digits or daty to warm me up first!

 

[GrandBlasterK]

Some guys believe they can make a woman O the first time they have intercourse together and I used to be one of them. The only way that would happen is if you happen to be her type and she gets wet just watching your throbbing dick prepare to penetrate her. However, since the probability of you being her fantasy man is quite rare, I agree with the ladies that you need to pre-heat the oven first and show her that you're willing to go DATY and lick her out. Just like a gentleman who holds the door for a lady, you need to be patient and allow her to O on her terms. Probably won't happen the first time, but each session of intercourse builds a bond and as she gets used to your dick, rhythm, and feel (like a perfect glove), you will ultimately become her fantasy!

 

[Hurricane Hank]

I haven't met many women that I can make come from intercourse, without adding some manual stimulation. Therefore, I always do my best to have them reach a daty "O".

 

[claudiaM]

My men always makes me O first before he cum which I like

 

[Hurricane Hank]

My men always makes me O first before he cum which I like

"In Japan, women come second, or not at all".

Austin D Powers

 

[Mod100]

I like DATY but not all the attention on my clit its almost like guys forget there is a whole land down there with lots of buttons to push its almost like someone needs to watch that episode of friends.

They definitely have to pre-heat the oven first before they put anything in. but after its warmed up they can go to town.

That's a given in my world. The more a lady is excited from DATY, for me anyhow, the more I'm aroused and want to keep giving.

 

[Mr. Piggy]

I like DATY but not all the attention on my clit its almost like guys forget there is a whole land down there with lots of buttons to push its almost like someone needs to watch that episode of friends.

They definitely have to pre-heat the oven first before they put anything in. but after its warmed up they can go to town.

I always let my mouth and tongue explore the entire playground. I love doing daty just as much as I love getting an awsome bbbjcim/sw.

 

[justfor]

Personally, I like getting my O first via DATY ... Gets me all wet and riled up for the real action

Do you always get O first via DATY and then another O through intercourse (penetration)?

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

I like DATY but not all the attention on my clit its almost like guys forget there is a whole land down there with lots of buttons to push its almost like someone needs to watch that episode of friends.

They definitely have to pre-heat the oven first before they put anything in. but after its warmed up they can go to town.

LOL I love the way you put that, even more because it is SO true.

 

[Brandon123]

This thread is soooo fucking hot. :thumb:

 

[dirkd101]

This thread is soooo fucking hot. :thumb:

Yes, yes it is Brandon. This just has to keep going. :focus:

 

[GrandBlasterK]

Have any of the TERB ladies orgasmed from this thread yet? LOL

 

[krayjee]

I have to agree that an O from daty before intercourse is very nice. However my favorite way to cum is during intercourse while using a vibrator on my clit. Its sooo good i almost cant handle it

haha, that's my regular routine. Make a lady cum with daty first, then do all kinds of different positions and let her cum again with vibrator on her right side of clit in mish as a final stage and try to cum together.