Just having a bit of fun with this thread, after all, it is now well past 500 posts.
How many of you GAVE UP on dating figuring your just too undesirable to women?
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well he did seduce me into trusting him and falling for him. So it does count!
In that case, perhaps you could share with the class what he did to seduce you into trusting him and falling for him, despite the difference in age.
Now that is very interesting & far from the norm. I had a huge # of dealings with s.p. , not as customer. They always said: they could never date client 1) saw him as having some sort of low self esteem, character flaws, 2) not trust that he would not be carousing around seeing other s.p.'s 3) 80% of their clients were short, ugly or both thus not attracted to them & not surprised they see escorts since other women not attracted to them either.
1) He lost his wife a few years ago, and had been seeing escorts because he was afraid of getting involved and losing another lover.
2) He seemed to be sequentially monogamous with his SP exploration, and ended one before seeing another. It seemed to be his nature.
3) six feet, silver hair, bit overweight, not gorgeous but not ugly.
4) he made me feel safe, he never lied to me, he treated me like a princess, and he actually made his desires clear to me. I knew up front he ended what he had with other SPs for assorted reasons.
5) I dumped him as a client, and got to know him as a GF / lover till I felt safe.
6) He never gave me the impression he was desperate or trying to pretend he was something he was not.
7) He took care of his wife as she died of bone cancer.
8) He is charming and can approach people in any social setting.
Most clients fit your description, either married men who cheat and would cheat on us, or are a type that would need to see escorts.
Exactly. My point of starting this thread. Those that know they are so low on the scale that they just give up on dating. They have come to terms with reality & their odds thus will see escorts & not bother dating. P.S. not saying this is everyone here & clearly we have heard from those that are attractive to women & come within range of female standards in height or general attractiveness.
This has become a long thread so I won't read it all again to find the post, however his story is in here somewhere too.
One adopted daughter, 10 years older than I, one grandson
I insisted we sign a pre-nup so he would never wonder why I married him. Men have such fragile egos it is best to be safe when you get a good one
Probably the only song that ever came close to describing what I imagine true love really is.. but alas the brilliant writer - Martin Gore, is now divorced... :>(
I find it is best to assume they do then act surprised when they get upset lol....Girl allows CIM: +10000000000
I really do think that too many people are way too fixated on a person's appearance. Really, if you're dreaming of a perfect relationship with the perfect woman, if you're lacking personality and your expectations are too high then you won't go very far. I have met many men with high expectations and they are all lonely, in a relationship and miserable, or they see SPs. To be quite honest, for me personality is a very big deal. You can only fuck a person for so long, but then what do you do when you actually have to talk to them? Sex would be pretty important too, because if you can't give a woman a decent orgasm, and fulfill her fantasies, then she will try to seek it elsewhere.
And, for the comment about hitting on women 20 years younger then you, there are girls out there that like older men. I personally love men 15-30 years older then me, I have NEVER been hit on by a guy older then me by 5 years, ever. When out, if I've tried to initiate a conversation with men who seem to be in their 30's, they are usually married. Or, they are married and claim not to be by taking "this old thing" wedding ring embedded in their ring finger off claiming to be separated just to get that confidence boost from a younger woman for that evening.
And, for the comment about hitting on women 20 years younger then you, there are girls out there that like older men. I personally love men 15-30 years older then me, I have NEVER been hit on by a guy older then me by 5 years, ever. When out, if I've tried to initiate a conversation with men who seem to be in their 30's, they are usually married. Or, they are married and claim not to be by taking "this old thing" wedding ring embedded in their ring finger off claiming to be separated just to get that confidence boost from a younger woman for that evening.
Well there is good reason why most of us older men do not want to persue an interest in younger women. Now you are on this site & clearly you see older guys are attracted to younger women. REASON: vast majority of younger women will see a guy in his forties showing interest as, gross , creepy & perverted. Also society shuns it. Not so now with older women in their 40's hitting up younger men. They are cougars, in their sexual prime. Considered & portrayed in the media as hot . refer to Cougar Town & Desparate Housewives. I see no positive media portrayal of the 40's something guy persuing 20's something girl. Also the younder guy going for an older woman is considered just a stud. Younger girl interested in older man is always portrayed as girl fleecing the guy. P.S. Younger girls are not interested in older ugly, short or short & ugly guys regardless of the guys age. I was told to go for older women, they are not so into looks. I have gathered for me that means they are past menopause & old enough to be losing their sight !
