Wow, that would panic anyone I guess an sp could get dropped off to avoid that problem but of course you were pretty much identified by LE for future hassles. I wonder if someone may have pointed them in your direction?
Except we think you meant "exploiting" rather than "exploding".absolutly totally agree they should .That is sad but also a reality in the industry.I been in the industry a while and talking to girls and alot of sps do admit that they did start young
You arent lucky, you are chosing your lifestyle and good for you. Seems like there are about 3 of you ladies in durham only. The ladies ive seen are super nice sexy and fun. Never get the sense they are being pimped out or drug addicted. They may make bad choices of places to stay but they are avoiding durham as well. Even your buddy Melonie left. She told me the reason whether its real or not i dont know. You have chosen to work limited hours and you choose subtle places and keep a low profile and thats smart if you can do it. Lucky or smart..bit of both I guess. Either way Durham has changed some may say for the better but others might not. I guess my eyes were opened by talking with my LE neighbour and some SPs lately and how much they are aware and acting. Maybe I have just been naive.They may be cleaning up street walkers,very low end drug addicted pimp runned sp's or extremely high traffic and not so smart agencies but not quiet, smart and upper scale independants/agencies..
Either way, I don't stay at either of those hotels .. they are dirty and have way too much traffic and low end sp's working out of them causing chaos with drug/alcohol use, noise disturbances or evidently walking around with their pimps (i've seen it myself), that kind of negative traffic could very well makes staff and LE more "aware" of their guests and visitors...so I prefer to stay in higher end places.(Oshawa doesn't exactly have a Hilton but there are a couple that are ok haha)
I am lucky that I rarely stay in hotels, only working 2 nights a month and I walk in dressed in my office attire, remain very low profile (only seeing 2-3 clients between Fri and Sat, cleaning up ANY evidence before leaving IE: bringing my own towels/garbage bags etc, and getting rooms with a sliding door to the parking lot) ,and am extremely quiet..Nobody would ever doubt that I am up to something by looking at me...
So I really have no concern but I could see how someone who is frequenting places like Motel 6 5 days a week with a pimp standing outside their door (lol) could and should be a bit concerned that someone may have an idea what they are up to...
We all Just have to play smart ~Girls need to be business savvy and intelligent, and clients, you need to choose your SP's wisely.....
xo Heidi
This thread is turning into me saying I miss the drugged out pimped out sad sack BP ladies. that is not what Im saying. There are lots of nice quality ladies on BP and other places that are leaving town. Id be happy to have them gone. The ladies Im talking about are legit nice quality ladies that dont want to be here. Maybe they arent as "classy" as some may like but they make a living and provide quality service. There are "high end" and "low end" and " mid range". whatever you want to call them. All Im saying is that LE is watching places all over. Even a "high end" can get caught in a trap and the "mid range" non drugged out non pimp dependant ladies are leaving. So we are left with 3 ladies that provide quality service here? If they are your cup of tea you are lucky. if not?I don't think any of the popular Durham girls are drug addicted or pimped out! I know there are still good , clean and smart girls who choose hotels like that! I'm talking about the random girls, no names.. who obviously aren't all that sober or "independent"
And I can tell you from first hand knowledge that the reason many girls /agencies are leaving is because Durham is dead, not enough business to stay afloat. I have heard it first hand from quite a few girls and even from an agency employee who recently closed their doors...
Dont' believe everything you hearrelax and have fun! xoxooxoxo
We do have a few wonderful girls left, that's true. Most of us are just lamenting the fact, that we used to have a more vibrant scene here. Everything goes in cycles, it seems, and for durham, we are on the downside of a cycle.I have only started hobbying in the Durham region recently, and can say in all honesty, Nikki and Heidi are outstanding. I'd like to see Heather but her schedule doesn't match with mine, so I will continue seeing the ladies I can.
Its not ALL doom and gloom here.
Bingo...thats what Im trying to say lol thanks.We do have a few wonderful girls left, that's true. Most of us are just lamenting the fact, that we used to have a more vibrant scene here. Everything goes in cycles, it seems, and for durham, we are on the downside of a cycle.





