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its the latter... Terminator, I wish it worked out for you but fuck, you even got on my nerves through PM and forced me to add you to my block list. Your back and forth PMs regarding how to pick up/approach girls, some quite stupid/annoying/and redundant pushed me to the edge too.
Most of us would relax once we have not seen or heard from the guy for a decade or two. And of course every girl at work has now heard about it, and second hand information we tend to stop worrying about after a few years, unless the guy is in front of us every day.
If you approach her or any other woman at work, I think you can assume you will have a second complaint on your head and can face serious employment, or should I say unemployment issues.
Yes you screwed yourself
Even if she wanted to forgive you, she cannot now that she filled a complaint. If she forgave you she would look like an idiot. Her best option is to encourage others to complain so you are removed from her life. If you annoy her again I imagine she will put in another complaint.
what i love about this is the double standard. why is it that when a girl at work asks a male co-worker out. he's usually flattered and takes it as a compliment. but when a girl at work is asked out by a male co-worker. she gets all offended and freaks out.Yes you screwed yourself
Even if she wanted to forgive you, she cannot now that she filled a complaint. If she forgave you she would look like an idiot. Her best option is to encourage others to complain so you are removed from her life. If you annoy her again I imagine she will put in another complaint.
and for the record, i only asked her out once. and that's it.
Well, if you constantly act like a creep, your constant creepy behavior will ensure that she never relaxes and forgives you. If you don't constantly act like a creep, well, that's not relevant, because unless you constantly act like a creep, she wouldn't have freaked out about being asked out once.
that's cuz guys ain't emotional wrecks. girl asks us out, we say no thanks or yes i would love to and move on with our day. guy asks a girl out at work and she says no thanks and he goes to move on with his day but she is sitting at her desk now thinking "shit i just turned him down he is gonna rape me and kill my mother now".
see how that works.
The rules are simple:
If we like a guy we give them hints. If he takes them and asks us out we smile and say "OK". If he does not ask we give up eventually and move on.
If some guy randomly asks us out, if we like him we might go out to see if he might be fun; if he is not our type but not a bad sort we say "no" in a polite manner; if he is spooky or scary or does not leave when we say no nicely we tend to get upset and frightened.
If we are upset or frightened we get away from him, and if we cannot get away we put in a complaint.
Simple.that's what i said.The rules are simple:
If we like a guy we give them hints. If he takes them and asks us out we smile and say "OK". If he does not ask we give up eventually and move on.
If some guy randomly asks us out, if we like him we might go out to see if he might be fun; if he is not our type but not a bad sort we say "no" in a polite manner; if he is spooky or scary or does not leave when we say no nicely we tend to get upset and frightened.
If we are upset or frightened we get away from him, and if we cannot get away we put in a complaint.
you ask us, we answer and move on.
we ask you, you answer, then over analyze, then freak yourself out, call your friends, become paranoid, buy pepper spray and a dog, talk to your boss then get a restraining order.
you calling simon creepy?Only when creepy or spooky guys do it. Most men are nice
okay, so if we worked in the same office and every morning i walked past your desk on the way to my desk, i said good morning every day as i walked by, sometimes we meet at the copier or cooler and we talk a little, then the end of the day i say goodnight as i walk past your desk again, we become friendly. after a month or 2 of that, one morning i stop and ask if you would like to get dinner sometime, you say no, then i don't change my habit, i continue to say good morning as i pass, talk at the copier, just go on like it never happened.He has not said enough that I have read to comment
would you find that creepy or should i just end the friendship right there and find another route to my desk that doesn't come within 3 cubicles of you ?
i have never worked in an office, i was just trying to make you not sound like a retarded weirdo that sent her flowers to work, then had a song dedicated to her on her favorite radio station while standing at the end of the cubicle isle with a stereo over your head like a lunatic from that movie.
I can't fathom why she would file a complaint if you only asked her out once. You must have been doing other things to signal interest or try to attract her. Probably some pua BS.
If you really only asked her once and there's no other "game"before that her complaint will go nowhere, but if I had to bet, I bet you stalked her.
If you really only asked her once and there's no other "game"before that her complaint will go nowhere, but if I had to bet, I bet you stalked her.
