Well Fuji doesn't have any insight into open relationships, so he just writes off the men as submissives.
You have no idea what I have experience with, what I do, what I know. But, you have never let that stop you from making up a bunch of bullshit. So please continue--make up a bunch more bullshit. Knock yourself out.
You look foolish doing it, but I guess you don't care.
Who is psychologically weak here, the humans who choose to divorce sex and love, for instance, or Fuji
Huh? What the hell are you talking about? Divorce sex and love? What? I have no idea what sort of imaginary person you have in your mind now. You're increasingly talking about some imaginary person who has no relationship whatsoever to me. Maybe YOU think you are "winning" the debate by failing to comprehend, making stuff up, and attacking a person who doesn't exist. Others, though, have eyes to see.
...bunch of childish insults...
Yawn. It was fun before, move along. It's boring now. You're not interesting.
You conveniently omit that, while you find it unfathomable that the woman would fuck around, of course you grant yourself that luxury.
Actually I don't find it unfathomable. I've been the "other guy" a few times.
So when you talk of sexual dominance, you actually mean the subjugation of women, because as the male you see yourself as entitled and even biologically driven to have privileges denied the woman.
You ALMOST have that right. I don't deny that to
women, just
my women. I'm gender neutral in my perspective on this. I believe that we all--male and female--are striving for the same thing here. Those of us who are strong enough manage to have multiple sex partners and limit our partners ability to do the same. Some of the strong are women. Some of the weak are men. I'm sure there are women out there doing exactly the same thing, and I applaud that.
You simply have misunderstood me. In fact, I think you INTENTIONALLY misunderstand me, because you really can't deal with what I'm telling you.
Those of us who are successful enough, male or female, have multiple sex partners, live fulfilling lives, and manage to limit our partner's ability to do the same. Those who are less successful fail to do that, or wind up dominated, and so on. This is not a male vs. female concept. This is a strong vs weak concept. Winner versus loser. Successful versus unsuccessful. Selected versus unselected. There are men out there who are absolutely "pussy whipped", and their wives/girlfriends are my female equivalents.
In fact I learned this approach to life from a woman. I was the "other guy", she was cheating on her boyfriend. Back then I was a little more naive. I asked her one day how she could do that to him, since she
obviously loved him.. She just shrugged, and said sometimes you think you can't do something like that, but then when you do it, life just goes on. I gradually realized she was living a very fulfilling life. I realized I could do the same. She's a strong woman, a great person. Better than you.
But you just contradicted yourself. Rather than you living sexual relationships in which all rules have gone out the window, you clearly operate with rules.
1. Men dominate women: that this rule guides you explains why you think you're entitled to something your wife is not, why you dismiss as almost unnatural male submissives, and why you evaluate sexual relationships according to the degree in which the male lords over women.
False. That's not my belief. You have failed in comprehending.
2. One rule for Fuji, another for others, as a rule.
Absolutely, and I've made it work. I've repeatedly said that sexual hypocrisy is a virtue. Those of us who are successful are able to pull it off. Less sexually successful people, like you, apparently live in jealousy. That's just the natural order of the world: Sexual selection isn't fair. Not everybody gets the high quality mates. It's true of humans, fish, monkeys, wolves and dogs, pretty much every sexual creature on earth. The more successful individuals get more and better mates. It's the way of the world.
This strikes me as a wolf and sheep conversation. The sheep always complain about how bad the wolf is, no doubt throwing out phrases like "psychotic". Meanwhile the wolf doesn't give much thought at all to the sheep, other than at dinner time.
I guess it's always been that way.
