My SO loves it when I come inside her. In fact, she begs me to do so. It makes her come as well.
Traditionally women revel in the love that they give to their spouse. They offer their body as well as their heart in order to provide comfort and pleasure. Hence, a feminine perspective on lovemaking.
Men are much more visceral and dominating in out attitudes towards sex. Therefore we are gratified with what we achieved and not as much with what we gave. Hence, the masculine perspective on lovemaking.
It's a wonder to me how many men don't realize civilian women see the act of lovemaking as giving themselves into intimacy for the emotional act that it is. Most men are still defined only by the physicality of it all.
For women, there's a lot more to it than just two naked bodies.