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assholee

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So I'm new to this hobby, I'm 19 and am really curious and a bit worried at the same time. I've seen probably 6-7 different girls in the past 2 months but I've been wondering about this for a while.

Wouldn't getting a BBBJ, giving DATY and Kissing all together be just as dangerous as BBFS... if you think about it if she gives a BBBJ to a guy with herpes but it isn't visible and you see that SP in the next couple of days and she gives you a BBBJ and kissing occurs, couldn't you catch herpes just as easily as BBFS? What if you kiss a girl who has some sort of STI/STD in the back of their throat? I can pass on the BJ and DATY but I just HAVE to kiss but it worries me if she was sucking on some guy that has an STD that isn't visible at the time.

All of this makes me think that doing all of BBBJ, DATY and Kissing is just as dangerous as BBFS. Opinions?
 
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assholee said:
So I'm new to this hobby, I'm 19 and am really curious and a bit worried at the same time. I've seen probably 6-7 different girls in the past 2 months but I've been wondering about this for a while.

Wouldn't getting a BBBJ, giving DATY and Kissing all together be just as dangerous as BBFS... if you think about it if she gives a BBBJ to a guy with herpes but it isn't visible and you see that SP in the next couple of days and she gives you a BBBJ and kissing occurs, couldn't you catch herpes just as easily as BBFS? What if you kiss a girl who has some sort of STI/STD in the back of their throat? I can pass on the BJ and DATY but I just HAVE to kiss but it worries me if she was sucking on some guy that has an STD that isn't visible at the time.

All of this makes me think that doing all of BBBJ, DATY and Kissing is just as dangerous as BBFS. Opinions?
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don't do any of them even with your future wife god knows how many guys shes been with doing those things and would probably still be since your not doing them
 
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Aardvark154

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No, nowhere near, however, it is not risk free. Therefore, you have to make up your mind how much risk you are comfortable taking.
 
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Mizz Martinez

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You have to set your own boundaries, weigh out your risks, and do what you feel most comfortable with. A lady in this industry analyzes her risks, and then puts what she is most comfortable doing to her list of services you provide. As the pooner you, find a lady that offers the services that you are comfortable with and are looking for.

Happy Pooning :)
 
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assholee said:
So I'm new to this hobby, I'm 19 and am really curious and a bit worried at the same time. I've seen probably 6-7 different girls in the past 2 months but I've been wondering about this for a while.

Wouldn't getting a BBBJ, giving DATY and Kissing all together be just as dangerous as BBFS... if you think about it if she gives a BBBJ to a guy with herpes but it isn't visible and you see that SP in the next couple of days and she gives you a BBBJ and kissing occurs, couldn't you catch herpes just as easily as BBFS? What if you kiss a girl who has some sort of STI/STD in the back of their throat? I can pass on the BJ and DATY but I just HAVE to kiss but it worries me if she was sucking on some guy that has an STD that isn't visible at the time.

All of this makes me think that doing all of BBBJ, DATY and Kissing is just as dangerous as BBFS. Opinions?
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Lol what are you doing on this website if your only 19 ? I hope your not using your tuition loans to pay for escorting. 6-7 escorts is pretty steep $ for a 19 year old.
 
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assholee

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Lol what are you doing on this website if your only 19 ? I hope your not using your tuition loans to pay for escorting. 6-7 escorts is pretty steep $ for a 19 year old.
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I have my reasons, mainly being I broke up with my gf a while back and I got depressed soooo I dont want to get into a relationship anymore since I get too attached lol plus its sooo much work... I like being single... For now atleast.

And no I don't have any loans for school. I have a part time job but yeah most of my money does go into escorting since I started, but im hooked lol
 
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assholee said:
So I'm new to this hobby, I'm 19 and...
Wouldn't getting a BBBJ, giving DATY and Kissing all together be just as dangerous as BBFS...All of this makes me think that doing all of BBBJ, DATY and Kissing is just as dangerous as BBFS. Opinions?
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If BBBJ concerns you, you could go for a safe GFE route. I am sure that there are agencies/escorts that will acomodate your wishes if you choose not to partake in DATY or Kissing.
 
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Aardvark154

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Assholee, just remember that getting a degree is the important thing in your life at present. Many of us have been there.
 
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freestuff

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assholee said:
yeah most of my money does go into escorting since I started, but im hooked lol
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So you've been escorts already. Why are you asking the questions now?
Is kissing+daty+bbbj as risky as BBFS? Probably not. But having any sort of sexual activity will entail risks. If you want to avoid all risks then just masturbate. If you still want to have sex with another person then go with no kissing, no daty and everything covered.
 
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fun-guy

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You can always see Emm, she's pretty safe, no DFK, your choice not to do DATY and ask for CBJ, then you've cut your risk way down, she's pretty young too, in your age group. Just remember to use a condom when doing the deed, lol.
 
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Anything BB has risk associated with it.

If someone has herpes on their mouth and you kiss them, you may be at higher risk (in that specific situation) than if you had BBFS. You can always design a scenario to make a particular activity appear dangerous or safe depending on your inclination.

The risk in this hobby is not so much from the individual encounters but probabilities taken over repeated contact with multiple partners. Each time you roll the dice you risk that the outcome will be unfavorable. The safer you play, the less your risk but it's never risk-free.

In reality, contact that is too overly protected is not worth the time and (in this hobby) cost. Thus, we each decide what risks we're comfortable taking and what we choose to avoid.

As others have suggested, informing yourself of the risks and mechanics of disease transmission is an important first step...and that education will not start on TERB. It's fine to ask questions and enjoy the variety of responses you'll receive but if your own health is at stake, are you sure you want to trust anonymous strangers, some of whom have very odd agendas?
 
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Wallstreet

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dont listen to any of the idoits who are bashing you. the kid is asking a good question, he`s concerned about his safety and educating himself what the hells wrong with that? keep in mind you should be saving that $ instead of spending it on escorts, its up to you how you want to spend your $ but $240/hour minim. wage job thats a lot of hours.
assholee, go to the forums and click on `health` section you will get transferred to https://merb.cc where there is a health section where a nurse posted a sticky thread outlining all the risks of bbbj and kissing. educate yourself from that and then decide if its worth the risk.
 
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whitewaterguy

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Aardvark154 said:
Assholee, just remember that getting a degree is the important thing in your life at present. Many of us have been there.
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assholee..i would pass on the advice to get a degree ;lots of those working at the GM plant...find a great trade and you will be set for life. i suggest carpentry;millwright, plumbing.bricklayer;electrician
 
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