meet their standards

[lovetolick1967]

do anybody feel like me.i want to meet some of toronto's beautiful and sexy escorts but do you feel that you might not meet their standards and wary away from them.do money always talk,looks,weight etc....

thanks

 

[Moraff]

As long as you have their fee, act polite and are clean (clothes and body) I don't think they'll turn you away.

 

[Rockslinger]

As long as you have their fee, act polite and are clean (clothes and body) I don't think they'll turn you away.

Sounds good. Don't think they are looking at their client pool for a potential husband. Query: What type of men do SP's marry?

 

[Hangman]

Obviously there are some basic standards and the lady can always decline your business. But that's no reason to avoid making an appointment.

Part of the whole point of this hobby is getting to bang chicks you may not normally have a chance with. The cash part sort of evens it out...

 

[gramage]

The only standard I worry about is the rate, but for reasons other then financial. I like to think I'm a good client who will be a gentleman so no worries there despite my somewhat tubby body. But if a lady has a rate or minimum time that I would have to save up a little extra to maintain, to me it implies that she is looking for a certain type of client from a certain class/field and that we may not click since I'm not that guy nor do I want to be most the things (professions) that would make you that guy.

I don't know that thats failing to meet their standard so much as not being their target demographic. And I may be completely out to lunch on this.

 

[PolrBear]

As long as you are clean, polite and respectful, I can't see you being turned away. Although I am sure they all want 10 inches of solid mass, I think they would settle for less, provided you were all of the above and paid the donation in full.

 

[GDLLover]

As long as you are clean, polite and respectful, I can't see you being turned away. Although I am sure they all want 10 inches of solid mass, I think they would settle for less, provided you were all of the above and paid the donation in full.

All the above and the number one pet peeve the ladies have;

'No shows'

This is a good way for them to refuse a future meeting. I have yet to be a no show and haven't had a problem.

 

[genintoronto]

The only standard I worry about is the rate, but for reasons other then financial. I like to think I'm a good client who will be a gentleman so no worries there despite my somewhat tubby body. But if a lady has a rate or minimum time that I would have to save up a little extra to maintain, to me it implies that she is looking for a certain type of client from a certain class/field and that we may not click since I'm not that guy nor do I want to be most the things (professions) that would make you that guy.

I don't know that thats failing to meet their standard so much as not being their target demographic. And I may be completely out to lunch on this.

I do think that ladies with higher than average market rates or minimum time (such as 2 hours minimum) do have a target demographic that may not be the average hobbyists, but from what I gather, it's not so much a class demographic that they are trying to target, as a certain kind of client.

In other words, I don't think it's the social class/background of the client that matter to them so much as the kind of experience that the client who is OK with paying 800 for a minimum of 2 hours is looking for.

 

[hinz]

I once try to meet one of those toronto's beautiful and sexy escorts, with the money and min time I am willing and able to pay but she declined my appointment b/c

-she didn't want to take dude in mid 20s
-she didn't see herself playing tongue hockey with colour people (that's her word)
-She didn't take average joes as clients unless she could do a "background check" to verify I am either sports athlete or big shots at the Bay Street or yes, politicans!!!

Thank goodness she just save the dough and myself from dealing with a drama queen

 

[Moraff]

I once try to meet one of those toronto's beautiful and sexy escorts, with the money and min time I am willing and able to pay but she declined my appointment b/c

-she didn't want to take dude in mid 20s
-she didn't see herself playing tongue hockey with colour people (that's her word)
-She didn't take average joes as clients unless she could do a "background check" to verify I am either sports athlete or big shots at the Bay Street or yes, politicans!!!

Thank goodness she just save the dough and myself from dealing with a drama queen

I would think it better to have her decline to see you because you don't fit her demographic than to take your money and provide an uninspired session no?

 

[wet_suit_one]

Goddamn those SP's!

Excersing a choice over who they see and who touches their body and who fucks them! The NERVE!!!



And just so no one misunderstands me (I know, there are a few low IQ types around here), the above comment was SARCASM. Get a dictionary and look it up.

As for you hinz, that message was squarely directed at you. Jay-sus...

 

[hinz]

I would think it better to have her decline to see you because you don't fit her demographic than to take your money and provide an uninspired session no?

Exactly, I don't want to have my hard earn money getting ripped off by her, right after the CRA takes their cut.

BTW, it would be interesting if she takes a loaded client who turned out to become a scandal like Eliot Spitzer.....

 

[moviefan]

do anybody feel like me.i want to meet some of toronto's beautiful and sexy escorts but do you feel that you might not meet their standards and wary away from them.do money always talk,looks,weight etc....

thanks

One advantage of seeing young, attractive SPs is that I know I don't meet their real-life standards.

Regardless, the best ones still know how to make you feel like a million bucks. I say, enjoy the fantasy and go with it.

 

[Ol' Sodomy Sam]

I absolutely feel this way. Whilst I consider myself well-spoken, gregarious (after a drink ot two), and a decent human being, with the wherewithal to afford an encounter that might stretch to the $1000 mark for those with minimum requiements, I still worry about my weight impacting my experience in a negative way. To be honest, I haven't experienced any other sort of prejudice in my life, and so maybe I shouldn't be crying about it, but given that fat people are still openly criticized, I'm afraid that someone who likely puts a lot of effort into keeping themselves slim to please the majority of the pooning crowd with have less regard for those like myself who put butter in everthing they cook, and drink like Lords during the week-end.

As such, even though I have often considered it, I have refrained from visiting a well-reviewed, though currently non-advertising (and thus nameless) SP in the $700 per two hour bracket. Were I to take the leap, I'm sure I could be an engaging dinner companion, and a sufficiently adept lover that she could trick me into believing I was doing a good job , but given that she wants to spend some time learning about clients before the encounter, I'm afraid of a performance on her part that doesn't meet with the glowing reviews, because she can't get into it.

Her perogative, of course, and I well understand the concept of YMMV. The result is, though, I am more likely to spend time with those who are generally well-reviewed, and who's site is lighter on the "let's get to know each other beforehand" content.

In the end, I have to consider the potential downside of missing out on someone who really appeals to me, and who's reviews lend credence to the belief that she would be an empathetic partner. I guess if your concern is getting the most liberal acronyms out of a SP, then there are places to find that, but why not give the girl of your dreams a chance? Y'know, I think I've talked myself into it! "C", I'll be looking for you next time I get to Toronto, and the belly be damned! Ah, but wait, I'm going bald, too. Sigh. Maybe there'll be a few "car date" ads on Craigslist to pick from, then.

 

[GDLLover]

....
-she didn't want to take dude in mid 20s
...

This is sometimes true. Some ladies don't want to take a chance running into a immature ass. Usually there is less chance of this for the over 30 crowd. This is not implying that under 30 guys are jerks, but if you notice some ladies bios they will mention it if they have had any bad experiences in the past. Seems the Gods Gift To Women type (lookup Gen descriptions) are more often in the under 30 category.

GDL

 

[Miss Maya Blue]

maybe some of you fellas just need to hear it from us ladies.

looks are superficial. we women just ask that we be treated with respect
(and that means observing great hygiene too)

if anything i have learned in my years of SP'ing, its that FANTASTIC sex can be had with people most would consider unattractive by societies standards.

i have had full on, mind blowing tantric experiences with some overweight and older men. i have had better sex with some of my chubby balding clients then some past boyfriends too. lo

for me, it is much more important that you be kind, clean polite, and good to go =)

a great attitude and a desire for a mutually enjoyable time is often all it takes.

that said, everyone has personal preferences. for some SP's, seeing younger clients is undesirable. for me personally, a bushy unkept beard on a much older man is my one peeve. if you are someone that is overwieght, and it makes you feel more comfortable to disclose this in an email, then do so. chances are you will get a positive response, and if you don't, so be it, find someone else who you like and consider yourself lucky for not having wasted your time. life is too short.

what makes a woman a particularily good escort is maybe the willingness to see past superficial appearances, and instead enjoy the ride

 

[GotGusto]

do anybody feel like me.i want to meet some of toronto's beautiful and sexy escorts but do you feel that you might not meet their standards and wary away from them.do money always talk,looks,weight etc....

thanks

If you're in NYC or LA, there is a lot more money to go around so the high end escorts often do filter clients based on looks, age, ethnicity, etc. Those things do matter to them, but in Toronto it's harder for them to exercise their personal likes or dislikes. Limiting their clients based on those attributes has a much more dramatic effect on their potential income.

If they cut out seeing clients who are over 50, they'd probably lose 50% of their income. If they cut out obese clients, that income drop rises to 75%. If they stop seeing Asian clients on top of that, they'd lose 99% of their income. These are wild guestimates, but there is an undenidable kernel of truth in it.

Really, that should be a psychological motivator for you. You're seeing SPs who in their daily lives wouldn't give you the time of day no matter what. But the moment you flash a couple bills in her face after hours, she's suddenly prepared to have your raw sausage in her mouth. Beforehand, in the mainstream world, you couldn't buy her enough gifts to sleep with her. You'd spend thousands and get no play at all. Yet you give her a fraction of that money behind closed doors, and you're in her within minutes. The world is a wonderful place when you look at it from alternate points of view.

The client breakdown in this city would look something like this:
75% over 50 years old
40% Asian
40% White
2% Other ethnicity
70% Obese

So don't fret. It's a supply and demand thing, and in TO, you're good to go.

 

[Hangman]

So, lovetolick1967, do you feel better now about visiting some of Toronto's finest?

(I do so love it when original posters put up an open-ended concern and then just disappear...)

 

[HafDun]

maybe some of you fellas just need to hear it from us ladies.

looks are superficial. we women just ask that we be treated with respect
(and that means observing great hygiene too)

if anything i have learned in my years of SP'ing, its that FANTASTIC sex can be had with people most would consider unattractive by societies standards.

i have had full on, mind blowing tantric experiences with some overweight and older men. i have had better sex with some of my chubby balding clients then some past boyfriends too. lo

for me, it is much more important that you be kind, clean polite, and good to go =)

a great attitude and a desire for a mutually enjoyable time is often all it takes.

that said, everyone has personal preferences. for some SP's, seeing younger clients is undesirable. for me personally, a bushy unkept beard on a much older man is my one peeve. if you are someone that is overwieght, and it makes you feel more comfortable to disclose this in an email, then do so. chances are you will get a positive response, and if you don't, so be it, find someone else who you like and consider yourself lucky for not having wasted your time. life is too short.

what makes a woman a particularily good escort is maybe the willingness to see past superficial appearances, and instead enjoy the ride

And that is why you are worth every penny.

 

[lovetolick1967]

So, lovetolick1967, do you feel better now about visiting some of Toronto's finest?

(I do so love it when original posters put up an open-ended concern and then just disappear...)

who disappear,i,m tallying my options