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Stew Bing - Time Waster

Sexy_Hannah

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This one is mainly for the other girls.

So I’ve only been working a week and I’ve already experienced a time-waster. This guy wrote me an e-mail to my live.com address saying he was interested and had added me to his MSN Messenger. So I logged onto Messenger, added him as well, and started chatting with him.

We chatted on Messenger for a while, and he seemed very interested in me. He booked a time with me for 8:00 p.m., and I figured we were on. But at about 7 p.m. he started changing his story. First he asked me if I could come out to his place instead - but would only give his street, no address (he said he’d call me and give his actual address when I was almost there). I said no, as I didn’t have a ride on such short notice, and I also told him that outcalls don’t work that way - you give your address in full, as well as your phone number, before the SP even walks out the door. It was at this point I started getting suspicious. He hemmed and hawed for a while longer, and asked me if I would meet him at a club in town first. I said no again, and by this time I was getting frustrated as it was almost time for our appointment, and he was by now wasting time.

He moved up the appointment to 8:30 p.m., promising that he’d show up. But every time I tried to log off Messenger, saying things like, “Okay, got to go now, it’s almost time for our appointment”, he’d keep asking more questions. I eventually told him I was logging off, no more chatting, and shut down Messenger.

Well sure enough, he never showed up. It’s pretty obvious to me that he’s a total time-waster, and even though he claimed to me that he’s “been hobbying for a long time”, it’s more likely he’s been wasting escorts’ time for a long time instead. It looks like his thing is to get an SP on Messenger, promise a big appointment, but then try to keep her talking for as long as he possibly can. He must get his jollies by intentionally wasting the time of escorts. I don’t understand it myself.

Girls, avoid this guy at all costs. His e-mail and Messenger name is Stew Bing. During our Messenger chat he told me that his real first name is Zach. I doubt that’s true, but I’m sharing it with everyone to help the girls avoid this idiot.

I hope this helps.
 

BBW...secrets

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beware the bing

yep this guy is a real winner........not!

earlier this week he tried to set up appointment with me also, and 1 other sp in chat.... he was booking us both for the same time and we dont work together, same city, but 2 differant locations.............................
real winner BING..........so not cool!!!!!
 

joseppi

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Ladies learn to book by phone only. There are alot of freaks out there that want to lure you in. If a guy does not have the balls to pick up the phone and call you he's not worth it. When you talk to someone on the phone you can get a sence of what kind of person he or she is. I usually can.
 

amber-jade

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joseppi said:
Ladies learn to book by phone only. There are alot of freaks out there that want to lure you in. If a guy does not have the balls to pick up the phone and call you he's not worth it. When you talk to someone on the phone you can get a sence of what kind of person he or she is. I usually can.
it doesn't make a difference,
still a high % of no shows ,
either / or
online , or phone bokings
:mad:




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Keyra

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He's Done It To Me Too!

I've dealt with this doofus before too - twice!

When I first started working, he contacted me via e-mail in early December. First he wanted an incall, then decided he'd prefer an outcall "if the wife is away". By "wife" I'm pretty sure he meant his mom (whose basement he probably lives in). Then he gives me a bogus address, and I ended up driving around, trying to find a house number that doesn't exist. But I gave him the benefit of the doubt, because I'd asked him for his address, and in the same e-mail made the mistake of asking him his age. His response was succinct: 34. (That was the entire message.) I took that to be his address, he later claimed it was his age. I suppose it's a mistake that could have happened, but if you're arranging a visit from an SP, and she asks you for your address, why reply with the answer to a different question and *not* give her your address?

Anyway, he didn't contact me again for a while, so I didn't think much of it. But then he e-mails me again just two weeks ago. It was a Saturday afternoon. He says he wants an appointment for later that night, and is talking like we've never communicated before. I remembered him, but didn't let on, figuring I'd give him a chance. We set things up no problem, he says he'll be here. Sounds enthusiastic. I figure great, maybe it really was just a misunderstanding.

Nope. About an hour before our appointment, he writes me again wanting to change it to an outcall because he's now "too drunk to drive". I say sure - give me your address and phone number. He writes back with a street (a different one this time, but still in the same neighbourhood within a block of the street he gave last December, I guess his mom hasn't moved after all), but no house number, and no phone number. I ask for an address, he tells me to park by some mailboxes at the end of the lane and he'll call me when I get there (sound familiar?). I tell him no, I don't go anywhere without a full address *and* a phone number which I'll call to confirm before leaving.

He then decides to come and see me instead. But then he starts asking question after question ... can he get a half-hour instead of an hour, menu questions, everything you can think of. He practically started asking sports and politics questions. After a while I told him that I'd had enough and to stop wasting my time and his - either come out or forget about it. He moves the appointment up by a half-hour (sound familiar again?) and absolutely *promises* to show up. But then he continues with the rapid-fire stupid questions. I eventually stopped responding, hoping he'd get the hint and show up.

Of course, he didn't show up. Hannah's story sounds eerily familiar to me, and I agree with her assessment - this nimrod obviously gets his rocks off by *intentionally* wasting the time of SPs. I don't know what kind of twisted individual gets enjoyment out of fucking around with people like that, but I frankly don't care. I don't have him blocked - yet - because I'm looking forward to him trying to e-mail me again. If/when he does, I've got several choice words waiting for him.

Hannah's right - ladies AVOID THIS SCUMBAG AT ALL COSTS!!! He'll do nothing but waste your time over and over ... Fucking loser ...

Sorry about my language, I try not to swear too much, but this "Stew Bing" idiot has really pissed me off.
 

mooger

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Keyra said:
By "wife" I'm pretty sure he meant his mom (whose basement he probably lives in).
I damn near fell off my chair at that. Well done Keyra :)
 
Wow, I wish I had read this thread a few days ago! I had the exact same thing with Stew on Thursday night. Wanted a Sunday appointment, but had lots of questions, and wanted to chat first. About everything and anything.... what was I wearing, what ws I doing, what do I like to do in bed; on and on. I eventually told him I had to go to bed, and logged off messenger.

Sheesh!

~Jamie
 
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calloway

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Sex Goddess Jamie said:
had lots of questions, and wanted to chat first. About everything and anything.... what was I wearing, what ws I doing, what do I like to do in bed; on and on.
Hey Jamie... what are you wearing right now and what do you like to do in bed? :D
 

Twinklegirl

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When They start asking stupid question after stupid question, I just tell them they are wasting my time and ignore them afterward.

Once I had someone email me after I did that and say "I thought you seemed nice, and now you seem not so nice". lol After playing 20 questions, he was on my last nerve.
 

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Sexy_Hannah said:
hey i found out his name on terb its just: bing
so watch out ladies
Sorry, but unless he's a complete idiot (which is a possibility) he'll just come back under a different name.

He's dumb enough to play the same bullshit all the time... so just remember his game.
 

Sterlin

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Anyone else think that a guy who has the time to MSN the ladies for 2 hours just to annoy them might be the same kinda guy who has the time to flag every ad on craiglist?
 

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Sex Goddess Jamie said:
Lol.... wouldn't you like to know :) It might kill your pacemaker, Calloway!
I think he uses Energizer. It keeps going and going....

I hope he doesn't use those dollar store batteries. They work for 10 minutes then die. Not so handy in a pacemaker. lol
 

jessica_dark

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As soon as a guy starts asking questions I've answered 3 times before, he's grouped with the no-shows. I don't get the thrill of a guy promising all these things and then wasting a girl's time with BS. What is the turn on there? I've come to pick things up very quick in conversations over msn, phone and emails. As soon as he starts asking very obvious questions he's just whacking off and will never pay for anything. You'll see the more clients you talk to.
 
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