G-Spot

[cliff1]

Ok, here is the question, have any of you guys out there ( or ladies ) made your partner have a G-Spot orgasm or squirt?

I have been trying it for the last bit with the GF but she can only get so far and has this over whelming urge to pee even though she goes to the bathroom before. She feels it build up & I can feel her swelling and getting wetter but we just can’t get to the squirt or orgasm part of it. But as soon as she hops on top of me in a minute or 2 she is having an orgasm.

So can any one provide some info or tricks to have this act go through to fruition?

Thanks

 

[Kyra.Graves]

I have been trying it for the last bit with the GF but she can only get so far and has this over whelming urge to pee even though she goes to the bathroom before.

Thanks

Keep going when she thinks she has to pee... she won't pee she'll squirt. It's kinda confusing her first few times but the feeling of having to pee is actually her about to have an orgasm. The more you practice the easier it gets so keep doing it and she'll get used to the feeling and it'll become easier and faster for her to do. Good luck!

 

[Dissey23]

if she's feeling the need to pee then you're doing it right! Just tell her to keep going and she should blow! But while some women will have forceful ejaculations, others wont.

 

[Dissey23]

argh...Kyra beat me to the punch! ; )

 

[train]

I had this happen for the first time recently and it was the coolest thing I've experience in awhile. I must say I was totally surprised by the amount of fluid. It felt like about 4 or 5 oz. Fascinating. Clear ordourless fluid.
Along with multiples another reason to be jealous of women.

 

[cliff1]

Well no luck yet... We just get to that peeing feeling and she can't get past it... anyone have any sugestions for me...

 

[Cycleguy007]

When she feels the urge to pee, just keep going, and reassure her that its ok! Tell her to bare down and release it, because its NOT pee. (Many scientific studies have been done to prove this.)

 

[OnTheWayOut]

I can't believe no one has offered to go over and help him yet *lol*

 

[Cycleguy007]

I can't believe no one has offered to go over and help him yet *lol*

Actually I was going to offer to bring my girlfriend over so she could help her, but I figured I'd better check with her first!

 

[Cycleguy007]

Further to my earlier msg, this is an area of human sexuality I have done extensive research on, in order to pleasure my female lovers in as many ways possible! As I mentioned earlier, many scientific experiments have been conducted, and have concluded that the liquid being "squirted" is NOT Pee. (Although that is not always the case in porn- or is it erotica(?) where it is "faked" for the amusement of the viewer.)

The liquid is in fact what they are calling "prostate specific antigen", with only minute trace amounts of "wee" since its chosen path of expulsion is through the urethra, (similar to a male's ejaculate). I have also conducted my own experiment, trust me... it is NOT "wee"! LOL

I don't know why it is called PSA since women obviously do not have a prostate. I am not a gynecologist, or a doctor of any kind, nor am I a scientist... but, all humans are essentially the same prior to conception (in that the default sex for all human ovum is female...) and that gender specifics are determined AFTER conception in the womb (based on the number of X &/or Y chromosomes in the male sperm cell...) if the male chromosome is dominant, the ovaries develop into testicles, clitoris into a penis etc... That being said, the female equivalent to the male prostate gland IS present in a female... but for one reason or another they call it something else entirely.

The female "prostate" is also known as the skeens gland, or perhaps you may have heard it being referred to as the grafenberg spot (after German physician "Ernst Grafenberg") or simply the G-spot. (This is also why the prostate gland is sometimes referred to as the male "g-spot"). Anyway, the skeens gland secretes essentially the same fluid along the urethra in females as the prostate does in males... but for some other unknown reason they do not rename it for females... This PSA fuid is the same stuff that lubricates the vulva etc on a female, making intercourse much more pleasurable. In most cases, the fluid is slowly secreted out onto the vulva producing the "wet pussy" we are all so fond of... but in some cases, with enough stimulation, the G-spot or skeens gland will actually "ejaculate" this fluid out of the female's urethra in much the same way as an ejaculation does in a male.

 

[Cycleguy007]

its really very fascinating stuff isnt it.

I couldn't agree more! I love learning about this stuff!

i think that female sexuality is still a little bit of a mystery.

A mystery I will spend a lifetime learning about! Its that whole commitment to lifelong education I have! LOL (And it's fun to learn new things ESPECIALLY about a woman's body!

at least in so far as the exact details like exactly where the liquid comes from, and exactly what it is... and so on they know its not pee though, lol.

As I have also learned as much in my own experimentation on the subject!

the page i referenced said that different glands were responsible for the usual wet pussy kind of lubrication, than the fluid that cums with female ejaculation.

I'm not surprised. I am sure there are a number of different fluids responsible! I will have to give that a read when I get a chance. Thanks Celest! Like I said, I am no doctor or anything, but I sure do enjoy exploring for myself! You're lucky that you have all "that equipment" yourself to explore and experiment with! ;-) LOL

 

[21pro]

Keep going when she thinks she has to pee... she won't pee she'll squirt. It's kinda confusing her first few times but the feeling of having to pee is actually her about to have an orgasm. The more you practice the easier it gets so keep doing it and she'll get used to the feeling and it'll become easier and faster for her to do. Good luck!

... and is why there is urine in squirt.

tell her to push the pee out when the urge is there. that'll get her over it.

 

[snowleopard]

but, all humans are essentially the same prior to conception (in that the default sex for all human ovum is female...) and that gender specifics are determined AFTER conception in the womb (based on the number of X &/or Y chromosomes in the male sperm cell...) if the male chromosome is dominant, the ovaries develop into testicles, clitoris into a penis etc... That being said, the female equivalent to the male prostate gland IS present in a female... but for one reason or another they call it something else entirely.

So we all originate as the fairer sex,
but for reasons far too complex,
half choose ovaries, clit and breast,
while cock and balls go to the rest,
all at the behest of some double-helix.

Life truly is a beautiful and mysterious thing

 

[Cycleguy007]

So we all originate as the fairer sex,
but for reasons far too complex,
half choose ovaries, clit and breast,
while cock and balls go to the rest,
all at the behest of some double-helix.

Life truly is a beautiful and mysterious thing

Clever! yes, it truly is a beautiful and mysterious thing

 

[Stoo]

i think that female sexuality is still a little bit of a mystery.

Now there's an understatement!!!

I find that women can often have an intense orgasm with a little "G-spotting", but it's a big jump to squirting. Maybe it's just a matter of not wanting to sleep in a really BIG wetspot!

 

[RTRD]

Interesting...

...input from all.

I've never actually endeavored to make any woman "squirt"...never had a request, never saw the value / benefit for myself.

But...

The EX-GF was a squinter. She said she had never done it before...I was the first to bring this out of her. And it never happened as per to pornos...no doubt in part because as I said, I / we never sat out to make it happen.

But...

If we had sex and the angles were right and the planets aligned...

(insofar as the angles, it seemed to be when my cock was directly stimulating her g-spot, and if you are wondering why didn't we do it that way all the time, it was because she like having her cervix tapped just as much if not more, and it was one or the other....insofar as the planets aligning...I have no idea what else was required...maybe it was the coincidental consumption of copious amounts of fluid in advance...)

...she would squirt. I never saw it, even though I tried a couple times (adjusting to get a peak changed the angles), but I could FEEL IT...literally a stream of fluid hitting me...tickling me. And the bed would be SOAKED.

Again...she said she had never had that experience before. And based on MY observations of her (and that fact that she never said otherwise)....it didn't SEEM to be associated with any sort of out of this world orgasm of any sort, like in the pornos. It was more a matter of being able to tell she was REALLY enjoying herself...more so than usual...but no EXPLOSION of emotion or excitement or anything like that. However, she did once theorize that perhaps these were episodes of an "extended" orgasm...she was pretty orgasmic (the first lover I ever had who more than regularly could and would have vaginal orgasms from penetration) and sometimes (maybe 20% of the time?) would have multiples...so her guess was that perhaps these squirting events were mild multiples strung together into one continuous mild orgasm.

Man...I loved sex with that woman...the best sex of my life. Not the kinkiest, not the freakiest (which is why I scoffed at some of the things you guys wrote in the other thread about "bad sex"...), and while she was not what I would call an inhibited woman at all, she was modest, so she didn't walk around naked except right after sex, and didn't sleep in the nude unless it was passing out after sex. But that woman LOVED to fuck, and man was she good at it...

Shit...I am going to miss that....I cannot be certain that I will feel that level of emotional connection to someone who is that sexual again. Great sex with someone you love is just fucking amazing....

 

[smokhee]

Wow, that sounds incredible. I am seeing a girl who orgasms over 10 times routinely during sex. Amazing contractions on my johnson, but never any squirting. That leads me to a question-- do all women contract enough during orgasm that you can feel it?

 

[Muskol]

Ahhh that takes me back...

My first girlfriend was a gusher. She wouldn't win any contests for distance, but volume -- ooh boy, a contender. We were both 16-17 at the time and virgins prior, so it was new and exciting.

Every time she came over, I'd ask her if she brought a towel (any avid South Park fan will know that you should ALWAYS bring a towel!) -- we'd fold it up a bunch of times for thickness and that thing would still get soaked. to. the. bone.

She never came like that during penetration, only with clitoral stimulation. I didn't know where or what the g-spot was at the time either so it didn't seem linked to that in her particular case. I'm talking about just rubbing the button... no digits... nothing like that.

Also for her it felt like an overwhelming urge to pee -- she was hesitant at first. With my encouragement and persistence she let it go and from that point on, every time we had sex I would make her cum a handful of times just by rubbing her clit and she would gush every single time. Warm, odourless, colourless, liquid ecstasy. Can't say anything about the taste because she never really got comfortable with DATY following her releases.

That was so long ago now... she was the only girl I've been with that's been able (or open) to do that.

The wife now is capable of multiple orgasms during sex -- she'll work her own clit whilst I pound away -- but nothing beyond normal 'wet pussy'... I miss it.

 

[Jade4u]

As long as I have my clit and my shower I will be happy anytime I want it. But with that it does take longer as there is no man to hold my legs firm.

 

[cliff1]

Well after numerous tries… no luck. We keep getting to that peeing point but she just can’t release, she just can’t seem to relax to have that feeling. I’ve tried it by itself, I have tried it with oral & she just can’t get past that stage.

She did mention that she feels the orgasm building up during oral, then when you insert your fingers and start pressing on that spot she looses the oral feeling of an orgasm coming and has a different feeling. Once you take the fingers out a couple seconds later she is having an orgasm from oral… All in all it is not as easy as we thought it would be…

Does any one have any tricks they use or is it the way you move your fingers, is it an in out movement while pressing up on the top or is it that come hither motion with your fingers. Is there a trick to relax to have that squirting/flowing orgasm?

Any more help then has already been provided would be greatly appreciated.