Why does this happen?

DavidO

Easily confused member
Aug 21, 2001
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I had a meeting recently with a young woman who was visiting Ottawa. She'd been well reviewed, pictures looked nice, all seemed fine and rather up-market. I wanted to treat myself.

We traded PMs, and that seemed fine. She allowed as how she'd cater to my clothing request without a problem (short skirt and pantyhose, no bra or panties). Nothing *too* weird, but I'm fussy, I admit

We set up a meeting time, no prob. I confirmed the details (including wardrobe) the night before by PM, no prob. She pointed me at her phone number, and I gave her mine.

I tried to call to get the location details, no answer, left a message. She eventually called me after I PM'ed her, apologized, we set up a new appointment for an hour and a half after our original one, and she asked me to call her when I got to a general area.

Phoned when I got to that area, no answer, left another message. She called me back a few minutes later, gave me a location and room number.

I arrived, and was disappointed; it's a motel. Oh well, knock on the door, and she answers wearing, yes, a matching bra and panty set. No skirt, no pantyhose ("They didn't have any." ). Sigh.

Anyhow, no money traded hands, but it really made me wonder. Why take requests if you won't follow up? Why market yourself as upscale and then stay in a motel?

DavidO
 

xix

Time Zone Traveller
Jul 27, 2002
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La la land
It's not like the old days anymore. I notice in the past few years whether it's SP/MP or SC, girls will say anything for a buck and not follow the practice at all.
In the SC I would say 7/10 girls mainly the foreigner girls will simply say " Hi, want a dance?" As opposed to the old school they at least talk for 45 seconds. Then when they give you a dance they just want to talk and not dance at all and not take off their clothes.

I notice they are there to do you a favour since you( not you personally but all men) cannot get a woman and all men are perverts and this is why all men go to SP/Mp/SC places.

I would like to throw them this question: "Why are you here for then ?"
Most don't like the environment but the $$$ is easy.
 

Blue-Spheroid

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Jun 30, 2007
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She'd been well reviewed, pictures looked nice, all seemed fine and rather up-market.
Maybe one of the reasons that things like this can happen is that no one wants to post a critical review. If your post was in a different section and included the name of the SP, it would qualify as such a review but, instead, you've chosen to post here and not reveal the SP's identity. This probably means that someone else will get burned like you did.

When an SP is not held accountable for her poor service, she has no motivation to do better. Some ladies take pride in their work and set a high standard for themselves while other, unfortunately, just do the bare minimum it takes to get by.

Perhaps there are reasons not to post a review of this experience. If so, you should give them. That's my opinion.
 

Rockslinger

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Apr 24, 2005
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Must be the water in Ottawa. Tip-Drill and now DavidO experienced problems with touring escorts.
 

kkelso

Well-known member
Apr 27, 2003
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Maybe one of the reasons that things like this can happen is that no one wants to post a critical review. If your post was in a different section and included the name of the SP, it would qualify as such a review but, instead, you've chosen to post here and not reveal the SP's identity. This probably means that someone else will get burned like you did.

This is a small reason I tend to shy away from indys. Many, even in Canada, require some personal information thus giving them the ability to "out" me if I left a negative review.
 

marikiss

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Feb 21, 2008
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Of course if she did that she'd blow all credibility, with board members and with 106 000+ members that's a big gamble.
 

GDLLover

Pop Rock Kid
Of course if she did that she'd blow all credibility, with board members and with 106 000+ members that's a big gamble.
Agree, negative review or not the lady will loose all credibility for outing someone publicly. Confidentiality is the number one concern on all SP & hobbiest minds. Negative reviews while upsetting to the SP, they can still be offset by good reviews. Outing someone is business suicide as everyone knows not to trust someone that does this.
 

marikiss

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Feb 21, 2008
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See? Come on Davey write a review so guys know what they're getting! It's your fault if guys get a bait and switch from her now.
 
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