It's not that difficult guys, if you want your balls licked make sure they are squeeky clean by taking that shower.
Clients who refuse to shower before a session begins
- Thread starter Jessica S
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Some guys don't want to be clean for her.
I suspect many of these like the idea of having her do something they find repulsive. It's why bjs, greek, facials, being rimmed etc are desired, sadly it's part of humiliating, controlling and getting even with women.
I suspect many of these like the idea of having her do something they find repulsive. It's why bjs, greek, facials, being rimmed etc are desired, sadly it's part of humiliating, controlling and getting even with women.
I can't confirm this story. There was a story that this guy walked out of his shower just to find out that the room was empty and even his clothes were gone! After hearing something like that I usually left my clothes in the bathroom after I finished cleaning and walked out naked (with a towel) to see the girl in the bedroom. And, I always carry just enough cash to pay for the service plus tips ofcourse. Limiting my losses just in case I got robbed while I supposed to have fun with the girl!
Kind of odd to me that a guy would strip outside the bathroom and leave his clothes, wallet, keys, etc. there.
Damn, so sorry to hear that! If a client is coming to see an SP, she must respect him for coming to see her as much as he should respect her for seeing him. So if some SP took the poor man's clothes and money while he was showering, well she basically just screwed herself... because now that client will tell everyone he knows, and chances are she will get a terrible review, and will lose business for a while after that. If a girl is smart, she would never screw herself over this way.
I know you're being facetious and perhaps you missed what I was getting at when I said you touch door handles, elevator buttons, etc.. Do you never do digits with ladies?
and likewise for her, she has no idea if you shower before seeing her either. She has just as much concern about you as you do about her, so why not get that concern out of the way right up front to have the best session possible? So you basically feel the ladies should trust you upon first meeting them and if they don't and ask you to shower you simply refuse and leave. Interesting approach.U Terr Ova said:
Depends on the setup of the incall. I often leave my clothes on the wing chair that is beside the bed and then head for the shower. In the winter, sometimes the lady will take your coat and hang it in the closet. Ever leave your car keys in your coat? I've heard stories of the SP passing your keys along to someone (or opening the car through the window), ransacking your car, and then returning the keys to your coat. Yet another reason to stick to reputable agencies/indys.
Who's dumb enough to take ANYTHING but the bare essentials into an incall with them????
Hobbying 101 clearly advises one to leave wallet/ jewelry/ watch/ phone/ everything locked in the car. The only thing I bring in with me is the gift bag for the lady (envelopes are so passe :wink
, and the clothes on my person. I undress in the bathroom & leave my clothes in there...Come on people... get a clue.
Oh, and have a shower and have a good time!
I agree with Ridgeman, hobbying 101 should become a sticky for newbies. While not a big deal with well known girls or agencies, your BP types are fraught with unknowns.
I'm sure many guys only want to take the shower at the end because they don't want to use up any of their time, but really, 3-5 mins at the beginning can mean more in the end. So yes, have a shower and have a good time.
I'm sure many guys only want to take the shower at the end because they don't want to use up any of their time, but really, 3-5 mins at the beginning can mean more in the end. So yes, have a shower and have a good time.
Thanks to everyone that pitched in their opinions on the shower thing. I noticed that quite a few guys want to do the shower for two. It's certainly something that I can run by the other Naughty Nuru girls, who knows we may start doing that. I personally don't mind, but no promises for the other ladies just as yet lol.
I noticed that quite a few guys want to do the shower for two. It's certainly something that I can run by the other Naughty Nuru girls, who knows we may start doing that. I personally don't mind, but no promises for the other ladies just as yet lol.Not everyone travels by car. I sometimes take the subway to see an SP on my way home from work. It shouldn't matter, as long as you have trust in the lady that you're seeing. Yet another reason to avoid the BP girls.Who's dumb enough to take ANYTHING but the bare essentials into an incall with them????
Hobbying 101 clearly advises one to leave wallet/ jewelry/ watch/ phone/ everything locked in the car. The only thing I bring in with me is the gift bag for the lady (envelopes are so passe :wink
Come on people... get a clue.
Oh, and have a shower and have a good time!
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Haha, hopefully you bring the key to car with you too.Who's dumb enough to take ANYTHING but the bare essentials into an incall with them????
Hobbying 101 clearly advises one to leave wallet/ jewelry/ watch/ phone/ everything locked in the car. The only thing I bring in with me is the gift bag for the lady (envelopes are so passe :wink
Come on people... get a clue.
Oh, and have a shower and have a good time!
Not quite sure what you mean, because all bathrooms have a door on them. Even in those incalls in a multi-room condo, you can still strip in the bathroom and take your clothes with you when you're done. The obvious solution is not to bring anything valuable with you (don't even leave anything in the car). Only bring enough cash for the donation, leave the electronics (with the exception of the cell phone), credit cards and ID (some SP's check ID for the birthday special) at home. You're right in that if a SP is going to steal from you there's nothing you can do other than not book them.
At the end of the day, we're spending time with a stranger so don't leave valuables with them. 99.999% of SP's are trustworthy and would never touch a client's things, but there are still people out there that will steal. So we have to exercise a little bit of caution. SP's don't give out their home address, real name, real cell phone number, etc. so take care to protect yourself.
I mean that sometimes I get undressed before I go into the shower. I have no issue doing this with SP's that I've seen previously.
Yes, I do digits with the ladies and I also walk with hand antiseptic which I use about 20 times a day whenever I touch anything outside of my house. I also walk with a package of babywipes in my pocket for after the session.
Really, this isn't this big a deal.
Yes, I shower right before I leave to meet the women. There's only a few weeks out of the year where the temperature outside is crazy hot and would make me sweat quicker than normal and I never go see an sp/mpa in that kind of heat anyways. Don't want to take the chance if she has AC or not and when it gets that hot I need my AC in order to be comfortable.
Like I said. In my 13 years of this hobby I have never had a problem with any sp/mpa when it comes to my cleanliness. If anything I get complimented on my body wash/cologne.
I have never refused a shower and then left. Sometimes they might ask me if I'd like a shower and I would reply. No thank you, I just showered 30mins ago then they would always say OK. From the first moment she opens the door and I walk past her she can smell how fresh I am and that I just took a shower.
Again, if a sp is adamant about the "must shower at her place rule" that's fine. This has never happened to me but if it did then that's fine. She has the right to see whom ever she wants. I have no problem with that just like if she opens the door and I don't like what I see or smell I'll turn around and leave and go to my plan B. Not a problem.
I'd rather shower in my clean bathroom with my personal shower products, fluffy clean towels, various post shower products and clean underwear/cloths. That's just how I am. I don't do "quickie showers" and I certainly don't put on the same cloths that I wore before the shower.
This will be my last post regarding this. I'm not going to go on and on about the same thing.
