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Ulan Bator

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I am sorry to say that there are some members here who feel that name-calling and insults are more important than good, honest debate or discussion.

I recently received several PM's from some of TERB's more intolerant members which did not dispute fact with fact or point with point but instead were filled with nothing but unnecessary slurs, smears and assorted insults. Since none of these messages were of a threatening nature, I simply deleted them. I have not forwarded them to the mods, something I would not have done anyway since I've been threatened before for my beliefs (not on the TERB, of course) and I really don't take them very seriously.

It would seem there are certain subjects that some members have decided cannot be discussed fairly and openly, some groups which cannot be criticized or called to account or some ideas or opinions which cannot be expressed.

While I have never sent nasty PM's to people, I will admit that there have been a few times when I, myself, have resorted to name calling and the odd insult but I've always regretted it later and have honestly tried to avoid that kind of behaviour whenever possible. Of course, I was very tempted to fire a barrage back in this case but then I realized that that is not what I'm here for.

From now on then, I will no longer post on the TERB. I will check out the reviews and assorted hobbying information periodically when I need to but the aggravation that seems to come with debating controversial subjects is something I really don't need anymore.

Thanks to all. Good bye.
 

Ceiling Cat

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Goodbye, Bator!:eek:
 

papasmerf

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never let the fools win.
It is regrettable that you will withdraw.
 

train

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I don't understand the concept of sending insulting or threatening pm's ( if you can't say it in public don't say it) but there was plenty to disagree with Baltor about.

If you want to understand what he was all about read his classic thread in the politics section about how the Jews started the Canadian Nazi party :rolleyes:
 
Can't say that I blame you... a number of popular and prolific TERB's seem to be taking the same road... especially the TERB Ladies which is MOST regrettable...

There is no question that a fair amount of rudeness is going around lately, but I am of the same belief as papasmerf, never let the fools win... I myself have not been posting as much either lately (OMG- my post average is actually dropping! LOL) :eek:

Hopefully things will settle down and all will be restored in the lounge! Until then... lurk away Bator.
 

papasmerf

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Cycleguy007 said:
Can't say that I blame you... a number of popular and prolific TERB's seem to be taking the same road... especially the TERB Ladies which is MOST regrettable...

There is no question that a fair amount of rudeness is going around lately, but I am of the same belief as papasmerf, never let the fools win... I myself have not been posting as much either lately (OMG- my post average is actually dropping! LOL) :eek:

Hopefully things will settle down and all will be restored in the lounge! Until then... lurk away Bator.
The good news is most of the bullies are or will be exposed and that ends their reign of terror.
 

onthebottom

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220 posts, that's a short TERB career and a thin skin.....

OTB
 

Big Rig

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I understand where you are coming from

I suspect some of the problem is that on the net something can be taken as an insult that was not meant to be because the tone of voice is not heard and body language is not seen

You can block the ignorant. This stops you from viewing their comments

To quote Anon1 :

Arguing on the internet is like being a contestant in the Special Olympics.
You may win, but you're still a retard.
 

papasmerf

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Big Rig said:
I understand where you are coming from

I suspect some of the problem is that on the net something can be taken as an insult that was not meant to be because the tone of voice is not heard and body language is not seen
Ummmmmmmmmm

Yea and the sky is yellow
 

Brandon123

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The reason why they send insulting remarks Ulan Bator is because they are uneducated, plan and simple. Name calling and insults is how retards communicate because they do not know how to talk to educated people.
 

Big Rig

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Brandon123 said:
The reason why they send insulting remarks Ulan Bator is because they are uneducated, plan and simple. Name calling and insults is how retards communicate because they do not know how to talk to educated people.

Another reason is immaturity

They are jerks on purpose
 

moresex4me

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Brandon123 said:
The reason why they send insulting remarks Ulan Bator is because they are uneducated, plan and simple. Name calling and insults is how retards communicate because they do not know how to talk to educated people.
That's being unkind to the developmentally challenged. You're lumping them in with some of the buttholes on here.

Bator has some pretty extreme, and what I consider paranoid beliefs, but name calling? Come on. Unless, of course, you are purposefully trashing people for comedic effect, right, bikeboy? But those threads are obviously meant to be funny, and feeling the need to pm someone to call them names? Grow up.
 

moresex4me

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PurpleMonkey said:
C'mon let's all try and be nice. We are all here on this board for one purpose and it starts with the letter P. Can you guess?

Bator, although you say you will no longer post, I hope you will still share some of your reviews with us so that we can learn from your experiences. Good luck!
P.?? Posting? Come on, I thought it was for sex! LOL
 

danmand

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Mr Bator, I understand where you're coming from. Sometimes its just not worth it...

All the best.
All the best from me too. Most of the time it is not worth it.

The discussions have taken a turn for the more childish, after some of
the frequent posters left the board.
 

Rockslinger

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TERB can be a blood sport sometimes but you have to roll with the punches. Nevertheless, I always try to be respectful even when I disagree with someone.

If you think TERB is rough, try body contact hockey sometimes. When I played university hockey, I got into 7 fights (I think I lost them all):mad: .
 

blackrock13

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onthebottom said:
220 posts, that's a short TERB career and a thin skin.....

OTB
Point well made. Mind you I understand UB's point as well. As a newbie I can't speak from much experience on this board, but to be blunt, if you can't say it on the board and resort to abusive PM's, don't say it. Say to his face (kinda)
and say it in the open for all to read and critique. If you're using PM's to slag someone you haven't got the cahonies to stand behind what you say and that says lots about you.

Sorry about your decision UB, hope you change your mind someday
 
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