TERB respects the rights for the ladies in the business to have some sense of privacy. We are one of the few boards that do this. We will not respect an NRP if the girl consistantly has bad reviews or its a bait and switch operation.
Some of the girls in the business have significant others who read the boards and sometimes without their knowledge. Put yourself in their shoes for a moment and think about how you would feel hearing about every nitty gritty detail she did. Another way of looking at it is, some of the ladies are YMMV in a big way. Someone says he got such a service and she doesnt offer it to just anyone. Yet guys demand to get that service because "they read it on terb". Perhaps there was a mutual attraction, perhaps she only does it with guys she is comfortable with, perhaps the guy was very clean and she felt safe.
Yes, some people have to be real jerks and demand certain things like BBBJ or dfk'ing and if they dont get it, threaten to trash the girl's reputation. Idiots like that who use TERB or any review board for their own personal agenda are the reason behind some of those NRP's. Other reasons are that some of the ladies are being stalked. Having personally spoken to a few of these ladies, the fear is very real. Sometimes its an ex boyfriend/husband, sometimes its an ex client who got too emotionally attached to the girl and she cuts him off.
Many of you question the reasons behind a NRP and the moderators cannot discuss specifics because we've been entrusted with the reasons and if we were to betray that trust by telling you the reasons, then the moderators could not be trusted by the ladies. We dont take those requests lightly and we try to discourage them. However, when there is a legit reason we are obligated to try and offer that lady some sense of protection.
When you run off to another board and post the information there, you aren't helping. In fact in some rare cases you;ve put the lady into physical danger. Trying to compare this to restaurants and cars aint the same thing. These girls are in a dangerous profession and they do need to feel that they can count on some assistance when they are forced into a difficult situation.
Another example is a girl's day job finding out about her "other career" and she told her boss its the past and she isnt doing it anymore and someone comes along and tells in explicit detail about a session he had the other day and she had booked the day off sick. That kind of stuff has happened and some of you know personally some of the ladies in the business that have had things like this happen to them. It's not just work, sometimes its school, sometimes its a parole officer.
When the mods say there is a NRP, we expect you to respect it. We cannot explain the reasons behind it. When you react in anger over something, it just tells us that you are being childish and unreasonable. That you did not stop to think that maybe just maybe there is a legitimate reason as to why your or any review was pulled.
Please try to refrain from taking it out on the moderators and throwing hissy fits and threatening otherwise. We're all adults here.
