I am genuinely interested in finding a wife. Where do I look?

poorboy · May 27, 2004

I've tried lavalife, but I don't get any responses because I am 5'7", 150lbs and asian. The criteria for males seems to be a minimum of 5'10", 160lbs and caucasian.

I have been a member of lifemates for three years, and they have not found me a match. I also took horseback riding lessons for almost two years because of the high female/male ratio, but all that happened was that I got really good at riding a horse.

What can I do?

CaseOne · May 27, 2004

POST OF THE YEAR

ceo8888ca · May 27, 2004

Did you get pressure from Mom and Dad ?

Or are you ready to start a family ? As an Asian, you must know that marriages do not have to involve "Love"- it will come later (they say).

If that's the case, look into the local newspapers printed in your own language, and you will find many girls looking for a husband.

On the other hand, if you are looking for "love", then you must wait for Cupid to show up...

Berlin · May 27, 2004

poorboy said:
What can I do?

Go spend 2 weeks in Costa Rica.

If you still don't find any friendly and good looking, spousal quality Latina's there, at least you'll be good at game fishing, or salsa/merengue dancing.

onthebottom · May 27, 2004

I'd get a job at a petite dress shop!

OTB

Plan8 · May 27, 2004

If the man wanted to rent company, he'd not be asking for a wife.

Why not try the "import" route?
Plenty of 2nd world women would be happy to wed you to get to come to Canada.

Peace4u · May 27, 2004

Rerun said:
Make sure she's only a casual churchgoer. I've dated a die-hard Christian and, while she was a great person, the relationship had its challenges. Most notably, she felt really guilty after engaging in anything sexual!

Well, a Christian would find it somewhat guilty.because sex comes after marriage,not as the world is doing.

incognito · May 28, 2004

poorboy said:
I am 5'7", 150lbs and asian. The criteria for males seems to be a minimum of 5'10", 160lbs and caucasian.

Man, i totally understand. But i have it even harder, I'm asian also, 5'6 and almost 200 lbs. It's nearly impossible to get a smile let alone a date for me. BTW, what type of girl are you looking for?

Incognito

wop · May 28, 2004

xarir · May 28, 2004

Fark people - be confident and comfortable with yourself first. Be aware of your strengths and your limitations and don't try to hide behind either of them. If you have strong, unwavering belief in yourself and who you are, people will flock to you naturally. Somewhere in that mass of people you'll find her and along the way you'll find some amazing friends.

And if all else fails, just do a search for posts by ricahrgl.

sweet guy · May 28, 2004

poorboy said:
I've tried lavalife, but I don't get any responses because I am 5'7", 150lbs and asian. The criteria for males seems to be a minimum of 5'10", 160lbs and caucasian.

I have been a member of lifemates for three years, and they have not found me a match. I also took horseback riding lessons for almost two years because of the high female/male ratio, but all that happened was that I got really good at riding a horse.

What can I do?

WTF are you thinking?

Why???? How old are you?

What type of woman are you looking for? A Caucasian?

Forget about having a Caucasian loving an Asian man....unless you are quite endowed and you don't mind she's losing her beauty faster than her Asian counterparts.

sweet guy · May 28, 2004

Rerun said:
Make sure she's only a casual churchgoer. I've dated a die-hard Christian and, while she was a great person, the relationship had its challenges. Most notably, she felt really guilty after engaging in anything sexual!

I would rather dating a "loose girl" or "hoe" than marrying a good-looking Christian fundamentalist like the Dubya.

Sooner or later you will get crazy when you are being brainwashed by all the BS she keeps on nagging you.

The good news? She will not try to add your miserable life by threatening to take half of your money.

sweet guy · May 28, 2004

Re: Did you get pressure from Mom and Dad ?

ceo8888ca said:
Or are you ready to start a family ? As an Asian, you must know that marriages do not have to involve "Love"- it will come later (they say).

That's the usual BS, so called Asian value.

If that's the case, look into the local newspapers printed in your own language, and you will find many girls looking for a husband.

They are looking for a Canadian passport and your money. Good luck to your search.

On the other hand, if you are looking for "love", then you must wait for Cupid to show up...

How about meeting some of the "friends"?

anon1 · May 28, 2004

wop said:
WHY?

What he said!!!!!!!!

Plan8 · May 28, 2004

Lets cut poorboy some slack

Really, poorboy, do give us an idea what you're looking for in a wife. Ignore the "Why"ze comments and you will catch a few sincere comments too.

The fact that you came HERE for answers gives us an idea of your route of escapism, but if you want to open up a little more, you'll find that there are venues to meet Ms. Right.

Dr Watchsom · May 28, 2004

anon1 said:
What he said!!!!!!!!

I second that and if your serious you can have mine

havingfun · May 28, 2004

Wait until you are between the ages of 35 and 45. Then go to any singles dance and you will meet many, many women between the ages of 30 and 40 looking to get hitched. Of course, you may then change your mind and decide that marriage is not the fate you seek.

Naughty Alex · May 28, 2004

Why indeed? lol

Have fun looking!

yoniluvrca · May 28, 2004

I agree with Plan8's post. Tell us a little bit more about what you want and expect from a wife. I do feel that if you go about it in the right way you can find her quite easily. There may be, however, some stuff that stands in your way. As a starting place an escort review board is fine. But you may need to look else where for the woman of your dreams if you want a traditional husband/wife relationship. I understand that there are some reputable introduction agencies out there if you have some cash to spend on this endeavor. Also there are plenty of ladies over seas who are looking for mates through the internet. These ladies will deffinitely come with a different set of values and out looks than a home grown girl. Some may be looking for a man to sponser them and then just take off. But I also think there are women who are genuinely looking for a long term partnership. Just be a bit careful and be clear about what you are looking for.

Good luck with your quest

duMaurierguy · May 28, 2004

Poorboy, you are looking in the wrong places. Forget about searching on the internet for your future wife. I know that there have been some that found 'the one' this way but I would think that there have been countless more who haven't. You have to get out there more and circulate more socially. Horse back riding was a good step. The suggestion of church is also a good option for marriage minded lady. You can also try doing some volunteer work. You'll feel good about helping others and have a chance to meet some quality people as well. There is 'speed dating' parties. This is where a number of singles go and are able to meet a number of people of the opposite sex with quick 5/10 minute 'getting to know you' dates. At the end of the evening, you'll be informed of who would be interested in connecting with you.

The point is, there are a number of outlets in which you can meet someone who has the same intent as yourself, least of which an escort review board.

Do remember this though, if love is blind, then marriage must be a real eye opener...

Food for thought. Good luck.

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