What I have to say and my one and only response to this...
I received a message the other day notifying me of a bad review on a certain site, I had no clue where it was coming from or what it was. I haven’t been back in Ottawa that long and while I have been here the things that have come up, I have been less than impressed with but at the same time I didn’t exploit anyone or say anything as I had spoken to these individuals very well and decided I would allow them to take action on their part.
Having said that, I find it very rude and disrespectful for people to go around saying that my reviews I have on Cerb are not up to par and are doubted. I have been working in this industry for some time and I have had the odd person who couldn’t get what they wanted but that was because I wasn’t offering it on my menu. Aside from that, I have never had a problem when it comes to my service. I always have aimed and strived to the fullest to make sure my clients were happy and well taken care of. Hence why I have been around this long and am still in good business.
My reviews were written purely out of what was true and I didn’t ask for anything to be put that wasn’t. I don’t know why others would be putting them down aside from the fact that I have had a few people come and try to repeat a certain act that they read about another client and unfortunately weren’t able to have due to it being at my discretion.
As an SP I am flexible in what I offer depending on the clients I see. I only ask that you arrive and are as you would like me to be. Clean, tidy, well-groomed, trimmed and/or shaved, etc. I know that there are high standards out there for us to follow if we would like to keep our clientele and receive new ones. Hence why we receive reviews in the first place so that it allows others to know that yes you did enjoy your time and that everything was as it should be.
With everything I do there is always a reason. I’m a college educated lady and have at times had to pass on what I have learned in order to have certain clients understand why I chose not to do certain things. I know that a lot of Hobbiests have had the unfortunate fact of having their money taken and being told to leave early and it wasn’t a happy time for them but I have never stopped and made a client leave due to me just wanting to get something quick. That is not how I present myself and I also always make it very clear that their time is theirs and they can do what they like with it.
Now here I will get to the main reason of why I am responding to this foolishness. I am clean and disease free, I do not tolerate any kind of crap when it comes to that what so ever. Being an educated person when I notify someone of something I suspect I am not rude about it at all, and often explain and go into deep details. I always make sure what I do I safe and that there is no slip of any kind. I know that if you guys came across a SP you suspected may have had a disease that you would immediately stop the service and suggest something else or most likely even leave and then say something about it later.
Last week I came across few particular clients that caught my attention. In the middle of our session I noticed there was a issue and I spoke to them about it, explaining my safety as well as theirs and my other clients. I will not and I don’t care if you guys want to sit here and say it wasn’t worth this or that, but I will not ever put myself at risk over a man who has red spots, swelling, warts or what not on their genitals. I have standards and I feel as though at the end of the day that it isn’t worth me picking up a disease and passing it on to others.
With the clients I had that I noticed this with, it was very interesting what their response was. I cannot believe and am still kind of shocked at what they mentioned after I was pointing out the issue. One of my clients couldn’t proceed as he lost his sexual appetite once he realized I saw what was going on.
Having said all of this, I do not feel the need to explain myself any further. If you want to bad rep me over something like this then feel free to but like I told the man who messaged me about this thread, you were not there, you do not know what happened and you shouldn’t be so harsh.
Just something to think about, when you are being told something. There are two sides to everything and sometimes people feel for whatever reason that they should bad mouth others over an issue they aren’t ready to rectify.
So sorry that you feel your time was wasted but, I am still healthy and am going to keep it that way!