well....lol...not everyone is over weight but i admit the middle aged part....haha...and it is somewhat true that the 'chemistry' thing is probably overblown....still there is such a thing going by experience, with some the connection isn't there you go down to business and are gone and i'd probably not repeat...with others there is some affinity or common interests....sometimes you just forget about the age thing....then there is the fact that some SP are just better at providing an experience....it's a business but if it was just that, why would one stay for 3 hours when booked for 1 or even sleep over and ask nothing more than what was originally agreed upon.....my take on it is that if you show you're interested in knowing the person behind the screen, it goes a long way, if you show up exceptionally well kept, have respect and treat her like a real woman, you increase the odds of having a marvelous time... if you come down for business and just to get your thing done, then that's what you will get and you'll likely leave within your appointed time if not earlier.
me thinks it's all about MOJOOOOO....lol....