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What is the difference : GFE vs PSE

Formal123

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I started this great activity 10 months ago and I think know meanings of many acronyms and situations in this game.
But whenever these two terms ( GFE and PSE) come up in reviews, I get confused.
Different people using differently.
May be very straightforward and I am not getting it.
Can somebody help me by explaining different acts in each “ experience “.
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GFE. - girlfriend experience. LFK/DFK, BBBJ, DATY, sometimes MSOG, limited MPOS, CFS, a more sensual style session.

PSE - porn style experience. DFK, BBBJ, DT, CIM(ws), FF, FACIAL, DATY, MSOG, MPOS, CFS, and sometimes GREEK. More raunchy, dirty talk, a little butt smacking, etc.

That is my way of thinking.
 
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GFE. - girlfriend experience. LFK/DFK, BBBJ, DATY, sometimes MSOG, limited MPOS, CFS, a more session style session.

PSE - port style experience. DFK, BBBJ, DT, CIM(ws), FF, FACIAL, DATY, MSOG, MPOS, CFS, and sometimes GREEK. More raunchy, dirty talk, a little butt smacking, etc.

That is my way of thinking.
This strikes me about what i have in mind when wrestling with these labels.

Sometimes it's the allowed activities, sometimes its the style...sometimes both. But it will not be identical for each woman. Thus read her website carefully, and/or follow her reviews.
 

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From what I noticed, many girls just let you put it in their pooper, then thats called PSE!
There are a few other things of course, but most of the time "sticker in the pooper" aka PSE is another fifty buckaroos!
And sometimes that's the only thing that differentiates the two!
 

Amanda Labelle

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GFE. - girlfriend experience. LFK/DFK, BBBJ, DATY, sometimes MSOG, limited MPOS, CFS, a more session style session.

PSE - port style experience. DFK, BBBJ, DT, CIM(ws), FF, FACIAL, DATY, MSOG, MPOS, CFS, and sometimes GREEK. More raunchy, dirty talk, a little butt smacking, etc.

That is my way of thinking.
Good explanation. If I may, I would add that bbbj for a gfe is not always available. Lots GFE providers offer cbj too and not always daty. That's the difference between GFE and Full GFE.
 
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Good explanation. If I may, I would add that bbbj for a gfe is not always available. Lots GFE providers offer cbj too and not always daty. That's the difference between GFE and Full GFE.
That in true but I wasn't getting into sub-sets of GFE. Traditional GFE is what I gave. I personally, and this is just me, but I don't believe that CBJ and no DATY to be GFE. That is just me.

I know ladies put safe GFE and stuff and there are subsets but I personally feel, and again this is just me, but I feel it is just a way to add GFE to marketing ads as to not be left out. Again, just me personal opinion. Which I know is going to get me trouble but I can't help what I feel and lack of those is not GFE in my opinion.
 
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Amanda Labelle

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That in true but I wasn't getting into sub-sets of GFE. Traditional GFE is what I gave. I personally, and this is just me, but I don't believe that CBJ and no DATY to be GFE. That is just me.

I know ladies put safe GFE and stuff and there are subsets but I personally feel, and again this is just me, but I feel it is just a way to add GFE to marketing ads as to not be left out. Again, just me personal opinion. Which I know is going to get me trouble but I can't help what I feel and lack of those is not GFE in my opinion.
I understand. I just thought this specific details would help.

Personally this is how I see GFE service :
-50% around the experience or have sex with his brain (conversation, connecting with him, cuddling, creating intimacy, massage ect)
-35% is kissing, touching and cuddling
-15% is the actual deed and if you did the first two righ I think you can have gfe like passionate safe sex.

I love love love oral but I did well without too and never did I felt like it was less than GFE. It's also just my opinion and I respect yours.
 

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I wish there would be an escort association that would provide an official definition of the GFE's terms. I dont think SP's and OP's are in agreements.
 

Formal123

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Good explanation. If I may, I would add that bbbj for a gfe is not always available. Lots GFE providers offer cbj too and not always daty. That's the difference between GFE and Full GFE.
Amanda,
Thank you for further clarification of GFE terminology .
Sometimes these GFE’s derivatives ( Full GFE and Safe GFE) did perplex me.
I found some SPs write these acronyms without the understanding, as you or Jenesis have.
And causes awkward situation during session.
 
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