There are five main clubs to consider: Oasis Aqualounge, Wicked, Menage a Quatre (M4), X-Club and Ozone.
My favorite is Oasis, the owner Toni is a close friend of mine and Mrs.CD and we go there a lot. It is good for a first-time wife because it is couples only and has a cozy, lounge atmosphere. But we have been to all the others many times too, and they each are good and have something to offer. Here is my summary:
Oasis - Most downtown at Church and Carlton, only always couples only club, only club with daytime hours. Has pool, hot-tub, sauna, steam room. Newest, open for three months. Open Thursday, Friday, Saturday each day and night. Lounge atmosphere.
Wicked - At Queen and Ossington. Most well-known club, our favorite before Oasis opened. Single men allowed with restrictions. Thursday, Friday and Saturday from 10pm. Dance club atmosphere with House music.
M4 - At Lakeshore and Islington. Open 7 nights a week, nights only. Frequent bi nights when MM action is encouraged. Lots of fetish themes. Basement atmosphere, though they have now taken over the upstairs too. Single men generally welcome. Various music.
X-Club - At Dixie and Matheson. Friday and Saturday nights. Single men with restrictions. Known for beautiful people with attitude. More dance club than sex club. House music.
O-Zone - At 401 and Martin Grove. Wednesday, Friday and Saturday nights, Saturday day. Single men with restrictions. Party atmosphere with various music. Most active themes, with reduced admission if you dress in theme.
If you would like to learn more about the different clubs and who goes there,
www.cafedesire.com is a good resource.
If you are coming to Oasis and let me know, I will arrange for a Terb discount!