So let's get into this.
Is she coming across bitchy, yes but she has some points. And she is completely lost on others.
1. Ask yourself are you ACTUALLY single before trying to pick up a girl you like. This is actually correct. You should be asking yourself this or you should be saying in the first pick up convo that you are not single but interested. Let her/him make the choice. This goes for both sexes but I feel that men are the main sex that will try to pick up women while involved with another.
2. Women don't want a pen pal - well guess what honey, women do the text only, never meet game more than men in my opinion. Make a plan - How about you make a plan if you need days in advance. Not all people are happy to come home and sit and veg for the rest of the night if a "plan" is not made days in advance. When a guy is texting and looking to meet up within a couple of hours, that is HIS timeline. He has the right to have one as well and if it doesn't mesh with yours, then fine but to expect people to match your timeline all the time is selfish and self-centred.
3. Value "value". Really??????? Don't lump her and her friends in with women who have nothing going on. REALLY?????? Because you didn't just lump all men together. And way to insult a ton of women as well. I didn't hear anything about value in this rant. I heard her big up her friends over and over and put down both women and men. But I get where I thought she was going. When you find someone of actual value, one that has the qualities many that the opposite sex look for, don't take it for granted and not see the value in them. A person with a job, their own money, their own place, their own car, can pay their bills. Have the value of kindness, honesty, loyalty, etc. Value that "value" in people. At least that is where I thought she was going and would have agreed. Instead she used it as a way to put down 21 year olds because guys happen to be attracted to younger women as a general rule. So basically she is pissed that she is past the mainstream "prime age" and being left behind. And most 21 year olds that I know, have stuff going on. A lot are in school with the ambition to get a job in a specific field and the education required to get there. That is something going on, is it not?
4. Consistency - What does turning her off have to do with Consistency???? She has this list but goes off on a tangent that is not related at all. Should people remain consistent, I agree but what does she want? A guy to message the same, with the same interest, with a different plan for each day he wants to see her, but she doesn't have to come up with anything???? I am starting to see a pattern here.
5. Don't be a bitch - take your own advice honey. All I hear is the effort that men are suppose to make and then if they don't, she is turned off, but now you are not allowed to be upset about it because it is your fault. This is the type of woman who is only setting up men to fail. He has to do all the work, and when he doesn't do it exactly right BY her standards BTW - not those of actual mainstream standards, she is turn off and you are fucked. Where is her attempts, other than telling men they are shitty communicators.
But she ended it off with the perfect line that shows the type of woman she is. She is successful and driven and has standards but will NEVER chase a man because they are not worth it. Chasing a man means you feel bad about yourself and a woman like her will never chase a man. THAT is why she is single. She is a one dimension type woman who has high maintenance expectations with no desire to equally reciprocate.
Do not listen to women like this when looking into dating advice.
Except the single one. Please be single or if not single, be honest right way.