I just wanted to open the discussion here about the importance of written communication in this business.
I think that many girls don’t put enough emphasis on it. And as result, might be loosing good potential clients.
Especially when a new girl enters the industry, many of us DM her here or on twitter about the session, prices, kinks, etc. But above all, I write to her to get a feel: if she does not respond at all, responds with a passive aggressive message or does not seem even excited a bit to see you, I will simply not book with her. I use that as an indicator of general care.
Many girls at spas/clubs forget that every DM on twitter is like a walk in: he could turn into your regular one day, have a good time with and be a reliable source of money. Sure there might be some time wasters, but you have to be good at filtering them. Because in between these time wasters, there are also genuine people who are genuinely interested in seeing you.
But even more importantly, I will only see a girl regularly if proper communication is maintained. By proper communication, I do not mean bothering her with endless messages. But simply making sure that I get an answer if I want to book with her the next week, or if I have a special request about something or even laugh at an occasional joke mid conversation.
If the girl does not respond to me in more than 2 or 3 weeks, but then all of a sudden messages you back: hey want to see me tomorrow? I will simply not reply and not book with her because I have probably already moved on to another girl.
Providers are always mentioning how they are human and need to be treated as such, but us, customers, are also humans, and need to be treated as such. I am not an atm machine that you can press a button and instantly release money for you next day.
I think that many girls don’t put enough emphasis on it. And as result, might be loosing good potential clients.
Especially when a new girl enters the industry, many of us DM her here or on twitter about the session, prices, kinks, etc. But above all, I write to her to get a feel: if she does not respond at all, responds with a passive aggressive message or does not seem even excited a bit to see you, I will simply not book with her. I use that as an indicator of general care.
Many girls at spas/clubs forget that every DM on twitter is like a walk in: he could turn into your regular one day, have a good time with and be a reliable source of money. Sure there might be some time wasters, but you have to be good at filtering them. Because in between these time wasters, there are also genuine people who are genuinely interested in seeing you.
But even more importantly, I will only see a girl regularly if proper communication is maintained. By proper communication, I do not mean bothering her with endless messages. But simply making sure that I get an answer if I want to book with her the next week, or if I have a special request about something or even laugh at an occasional joke mid conversation.
If the girl does not respond to me in more than 2 or 3 weeks, but then all of a sudden messages you back: hey want to see me tomorrow? I will simply not reply and not book with her because I have probably already moved on to another girl.
Providers are always mentioning how they are human and need to be treated as such, but us, customers, are also humans, and need to be treated as such. I am not an atm machine that you can press a button and instantly release money for you next day.
