Question on how SP’s and MA’s feel towards overweight clients?

[Narrok]

I apologize in advance if this is not the right sub-forum to ask this, but it seemed better here then in the review forum.

So I’m an older gent (early 50’s), and very much overweight ie: I fluctuate in the high 270’s.

I started hobbying about 2 years ago, and I still consider myself very new. I was 20 - 25 pounds less two years ago , when I was seeing my first SP’s etc. I haven’t seen anyone in the last 2 years due to Covid, and I’ve gained weight as a result. I am quite embarrassed about my weight and it’s making me shy to actually pull the trigger on seeing SP’s again as a result. My weight goes all to my stomach and my inner thighs , and not so much in the face, arms or lower legs.

Now I know SP’s and MA’s , for the most part are going to be professional about it. But I worry about how my weight will affect the outcome of the encounter. I read a lot of reviews and the term YMMV comes up a lot, and I’m guessing that’s due to having that energy or connection with an SP. But I’m concerned that someone like me, older and overweight , won’t be able to establish that type of connection or energy.

When I read other reviews , I envision that the gents are younger and in shape, and therefore there’s an attraction from the SP, which likely won’t be the case with me. I realize I’m putting myself down and confidence goes a long way. So that’s partly why I’m asking.

I’m curious to hear from others , similar perhaps to me. Has it affected your encounters?

I know there are quite a few SP’s and MA’s that read these posts, and I would love to hear your perspectives as well.
Please feel free to message me your not comfortable replying on this.

In the end I’m trying to gain the courage and confidence to see someone.

I appreciate your time if you’ve read all this. Thanks so much.

 

[Josephine Grey]

I apologize in advance if this is not the right sub-forum to ask this, but it seemed better here then in the review forum.

So I’m an older gent (early 50’s), and very much overweight ie: I fluctuate in the high 270’s.

I started hobbying about 2 years ago, and I still consider myself very new. I was 20 - 25 pounds less two years ago , when I was seeing my first SP’s etc. I haven’t seen anyone in the last 2 years due to Covid, and I’ve gained weight as a result. I am quite embarrassed about my weight and it’s making me shy to actually pull the trigger on seeing SP’s again as a result. My weight goes all to my stomach and my inner thighs , and not so much in the face, arms or lower legs.

Now I know SP’s and MA’s , for the most part are going to be professional about it. But I worry about how my weight will affect the outcome of the encounter. I read a lot of reviews and the term YMMV comes up a lot, and I’m guessing that’s due to having that energy or connection with an SP. But I’m concerned that someone like me, older and overweight , won’t be able to establish that type of connection or energy.

When I read other reviews , I envision that the gents are younger and in shape, and therefore there’s an attraction from the SP, which likely won’t be the case with me. I realize I’m putting myself down and confidence goes a long way. So that’s partly why I’m asking.

I’m curious to hear from others , similar perhaps to me. Has it affected your encounters?

I know there are quite a few SP’s and MA’s that read these posts, and I would love to hear your perspectives as well.
Please feel free to message me your not comfortable replying on this.

In the end I’m trying to gain the courage and confidence to see someone.

I appreciate your time if you’ve read all this. Thanks so much.

I always prefered bigger guys in general. I love an nice comfy belly for my forehead due to the appreciatable amount of time that I spend down there (lol).

More seriously if you are clean, nice, welcoming/polite and engaging there is no reason for me to not give you the best I can and I am pretty sure I am not the only one who thinks like that. Look is really the last thing we care about.

 

[Slobus]

Celebrate who you are and what you bring to the world. Confidence goes a long way, just don't be over-confident.

I too carried a bunch of extra pounds and had much the same concerns as you, but was always open with whomever I was seeing. I am getting back to my "fighting" weight now which is the absolute best way to help with your confidence... in so many areas of our lives.

Find someone that attracts you and engage, honesty is always the best policy ;--)

Just be you, and a gentleman... I foresee good things in your future!

 

[Narrok]

Thank you both! It means a lot!!

 

[blacklabdog]

I have friends who are MAs and they care mostly about hygiene, reading ad/website etc, being polite, respecting boundaries, being on time etc. Not age, weight

 

[Sonic Temple]

Be u mate - respect, communication and overall kindness towards the SP will do wonders, and if your hygiene is spot on, you could be whatever weight you want - when you leave the SP, she will remember you and not how big you are. Now mate - get out there and have fun .

 

[tbird73]

I apologize in advance if this is not the right sub-forum to ask this, but it seemed better here then in the review forum.

So I’m an older gent (early 50’s), and very much overweight ie: I fluctuate in the high 270’s.

I started hobbying about 2 years ago, and I still consider myself very new. I was 20 - 25 pounds less two years ago , when I was seeing my first SP’s etc. I haven’t seen anyone in the last 2 years due to Covid, and I’ve gained weight as a result. I am quite embarrassed about my weight and it’s making me shy to actually pull the trigger on seeing SP’s again as a result. My weight goes all to my stomach and my inner thighs , and not so much in the face, arms or lower legs.

Now I know SP’s and MA’s , for the most part are going to be professional about it. But I worry about how my weight will affect the outcome of the encounter. I read a lot of reviews and the term YMMV comes up a lot, and I’m guessing that’s due to having that energy or connection with an SP. But I’m concerned that someone like me, older and overweight , won’t be able to establish that type of connection or energy.

When I read other reviews , I envision that the gents are younger and in shape, and therefore there’s an attraction from the SP, which likely won’t be the case with me. I realize I’m putting myself down and confidence goes a long way. So that’s partly why I’m asking.

I’m curious to hear from others , similar perhaps to me. Has it affected your encounters?

I know there are quite a few SP’s and MA’s that read these posts, and I would love to hear your perspectives as well.
Please feel free to message me your not comfortable replying on this.

In the end I’m trying to gain the courage and confidence to see someone.

I appreciate your time if you’ve read all this. Thanks so much.

Don't forget the old poem:

Ode to a Hamster

You're hung like a hamster,
Fat as a whale,
The ladies all faint,
each time you exhale,
But they all love you,
the old and the young,
Because you have got
a thirteen inch tongue.

You've got options ...

 

[Big Mull]

I'm in the exact same boat as you. And sometimes I wonder if the services provided were "deminished" because of my physique. I tried many different providers until I "clicked". You will too.

 

[Alison_xox]

All sizes , all ages , all races is my mojo.
I don’t care as long as you are respectful and have a good hygiene.

I also have a little fetish for bigger & hairy.
My clients can tell

P.s. I also have a custom made hard wood oversized massage table to accommodate big & tall so I can get on that massage table to bodyslide all over you.

Ain’t nobody cares what you look like.… I would go for fluffy before douche bags anytime ..

Kisses
Ali

 

[MarianneC]

Weight was never a problem for me. We can always adjust our positions to accommodate. So don't worry about it.

 

[MikeO]

I apologize in advance if this is not the right sub-forum to ask this, but it seemed better here then in the review forum.

So I’m an older gent (early 50’s), and very much overweight ie: I fluctuate in the high 270’s.

I started hobbying about 2 years ago, and I still consider myself very new. I was 20 - 25 pounds less two years ago , when I was seeing my first SP’s etc. I haven’t seen anyone in the last 2 years due to Covid, and I’ve gained weight as a result. I am quite embarrassed about my weight and it’s making me shy to actually pull the trigger on seeing SP’s again as a result. My weight goes all to my stomach and my inner thighs , and not so much in the face, arms or lower legs.

Now I know SP’s and MA’s , for the most part are going to be professional about it. But I worry about how my weight will affect the outcome of the encounter. I read a lot of reviews and the term YMMV comes up a lot, and I’m guessing that’s due to having that energy or connection with an SP. But I’m concerned that someone like me, older and overweight , won’t be able to establish that type of connection or energy.

When I read other reviews , I envision that the gents are younger and in shape, and therefore there’s an attraction from the SP, which likely won’t be the case with me. I realize I’m putting myself down and confidence goes a long way. So that’s partly why I’m asking.

I’m curious to hear from others , similar perhaps to me. Has it affected your encounters?

I know there are quite a few SP’s and MA’s that read these posts, and I would love to hear your perspectives as well.
Please feel free to message me your not comfortable replying on this.

In the end I’m trying to gain the courage and confidence to see someone.

I appreciate your time if you’ve read all this. Thanks so much.

I have actually heard a couple of ladies refer to themselves as "Chubby Chasers".

 

[dannixo]

SP love Dad Bodies

Joking aside .. I think SP rather have a client who is respectful and less concerned about their physical appearance .. At the end of the day its a business transaction so $$ talks.

 

[nothingtolose]

You may also check with the SP or MA if she has any issues with your weight before the meeting.

 

[haplessinquiry]

Maybe you guys need to look for ladies like this, if you're so worried about your weight?