This post is influenced by the "second cup girl" story. I was amazed by how quickly her got the girl to his place. He blew it, but he was close, and if you figure, if he does that often enough, 1 in 10 tries he'll get the girl. Or hopefully maybe in even better odds.
My experience is one that will ask a question.
I was in Argentina last year and one of the nights I went out with some friends that I met there. Now, as you all may of heard, argentinean girls are generally really hot, and as we know, in general latinas are more caliente, basically easier to get. My friends said that that night we were going out to a bar and one in particular said, "tonite I am not sleeping at my house". Meaning he was going to find a girl and go to her place and get some. My friend and I went to an irish pub in Buenos Aires and it was a packed night. So he starts walking around the room checking out the girls. We walked over to a table which had 3 girls sitting, chatting, & drinking. So this guy starts chatting them up. Me, (I'm not so great in spanish) just say a few lines. We all introduce ourselves and basically doing small talk. After a few minutes I notice that one girl in particular is laughing more at what my friend is saying. So my gut feeling was that that girl was in to my friend. She seemed to give him that vibe. After a couple more minutes my friend says, "lets go get a drink" - so we say we'll be back and we go for another walk around and get some drinks. After a bit we return, and my friend starts talkin to another girl (not the one that was laughing most) but the same 3 girls from before. So they start joking and laughing and then go dance together. After a few more songs he's making out with the chick. During this time I'm now talking to the girl that my friend originally was talking to. I didnt get any vibe but she was nice (she was from Uruguay). Any ways, later on in the night my friend comes and talks to me and says, "are you ok to take a cab home? Cuz I'm going to her house". Bastard! He did it!! And he actually did.
So, other than tell a story of how I didnt get any (that night) and my friend who did, is the interesting part that suprised me is that he didnt pick the girl that originally gave him the vibe. So a few days later I asked him about it. And he said this, "as soon as I saw that she was laughing at everything I said I knew I had to move on. And, when I noticed that this other chick was just paying attention and just playing it cool, I knew she was the one I could get." - I said WTF?? He said, it takes alot of experience but trust me, thats how it works.
So, what does everyone else think? Any similar findings? I know there isnt a total secret answer to get girls, but I was just curious as to what other men thoughts are on this subject.
thanks,
slurpee
My experience is one that will ask a question.
I was in Argentina last year and one of the nights I went out with some friends that I met there. Now, as you all may of heard, argentinean girls are generally really hot, and as we know, in general latinas are more caliente, basically easier to get. My friends said that that night we were going out to a bar and one in particular said, "tonite I am not sleeping at my house". Meaning he was going to find a girl and go to her place and get some. My friend and I went to an irish pub in Buenos Aires and it was a packed night. So he starts walking around the room checking out the girls. We walked over to a table which had 3 girls sitting, chatting, & drinking. So this guy starts chatting them up. Me, (I'm not so great in spanish) just say a few lines. We all introduce ourselves and basically doing small talk. After a few minutes I notice that one girl in particular is laughing more at what my friend is saying. So my gut feeling was that that girl was in to my friend. She seemed to give him that vibe. After a couple more minutes my friend says, "lets go get a drink" - so we say we'll be back and we go for another walk around and get some drinks. After a bit we return, and my friend starts talkin to another girl (not the one that was laughing most) but the same 3 girls from before. So they start joking and laughing and then go dance together. After a few more songs he's making out with the chick. During this time I'm now talking to the girl that my friend originally was talking to. I didnt get any vibe but she was nice (she was from Uruguay). Any ways, later on in the night my friend comes and talks to me and says, "are you ok to take a cab home? Cuz I'm going to her house". Bastard! He did it!! And he actually did.
So, other than tell a story of how I didnt get any (that night) and my friend who did, is the interesting part that suprised me is that he didnt pick the girl that originally gave him the vibe. So a few days later I asked him about it. And he said this, "as soon as I saw that she was laughing at everything I said I knew I had to move on. And, when I noticed that this other chick was just paying attention and just playing it cool, I knew she was the one I could get." - I said WTF?? He said, it takes alot of experience but trust me, thats how it works.
So, what does everyone else think? Any similar findings? I know there isnt a total secret answer to get girls, but I was just curious as to what other men thoughts are on this subject.
thanks,
slurpee
