Men that dont respect there mothers dont respect women in general find

[Claudia Love]

it happens with women too when they have daddy issues it floods all there male relationships looking for the same kind of man that there dad is

men are the same the ones that dont really care for there mother dont care for the women in there life either

why cant people break the cycle?

imn a mothers defence its not easy raising children and if the man is always working it can be very hard on the mother going non stop if shes capable the is

back in the day moms used to spank all the kids its the way most moms were raised by there parents too

just recently in the last 15 years people say hitting kids is unhealthy but like most of you know our generation was full of physical discipline

do boys hate there moms for it do they feel unloved do they feel hate in there heart for there mother

or do they understand when she slapped your ass for touching the stove she was trying to protect you

or is it because your mom has a complete mental; breakdown and became abusive and enraged to install it in you ?

 

[shack]

it happens with women too when they have daddy issues it floods all there male relationships looking for the same kind of man that there dad is

men are the same the ones that dont really care for there mother dont care for the women in there life either

Is this from your own research or do you have links to some studies to support your hypothesis.

 

[Samranchoi]

My mother was and is the only “hero” I have and will ever have. She was a caring person and after my father died, after seeing day after day and hour after hour with him at the hospital, at a young age, she had to take care of five children all on her own. She never had to work or drive anywhere but out of necessity, she had to continue her role as a mother and provider. And she did that.

One day while at a management retreat, one of the exercises was to tell someone who your “hero” was and why. I told my partner and she was so moved she had to tell the group of 30 or so people in the room about my hero. Many had tears as they didn’t know very much about me and hearing my mother’s story brought them to tears but her story touched many of them.

And the one thing that she instilled in me was to treat everyone and everything with respect. That was the way she was until the day she died. My mother and father, when he was alive, never hit us and rarely raised their voices in anger. They both left this world far too soon, especially my father, but the values they lived with have stayed with me and my siblings to this day. I guess that is why I don’t understand how some do not respect their parents. But every situation is different and I guess I, like many others, was lucky to have such great loving parents.

 

[jcpro]

It's one of the oldest "tricks" in the world: when getting serious about the partner, pay close attention to his/her relationship with parents and siblings because that's what you will get as well.

 

[MrPrezident]

This is a great book to understand how you may be treated by someone and how we can fall into positive or destructive patterns. Each chapter is written by a psychologist or psychiatrist from a different ethnic group. The idea is that people tend to act out what their ethnic or family group regards as normal or good as they were brought up. For example. Italian families may be more patriarchal while Irish and Jewish families can be more matriarchal. Different groups may tend to express emotion and affection in different ways or solve personal disagreements in different ways.

Ethnicity and Family Therapy, Third Edition - 3rd Edition by Monica McGoldrick (Editor), Joe Giordano (Editor), Nydia Garcia Preto (Editor)

Some relationship or even dating combos can produce an interesting mix, while others can be like trying to blend oil and water. Some people accept and emulate their family values. Others may spend a lifetime rebelling against stereotypes. After reading this book you might better understand your own ingrained behavior, joys, and demons. It talks about strong points and pathologies that can be found in different groups.

If she grew up in a family where the mother was the boss and you grew up in a family where the father was the boss you may lock horns.

 

[dirtyharry555]

"They're all whores except mom"

 

[Adam_hadam]

it happens with women too when they have daddy issues it floods all there male relationships looking for the same kind of man that there dad is

men are the same the ones that dont really care for there mother dont care for the women in there life either

why cant people break the cycle?

imn a mothers defence its not easy raising children and if the man is always working it can be very hard on the mother going non stop if shes capable the is

back in the day moms used to spank all the kids its the way most moms were raised by there parents too

just recently in the last 15 years people say hitting kids is unhealthy but like most of you know our generation was full of physical discipline

do boys hate there moms for it do they feel unloved do they feel hate in there heart for there mother

or do they understand when she slapped your ass for touching the stove she was trying to protect you

or is it because your mom has a complete mental; breakdown and became abusive and enraged to install it in you ?

Mom's defence: My cousin Brian, who works at Accenture, when we were young (10ish) thought it was a good idea to punch ne in the head a few times. Instead of getting a butcher knife and (I won't finish that sentence) I asked mom to tell Brian to stop hitting me. Her response was, "Nobody likes a tattle tail."

Can I invoice the estate back on my therapists expenses?

 

[Claudia Love]

Is this from your own research or do you have links to some studies to support your hypothesis.

hi babe its from my own research but I have read about it in psychology classes too.

 

[Claudia Love]

Mom's defence: My cousin Brian, who works at Accenture, when we were young (10ish) thought it was a good idea to punch ne in the head a few times. Instead of getting a butcher knife and (I won't finish that sentence) I asked mom to tell Brian to stop hitting me. Her response was, "Nobody likes a tattle tail."

Can I invoice the estate back on my therapists expenses?

I had a very mentally ill abusive mom raise me ......she was in and out of very bad abusive boyfriend relationships and she used to make me sleep with her so her boyfriend could sexually abuse me at 40 years old I had a breakdown and I went for extensive therapy I can remember my mom trying to drown me having a bath my mom was the worst person on the planet and my dad left at 3 years old. At age 12 I jumped out of a 2 storey window get away from my mom n her boyfriend I called my dad in Florida and he took me in my mom never called me in 5 years that I was there when I came back to Canada I was extremely depressed I got more counselling and then id say around 40 to 45 years old I got extremely angry at her my rage was high. I do speak to her the odd time but as far as taking care of her when shes old its not going to happen I cant be around her more than hour she screams yea;ls goes pyscho on me for the stupidest shit .and I became the best parent to my kids and I kept my kids away from her.My grandmother and my dad were my blessing or I probably wouldn't be on this planet.