Looking for opinions. (1hr vs 1 1/2 hour) for Duo.

[Narrok]

Anyway here's a bit of a fun topic and change of pace.

As a few of you might recall, as I'm new to this community, I've only just started this hobby. You may recall my mentioning I want to attempt a new first for me, which would be my first Duo. I've narrowed down who I plan on seeing for the Duo (interactive as well) , but I'm going to need to budget and save for it.

So I'm down to a decision. Yes it's my choice and in the end for sure it will be my choice. Having said that, I would welcome any insight or just simply your opinions on this decision. I'll take all the opinions with a grain of salt, and of course in the end it's fully my call.

I'm struggling with the thought of 1 hour vs 1 1/2 hours for the visit.


I know it seems like an easy choice. Most would say 1hr. But man.. that hour goes by sooo fast. This is a DUO!!! There is so much to enjoy and take in. That extra 30 mins might just be worth it. I've never done this before. It will be my first ever Duo. It will feel like it's ended before it even started.

The idea of the extra 30 is this. (Assuming the girls allow this). The thought would be, for the first 30 mins, to be mostly foreplay. Explore. Lots of DFK maybe, across the 3 of us. Just ease into it. I would ask that we don't even touch below the belt for that first 30 mins. Then for the last hour, the rest can start. Duo BBBJ and everything else etc.

I don't know that's the game plan. But I just worry, that 1hr will go by so fast.

Now, I think I can predict the arguments for the 1hr. That I can do say first 20 mins for the Foreplay, and the final 40 mins for the rest. But ugh, I don't know. That extra 30 mins though.. I wouldn't do it for a 1 on 1.. But it's only because of the fact it's a duo.

Anyway that's where I'm looking for opinions and thoughts. How would you all handle it?

 

[asuran]

I've done 2 duos. One 4H date and one 2H date. Tho It's been a while.

Key point is make sure you have good chemistry with at least one of them, tho both would be ideal. (In my case I've seen them all individually multiple times)
Vibe & energy can be a mood swinger so if you go in meeting both girls for the first time, chances are you will fail.
So this is something I take into consideration.

For my enjoyment, yes 1H would be too little. But everyone is different.
Some enjoy indulging slowly in pleasures and connection. They'll opt for longer time.
Others might enjoy a quick bang bang and go. They'll opt for shorter time.
Both are valid choices.

 

[bigbiz]

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Met at door by woman that look something like the pIcs in the ad. Bit older, pretty face. As we are heading to the bedroom I hear a female voice coming from the other bedroom, I ask who it is and she says it is her ‘Friend’. I ask if her friend also works there. She says yes. I tell her...

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This guy had a nice duo... tho the ladies weren't really interactive.
Ultimately reviewer had a great time and he got his fulfillment.

 

[Capital Amatuer]

Experience has taught me to invest wisely. I generally saw each lady separately if they advertised as 'colleagues' so to speak. I would then let them in on my fantasy (plan) with each party outlining their expectations/restrictions. If you have seen each of them independently and established a good rapport, then they will be more likely to entertain your goal. These were in the days when there weren't so many fakers and B & S acts. Nowadays I think its best to have a trustworthy connection to this underground world.

 

[Franz27]

I’ve had one duo and it was somewhat annoying and even frustrating. I connected well with the one girl and really just wanted to be with her as the other was just awkwardly trying to fit in. I’d stick with an hour if it’s your first time.

 

[Narrok]

Interesting.. I’ve never thought of the angle of only connecting with one and not the other. These two are apparently really good friends and are used to each other. I’ve been with one and not the other.. Maybe you guys are right and I should see the other alone first, before I duo with both.

 

[kherg007]

Some tips as I'm an interactive duo veteran (even some trios and one quad):
1. Make sure the ladies are comfortable with each other.
2. Decide whether you want interactive duo or not. Let the ladies know.
3. Helps most if you've seen both before, followed by if they routinely duo together, then followed by if you've seen one of the two, and then most chance of minimal fun is if you've seen neither and they've never duoed together.
4. If non interactive, you can get by with an hour. If interactive, at least 90 mins.
5. Remember to change safety gear if going in one lady to the other. It's not porn it's real life biology.
6. Ok to have a general game plan, the improvise off that structure. My style is me and lady A double team lady B, then switch me and lady B double team lady A. We do a round of oral fun, then on with the gear and bump uglies. (W gear change between ladies). Let the ladies know you want a 30 minute windup period (as you described).
7. Have bottled water (unopened) for each lady at least. Wine ok too if they like it, but not mandatory. If yes, again, unopened. Nobody like Bill Cosby anymore.
8. Make sure shower facilities clean towels body wash etc.
9. Add ladies and stir. Enjoy!

 

[Inthemood]

I've set this up with 2 of my regulars twice last summer. Having previous experiences with each was definitely a huge factor.

Both on the submissive side and had never met. One was an outcaller the other an in call. We met at the hotel of the later after setting it up for a day or so...making sure that they were both ok with the situation.

Both times were awesome but I really came prepared. There wasn't any oral foreplay between the two but I came with a lot of toys. The best items being a double dildo and a strap on. Great ways to be interactive without being an all out dyke session and the visuals were amazing!

Another fun item was an ankle spreader bar...super fun to get one to hold it up while your banging the other one.

In both cases I thought an hour was plenty (not to mention the $$$). They both had a great time as did I. The only problem I encountered in both cases was the outcall girl was late both times: you kind of go into these sessions with a clear fantasy of how things will unfold and that sort of ruined the vibe a bit. Although you just go with the flow...admittedly there was something hot about her walking into a session already in progress though it made for an awkward introduction.

Whoever mentioned water knows what they are talking about! I didn't do that the first time and was extremely dehydrated! Lessons learned. Water!!!

Also bring a box of condoms to prevent potential disappointments.

I'm hoping to set one of these up again soon...Hopefully I can report back with a story in the near future.

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