Never been to a party all these years, but was thinking of checking out one. Maybe I'm must naive here, but I don't see what the big deal is that the organizers happen to own a business themselves. Other business owners are more than welcome to organize parties if they like, or partner up with each other to run something together (which is what it sounded like in this case where the girls were trying to be inclusive). What's the issue? That the organize will "benefit" from this? So what if they do? If they do the work and plan the party (which itself is actually more work than most realize), don't they deserve to benefit from it (if there are actual profits to be made)?
So confused...