I took a civilian out on a date

[Tashki]

I like when women get their boobs done and nails done really long. Those are the women that I go for when I book sessions with SPs and MPAs as well as women that I go for in my personal life.

I took a civilian out on a date. She’s into make up and getting her nails done long her breasts are natural.


This was our second date. When she came to our table i noticed she didn’t have her nails done. For a moment I was disappointed but then I realized that this is not an escort booking session so I quickly didn’t care after that. For the first time in years I started to appreciate giving women direct eye contact as oppose to being mouth-watery for big enhanced tits like I would be for escorts and MPAs and nearly forgetting about how their face looked.

It was really nice knowing that I’m not in a time constraint as I would be when I book a session with an SP or an MPA. It was also nice knowing the fact that this woman took her own time out of the day to come meet me for our date as oppose to an escort or an MPA seeing me on the clock.



After we left the restaurant, we started to walk to her car and we started making out.

For a change, A woman kissed me because she wanted to. Not because she was getting paid for it.

I wanted to make this thread because I had no luck in activating my dating life by pursuing women that I liked so I would use hobbying as an avenue to be with women that I desired.

I’m not going to argue that dating is better than hobbying or hobbying is better than dating. I just wanted to journalize my dating experience and compare the two worlds. My dating experience is fairly limited. Thanks for reading.

 

[xix]

I’m not going to argue that dating is better than hobbying or hobbying is better than dating. I just wanted to journalize my dating experience and compare the two worlds. My dating experience is fairly limited. Thanks for reading.

Good for you, you changed during your date, when you saw something you didn't like then moved on. Smart. Don't screw it up by seeing a SP to celebrate. Delete history in Cellphone and PC at home in case she looks.

Be yourself, if she asks what is wrong, -
"me I am just being myself no sales pitch here, this is what I am or bring to the table."

 

[luvdog]

I’m not going to argue that dating is better than hobbying or hobbying is better than dating. I just wanted to journalize my dating experience and compare the two worlds. My dating experience is fairly limited. Thanks for reading.

I am glad that you didn't fall into judgments about hobbying and dating. Dating is not always easy for some people. Hobbying is much better than becoming a bitter incel.
Sounds like you are having success with your date. Wish you the best luck.

LD

 

[Jenesis]

So wait - once you let go of your unrealistic opinions of women in general, didn’t hyper-focus on their looks as oppose to the people they are inside - you actually had a good date with a good outcome???? Imagine that!!!!!!

I’m happy for you. I really am. I hope this lets you realize that you just need to let go a bit. Maybe let go a little more and see what you can find. You are not perfect. Not in looks and personality. Because non of us are. Open your mind a little bit more, don’t always look for the “perfect look” all the time and the possibilities could be endless.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

So wait - once you let your unrealistic opinions of women in general, didn’t hyper-focus on their looks as oppose to the people they are inside - you actually had a good date with a good outcome???? Imagine that!!!!!!

I’m happy for you. I really am. I hope this lets you realize that you just need to let go a bit. Maybe let go a little more and see what you can find. You are not perfect. Not in looks and personality. Because non of us are. Open your mind a little bit more, don’t always look for the “perfect look” all the time and the possibilities could be endless.

You are not perfect. Not in looks and personality. Because non of us are. Open your mind a little bit more, don’t always look for the “perfect look” all the time and the possibilities could be endless.

Who are you? Dear Abby?
Or the cheerleader for settling for less? Kind of flies in the face of the whole point of pooning.

 

[Jenesis]

You are not perfect. Not in looks and personality. Because non of us are. Open your mind a little bit more, don’t always look for the “perfect look” all the time and the possibilities could be endless.

Who are you? Dear Abby?
Or the cheerleader for settling for less? Kind of flies in the face of the whole point of pooning.

When he is pointing, he can ask for whatever he wants but he has wanted a civilian for years now and has been unsuccessful. There are reasons why and clearly in this date, he let go of some of those and was successful.

This is not advice I would give to everyone but to him specifically, based on what he has expressed on TERB many times.

He goes for stripper types. He is so engrossed in the fantasy that opining brings that he takes it to his outside world and expects women to be the same way. They just are not. Hell, even strippers OTC doesn’t look like how they do in the club.

He is extremely superficial. To his own detriment. The advice is to help him be more successful.

And if you noticed, the first thing I said is none of us are perfected. That would include me too.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

When he is pointing, he can ask for whatever he wants but he has wanted a civilian for years now and has been unsuccessful. There are reasons why and clearly in this date, he let go of some of those and was successful.

This is not advice I would give to everyone but to him specifically, based on what he has expressed on TERB many times.

He goes for stripper types. He is so engrossed in the fantasy that opining brings that he takes it to his outside world and expects women to be the same way. They just are not. Hell, even strippers OTC doesn’t look like how they do in the club.

He is extremely superficial. To his own detriment. The advice is to help him be more successful.

And if you noticed, the first thing I said is none of us are perfected. That would include me too.

Speak for yourself. I am holding out. lol.

 

[Jenesis]

Speak for yourself. I am holding out. lol.

You do you boo.

 

[Deviant]

 

[rhuarc29]

I guess congrats on discovering women have more to offer than fake tits and acrylic nails. You've really grown as a person. From superficial to infinitesimally less superficial.

 

[IM469]

Not a fan of really long nails. I keep looking over my shoulder to see if a full moon appears and then the full transformation will happen.

If I'm on a date with an attractive female, my concentration is usually with her face so I occasionally get -'you haven't notice my nails that I had done'. Then I am suppose to ogle an elaborate paint job that cost the same as our dinner.

 

[Leimonis]

Not a fan of really long nails. I keep looking over my shoulder to see if a full moon appears and then the full transformation will happen.

If I'm on a date with an attractive female, my concentration is usually with her face so I occasionally get -'you haven't notice my nails that I had done'. Then I am suppose to ogle an elaborate paint job that cost the same as our dinner.

I would not trust her ass to be clean ever

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I would not trust her ass to be clean ever

I dunno. Maybe that's what she uses a boyfriend for.

 

[Leimonis]

I dunno. Maybe that's what she uses a boyfriend for.

maybe. I'd need to see it to believe it.

 

[Y_Diner]

When he is pointing, he can ask for whatever he wants but he has wanted a civilian for years now and has been unsuccessful. There are reasons why and clearly in this date, he let go of some of those and was successful.

This is not advice I would give to everyone but to him specifically, based on what he has expressed on TERB many times.

He goes for stripper types. He is so engrossed in the fantasy that opining brings that he takes it to his outside world and expects women to be the same way. They just are not. Hell, even strippers OTC doesn’t look like how they do in the club.

He is extremely superficial. To his own detriment. The advice is to help him be more successful.

And if you noticed, the first thing I said is none of us are perfected. That would include me too.

Not sure he asked for yours or anyones advice. Hopefully your unsolicited advice to him was free of charge. LOL

 

[Jenesis]

Not sure he asked for yours or anyones advice. Hopefully your unsolicited advice to him was free of charge. LOL

He has asked for advice many times before and posted about his troubles with civie women. You have to know his posting history to understand. To someone who doesn’t, it may come across wrong.

 

[Samranchoi]

I guess you missed the memo that went around. Unless you have something absolutely good to say, only guys are allowed to voice their thoughts unless you are asked specifically to provide something no matter how correct you are.

 

[KDK13]

Actually Jenesis fully in her rights to comment given the long history of their chats,, and tashki's continually questioning of himself, women, this industry, dating, etc. I for one felt like issuing him a "good onya" for going on the date. Relationships can be hard, and relationships during a pandemic even harder. People get into bad places. And he's courageously put himself out there to potentially subject himself to criticism, and others have commented good and bad. I thought Jenesis' input in earlier exchanges valuable, as they are now.

Sorry. Maybe not my place to comment. But what the fuck. Why not? Don't cost ya nothin'.

 

[johnd5050]

Thanks for reading.

And this is the last sentence the OP wrote.