I can only imagine how difficult it might be to confess your infidelities to your wife. Regardless, you need to be un-selfish in this situation. She has every right to know that she most likely has contracted an STD.
I just looked up STD via Google.ca and found this link:
http://www.afraidtoask.com/std.html
EW! Okay, I am not trying to be immature here but omg, take a look at the photos and read the information. How absolutely disgusting!
CHLAMYDIA- What is it?
Chlamydia is actually a group of different infections caused by different strains of the Chlamydia bacterium. Though Chlamydia pneumonia can cause a type of walking pneumonia, and Chlamydia psittaci can cause a type of pneumonia caused by birds, it is Chlamydia trachomatis that causes various sexually transmitted diseases. Chlamydia is currently the most common STD.
Common Signs & Symptoms
Chlamydia can cause asymptomatic (no symptoms) infections in both men and women. In men it can cause groin pain and swelling (epididymitis) as well as burning on urination (so called, non-gonoccocal urethritis (NGU)). In prepubertal girls, it can cause a mild vaginal discharge and odor (called vaginitis); in postpubertal women it can cause an off-white discharge and odor which comes from an infected cervix. In women, it can be especially dangerous because it can silently linger for months and progress to Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) which can lead to infertility, chronic pain, and even death. Even babies can get this infection: one half of all babies being delivered through the birth canal of an infected women will develop a Chlamydial conjunctivitis (pink eye) a week after birth. About a quarter of babies passing down the infected birth canal will get a Chlamydia pneumonia. Certain strains of Chlamydia trachomatis can get into the skin through minute cuts and cause a disease known as Lymphogranuloma venereum (LGV). This disease has a number of stages from a mild swollen groin lymph node to fever and chills. After months to years, LGV can spread to other lymph nodes causing pain, swelling, skin breakdown (ulceration as pictured) and other problems involving ones rectum and genitals.
Okay people, why don't we save the uncovered oral, etc for the wife or long-term girlfriends and leave the risk of ANY of these Sexually Transmitted Diseases for the idiots who donot favor sexual safety?
Goodluck telling your wife. It's better that you tell her ASAP and avoid having one of these horrible side effects happen to her. It just isnt fair.
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