how long do you let SP make you wait before you leave?

[megumino2]

Arranged a meeting today at 8pm. Arrived at 7:55 and gave her a heads up, she told me to wait.
Waited until 8:15, and it started raining, messaged her and nothing came back. So I left
She finally messaged me at 8:20 saying she is ready, by then I was long gone. I suspect this was due to multiple booking.

Fellow hobbists, how long do you wait in situations like this before leaving?

Bonus question: what do you do if the SP undresses and you smell something nasty from down under?
The other day I tried to ask for my money back and was kicked out lol.

 

[bazokajoe]

about 10 minutes max.

 

[barnacler]

10-15 minutes and if I hear nothing, I BOLT

ANY mention whatsoever of another client being the reason and I'm gone.

 

[Tinmachine]

Ive fortunately never had an issue. Longest I've waited was 15-20 min but she finally let me up and apologized. It is annoying. I'm super punctual, usually arrive 5-10 min earlier and then wait bf a few minutes bf to txt I'm here.

 

[Kusa]

ANY mention whatsoever of another client being the reason and I'm gone.

Or being hurried out before time is up to prepare for another client, I am gone never to return.

 

[Liam011]

I had an agency make we wait 20 minutes the other day. I usually leave after 15 but got distracted answering emails.
The girl I was seeing was annoyed too. Seems the agency made her wait too while they sent up a different guy to see the other girl in the condo suite. The girl blamed an overworked booker.

 

[Mandalorian]

15 mins tops.

 

[Toxboy75]

Longest 15 min. Communication is the key. If I hear nothing back then 5-10 min tops.

 

[Tinmachine]

Or being hurried out before time is up to prepare for another client, I am gone never to return.

Oh that happened to me on a problem I saw a few months back. Paid for an hour (sub par performance as well) and after getting being done and getting dressed at the 40-45 min mark she mentioned I had to rush out so she could prepare for the next bozo. Didn't argue, politely left but will never return

 

[OntarioHappyJohn]

Oh that happened to me on a problem I saw a few months back. Paid for an hour (sub par performance as well) and after getting being done and getting dressed at the 40-45 min mark she mentioned I had to rush out so she could prepare for the next bozo. Didn't argue, politely left but will never return

It’s crazy to me that clients will argue with an SP. When something like this happens, just accept that this is who she is and how she runs her business, and just never see her again.

Be it text or in person, I NEVER argue with an SP. it’s not worth my time and there is zero benefit to ever be gained from doing so.

Once I get a whiff of “ick” from a girl, I just never see them again; but as the old twitter saying goes, “this isn’t an airport so you don’t need to announce your departure”.

 

[Kusa]

It’s crazy to me that clients will argue with an SP. When something like this happens, just accept that this is who she is and how she runs her business, and just never see her again.

Be it text or in person, I NEVER argue with an SP. it’s not worth my time and there is zero benefit to ever be gained from doing so.

Once I get a whiff of “ick” from a girl, I just never see them again; but as the old twitter saying goes, “this isn’t an airport so you don’t need to announce your departure”.

Made my day “this isn’t an airport so you don’t need to announce your departure”.

 

[Sonic Temple]

I think 15 min. is fair.

 

[Y_Diner]

10-15 minutes

 

[Tinmachine]

It’s crazy to me that clients will argue with an SP. When something like this happens, just accept that this is who she is and how she runs her business, and just never see her again.

Be it text or in person, I NEVER argue with an SP. it’s not worth my time and there is zero benefit to ever be gained from doing so.

Once I get a whiff of “ick” from a girl, I just never see them again; but as the old twitter saying goes, “this isn’t an airport so you don’t need to announce your departure”.

100 pct. No pt . Will get u no where. I had a regular txt me an hr bf I was to show that she was "sick". Knew it was likely just a story as I booked her literally 3 hrs earlier and she was fine then
Didn't question her
Just said "no worries " hope yu feel better. And went on to someone else
What would be the pt in arguing ? I saw her again a montj later and everything was cool.

 

[shrek71]

Many of you are far more generous than I am. I wait max five minutes from the scheduled appointment time. If I haven't heard anything back from the time I texted I arrived, and those 5 minutes, I leave. My time is valuable.

Cheers

 

[Tinmachine]

Many of you are far more generous than I am. I wait max five minutes from the scheduled appointment time. If I haven't heard anything back from the time I texted I arrived, and those 5 minutes, I leave. My time is valuable.

Cheers

I've waited 10-15 min and didn't regret it. So I guess I'm thinking with my little head downstairs when waiting

 

[OntarioHappyJohn]

I've waited 10-15 min and didn't regret it. So I guess I'm thinking with my little head downstairs when waiting

My head may fantasize about being an aggrieved customer rightfully withdrawing my business from an unscrupulous merchant…but strangely enough in this situation, it’s the other head telling to me to calm down and be patient.

 

[rhuarc29]

Longest I've been made to wait is 12 minutes, so...at least that long!

On a related note, there used to be a popular MPA that was well known for being tardy. She had horrible time management, and tended to let sessions overrun. She was very good though, and personable, so people forgave her.
I'm blanking on her name and where she used to work, and this was over ten years ago, but I waited 45 minutes in the room for her. Had three sessions with her and all three were at least a 30 minute wait. While the sessions were indeed very good, I eventually got tired of the wait and stopped seeing her.

Point being, how long I'm willing to wait may be a function of how quality the sessions are. But my days are busier now so I'm less likely to wait.

 

[Callmerey]

Yeah 15mins max is quite fair. Girl could be busy, haven’t checked her phone or something. It’s not too long that a girl doesn’t check her phone, they are glued to it.
Rest if no response, I leave.

 

[LTO_3]

15 minutes max. Will only wait longer if communication with the SP (or agency) is good and she's kept me informed she's behind schedule.

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