guys, do you tell your female friends that you are hobbying?

[GotGusto]

I don't have any female friends.

 

[Bear669]

Yes,

A few old buddies/colleagues and one gal- my former boss.

 

[red]

or anyone for that matter?
(and apologies if this issue has been beaten to death)

they are fine with my stamp collection

 

[great bear]

they are fine with my stamp collection

Is your postage due?

 

[red]

Is your postage due?

can I be frank?

 

[great bear]

can I be frank?

Better than being Suzy.

 

[red]

Better than being Suzy.

Sue Z? why what did fred do?

 

[great bear]

Sue Z? why what did fred do?

He tried to get into Frank's male box.

 

[HetroGuy]

Yeah I tell all my friends and female co-workers that I hobby and give them all the details over dinner/ lunch. Who knows - maybe someone in trouble will come with a better offer.

 

[Tokyo Heights]

Hobbying is a very private matter not to be discussed with female friends, but if the female friend belongs to adult industry then there is no worries discussing hobbying with female associates or even female friends, or else its a odd matter, and the other female friends would loose respect for him bieng his friend and active in hobbying in adult indsutry, therefore for many hobbiest hobbying is a purely private matter not to be discussed with everyone

 

[LateIAM]

Escorts are basically the same thing as a one night stand or fuck buddy. I have no problem talking about it if it actually comes up in conversation, I just don't go out of my way to tell people.

I find some people don't know what escorting is to begin with. They have the stigma of pimped, street walking, STD laden hookers in their minds.

 

[freestuff]

Only 2 of my closest friends (both guys) know about it.
It's hard to keep this a secret. I guess that's why a lot of people hang around TERB (even though it's anonymous); they want to keep it a secret but still want to talk about it.

 

[jiiimmm]

tell no one, trust no one!

 

[Mr. Lucky]

 

[carboy]

This is where one of those memory wiper devices from Men in Black would come in handy

 

[doggee_01]

tell no one, trust no one!

amen

 

[Aardvark154]

Defend the law in Canada, and in other places say that the law should be changed to something like Canada's - YES.

Say 'oh by the way I hobby', are you out of your mind!

 

[auto doctor]

tell no one, trust no one!

I have to agree with jiiiiiimmmmmy . Never, not worth the risk. Talk about boobies or something.

 

[Blue-Spheroid]

On the other hand, I do stand up for prostitution as an industry, a stance I don't change based on my audience. I'm probably less credible when I do so since for me it's only verbal support.

You don't have to do something to be credibly in favour of it. I'm a strong supporter of the right to choose to have an abortion, though I can guarantee I'll never have one myself. On a more serious note, many women who have never had an abortion are still in favour of choice and are very credible.

You don't have to go with an SP to agree that it's a valid choice when taken with respect and consideration.

 

[bluesman]

wow

Well i guess i am the Lone Ranger on this thread. Yeah, most of my friends and family (jesus, my dad and two uncles took me to a brothel when i was 16, oops i mean 18l) know i have hobbied and most are pretty open back. However I must admit, i am not very open with the extent to which i hobby lol.

I see nothing wrong about the hobby and I see nothing wrong about saying that to anyone. I am also fortunate enough not to have to worry about what might happen if work life found out.

bm

son of a pot smoking hippie republican!!!