Ever been ghosted for a second encounter

[seunoye]

Hey guys just curious as to why one my be ghosted by an escort after the first encounter. The first time seemed great, no issues, I was very respectful and she seemed to enjoy herself, I don't believe I rushed in, we did have some small talk before and after and I let her lead for the most part as I made sure to be gentle. I was a bit late, but paid a bit extra as compensation for that. I did have a great time overall and nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

I'm trying to meetup a second time based on her availability and all my messages where ghosted no replies for a couple days now. I totally respect the fact and her decision, but I can't help but wonder why this could have happened and would also want to know how to avoid such in the future.

If you're an escort, what could be the reason you could refuse a client the second time?

 

[IM469]

Put yourself on the other side of the equation. When you met up, what if there was something about her that reminded you of somebody or made you feel uncomfortable - wouldn't you make the most of the situation, then move on ? Maybe that little thing you do to make her crazy - made her crazy the wrong way. There has to be a limit to what you will endure for a fee.

If it's not physical, maybe she recognized you. Maybe she is friends with your daughter. You work with her dad. Whatever - just move on. It was just a fantasy anyways.

If you are a little sensitive - she fell madly in love with you and she is afraid she cannot let you walk out the door a second time.

 

[Jenesis]

There is not enough info to go on to guess why she wouldn’t want a second visit.

I can say that for me, I will not reply if I’m not interested but also if I’m booked, or done for the day. You say you are contacting during her posted availability so it wouldn’t be she is not working that day.

Have you tried sending a direct message asking if she would like you to stop contacting her? This may work. If you are not blocked.

I have clients I have seen before in hotels that I had a good time with but I just don’t want at my house. Which is where I’m working now. Sometimes I can’t even tell you why, just a feeling of weirdness and therefore I just ignore or say I’m busy. I don’t want the possible confrontation.

I don’t know if you will ever figure out the reason. Sometimes it is just on whim, for no reason that we can put our finger on but many in industry go with their gut. Not to say you are a bad guy.

I would contact her one more time. Request to know if she just doesn’t want to see you again. Express you will be ok with that choice. You would just like to know so you can stop contacting her. If she replies, you can follow up with your understanding and acceptance of her decision but if she would feel comfortable to tell you why so you don’t make the same mistake. If you get no reply again, move on.

 

[LTO_3]

There could be a number of reasons the SP isn't responding, some mentioned by Jenesis and others such as you remind me of a former SO/BF, you look/remind me of a family member, and I'd prefer not to see you. If you've tried a few times and gotten no response just move on.

LTO_3

 

[Goodoer]

I was ghosted after having two great sessions with a SP. I didn’t ask for her number, she gave it to me so we could hook up outside of the agency…. She vanished and then years later came back to escorting but I never booked…. Now I’m old.

 

[thumper18474]

Best advice...
Remember the good time you had and
Move on

 

[LC18]

I have ghosted two clients this year.

Client no 1 smelled very bad and wouldn’t shower properly. He’s pleasant, polite and Nice to chat with but he smells like he’s been building the Pyramid of Gizeh by himself before coming to my incall.

Client no 2 was fun to chat with but way too demanding in bed. Expecting sex the whole time. I still treated him with respect and smiled but I would never see him again

 

[Tinmachine]

Hey guys just curious as to why one my be ghosted by an escort after the first encounter. The first time seemed great, no issues, I was very respectful and she seemed to enjoy herself, I don't believe I rushed in, we did have some small talk before and after and I let her lead for the most part as I made sure to be gentle. I was a bit late, but paid a bit extra as compensation for that. I did have a great time overall and nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

I'm trying to meetup a second time based on her availability and all my messages where ghosted no replies for a couple days now. I totally respect the fact and her decision, but I can't help but wonder why this could have happened and would also want to know how to avoid such in the future.

If you're an escort, what could be the reason you could refuse a client the second time?

I have a regular I see and on my 3rd or 4th attempt to see her she never replied to my text, when bf she was always prompt. I tried a month later and there were no issues booking again. When I saw her I asked if she got my last txt and she didn't see it (or maybe was am excuse and pretended not seeing it) either way she was busy and I read nothing into it.

Give it a few weeks and try again. If she ghosts you agsin then ya maybe move on

Are yu sure shes actually active when you are reaching out on those days?

Also, my regular told me once she won't respond back to a text after seeing it from so many hours earlier as not to get a client in trouble with a SO. A rule she goes by, she told me.

 

[Tinmachine]

I have ghosted two clients this year.

Client no 1 smelled very bad and wouldn’t shower properly. He’s pleasant, polite and Nice to chat with but he smells like he’s been building the Pyramid of Gizeh by himself before coming to my incall.

Client no 2 was fun to chat with but way too demanding in bed. Expecting sex the whole time. I still treated him with respect and smiled but I would never see him again

I'm so paranoid about my hygiene I think I take 2 showers before arriving and offer to take one when I arrive lol. As for the demanding client, being a gentleman gets you the farthest imo. And I've never been ghosted a 2nd time