Anyone here ever date or start a relationship with a SP?

that6969

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Most want a guy who's stable and can provide especially if they have a kid already. Just look at how some of their friends are when they are with a guy who may not be the type she's dated in the past and they are all like I was shocked to see she was into someone like that. You mean the previous dudes didn't have a similar net worth? Shocking...
 

Fun For All

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Lots of SPs I'd like to start dating and have a relationship with...but...I don't think they're interested, they're in this for the money.
 
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kittykellykat

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What do you guys mean by “dating”, just curious…? What counts as dating these days?

Emotional exclusivity? People know her as your gf?
Being in an actual relationship, cohabiting and stuff?
Hanging out and fucking and watching movies? Eating food?
What if you just gave her platonic creampies for many years and never labeled the relationship? Would you still say you dated?

I think I might be operating on a relatively narrow definition.
 

Fun For All

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What do you guys mean by “dating”, just curious…? What counts as dating these days?

Emotional exclusivity? People know her as your gf?
Being in an actual relationship, cohabiting and stuff?
Hanging out and fucking and watching movies? Eating food?
What if you just gave her platonic creampies for many years and never labeled the relationship? Would you still say you dated?

I think I might be operating on a relatively narrow definition.
Any of those would be awesome!!! Wanna go out on a date?
 

kittykellykat

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SexB

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As I always say when this topic or some variation of it comes up, I have ladies I'm quite fond of and who I like to think enjoy my company.

But at the end of the day, I'm realistic about the nature of things between us.
 

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What do you guys mean by “dating”, just curious…? What counts as dating these days?

Emotional exclusivity? People know her as your gf?
Being in an actual relationship, cohabiting and stuff?
Hanging out and fucking and watching movies? Eating food?
What if you just gave her platonic creampies for many years and never labeled the relationship? Would you still say you dated?

I think I might be operating on a relatively narrow definition.
“Platonic creampies”

the best kind. 😂
 

terbcc098

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Anyone here ever date or start a relationship with a SP?


Here is IMHO the bottom line.

Remember I said " HUMBLE "

Sex is fire for the first few months, then, the fire slowly dims. This happens in every relationship. It's the fire that most guys here are after. I can't fathom looking into the escort pool for a long-term relationship. I would say the same is true for women becoming escorts. Sooner or later the primary leveraging factor that brings us together in this industry fades out. I frequent escorts as an endless supply of that fire, yes we can be crazy about each other, yes we can really dig each other, yes the sex is nuclear, yes we can remain friends, but after a while, as it has been my experience over decades of hobbying, one thing holds true.

Like this line from Phil Collins song " MISSED AGAIN "

Well, it feels like something you want so bad
Then you think you've got it, but it's something you already had.


MD
3 month rule lmao
 

pacman647

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What do you guys mean by “dating”, just curious…? What counts as dating these days?

Emotional exclusivity? People know her as your gf?
Being in an actual relationship, cohabiting and stuff?
Hanging out and fucking and watching movies? Eating food?
What if you just gave her platonic creampies for many years and never labeled the relationship? Would you still say you dated?

I think I might be operating on a relatively narrow definition.
After at least 5 dates (dinner or any other 1:1 activities),
The the next step is to consider the next phase which is exclusivity (both parties don't date others, unless its agreed upon as an open relationship) as a BF/GF relationship... and still not cohabit.

You can have platonic creampie sessions and still not be in a BF/GF relationship if FWB is the agreed status.
 

imaan2k

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What do you guys mean by “dating”, just curious…? What counts as dating these days?

Emotional exclusivity? People know her as your gf?
Being in an actual relationship, cohabiting and stuff?
Hanging out and fucking and watching movies? Eating food?
What if you just gave her platonic creampies for many years and never labeled the relationship? Would you still say you dated?

I think I might be operating on a relatively narrow definition.
Have any of your clients tried to see you outside of working hours?
 

kittykellykat

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All those ideas you suggested can be done indoors!!
Most guys can be shy about that, but it happens once in a blue moon, esp if I get to know them well over a long period of time and we get along.
 
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earbiter

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You know when a girl asks 'so, what're your plans for the rest of the night?', I used to think that was her invitation for me to ask her out. Sometimes, I was right. But years later, I realized that most of the time it was just her hinting that my time was up. Nothing funnier than your younger self.
 

earbiter

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I've dated some, but nothing lasted more than a couple dates.
I had something between a SB and real relationship for a couple years. It had its bright spots, but in the end was probably one of the very few 'relationships' I've regretted,
I still regret not calling a few over the years though, so if you would hold back for fear of it going off the rails, consider the regret, for the road not taken.
 
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