I had an interesting conversation with my regular about men looking and ogling at her in public. I must preface the physical description of her because it context into the dialogue of our conversation. She gets her nails done long, has long hair, lip fillers, plastic surgery work done on her face, has breast implants and a BBL. Her hip to waist ratio is almost 15 inches and her hips are almost 40 inches. She’s very curvy and her booty is thick; She’s an extremely attractive woman.
I told her that I went to a mall the day prior to our session and I said I only saw one woman at the mall that had a BBL.
She went on to say:
“Canada doesn’t have a lot of pretty girls and I hate it.”
She began a reenactment of a time when she was withdrawing money from an ATM and a man was staring at her and she stared back at him. They were staring at each other for a few minutes and she started talking to him
Her: “Why are you looking at me?”
Him: “Because you’re looking at me.”
Her: “No I’m looking at you because you’re looking at me!” She shouted.
And everybody at the bank was looking at them two, causing a scene. The man looked away from her and never looked back again.
She finished telling me the story and went on to complain that she doesn’t like when men keep ogling at her in public. It’s disgusting to her. She would like it if men came up to her and approach her to tell her she’s beautiful and that’s it.
So then ask I her:
“What if a man took the initiative to approach you, start a conversation with you and ask for your number or Instagram and to have drinks with you?”
She said “I will say no and walk away.”
She continued:
“I’m not trying to get a relationship. I don’t need men. I need money.”
She was telling me my own story right back to me except from the perspective of the ladies who rejected me. When I am in public, I would always approach women who would get their nails done long, botox work done on their face, have a boob job, have a BBL and etc.
I would walk downtown in the club and bar district for 2 hours during the nighttime and would approach any and every woman who would have those physical attributes and I would get rejected. I would also do the same at malls either during the day or evening for a few hours and talk to women who I would have these features because they are my type. That’s truthfully the kind of woman that I want to be in a relationship with. But unfortunately that isn’t feasible which is why I am seeing my regular right now and I told her this. She’s literally the only option that I’m able to experience on what it’s like to spend time to someone who is my type.
Back to her comment about. “I don’t need men, I need money.” I honestly think that’s a rhetoric that providers would like to give their clients so it would prevent clients from romantically pursuing them. They are escorts who are in romantic relationships so there’s no way that I believe that she believes what’s shes saying.
I am writing all of this because I truly would genuinely love to be a in relationship with a woman who loves to makes themselves look attractive with the botox, BBL, likes to go to the nail salon to get their nails long, likes getting their lips filled, has breast
Implants and etc. I just hope I don’t come across the “I don’t need men, I need money.”
attitude when I approach these kinds of women in public.