Can’t do it with my wife ….

[Alison_xox]

I am curious ….

A lot of my clients admitted being more open and comfortable to ask for things they like during our sessions , but won’t with their wives because they think they’ll be judge or she won’t be open to it.
Some of them like Hentai , but will watch regular porn with their wife. Some like prostate play or pegging , but would never even think of bringing up the kink at home.
Same for foot fetish or domination.

I find it interesting to see how reserved some gentlemen are about their fantasy & sexual desires.

What’s the thing you would never try with your wife , but you do with your provider ?

 

[ButtMonkey]

I like to bang other woman… my wife doesnt.

 

[xyphy]

hmmm, all I can think of is the following...
missionary, doggy, CG, RCG, anal, bj, cbj, bbbj, hj.
I think that about covers it

 

[kherg007]

Based on my own plus mates experiences, we felt wives were often super judgmental, and a wrong suggestion = weeks of cold shoulder. For some of us, once they're the mother of your children they gain this holy honored status that made me feel additionally bad to push boundaries.

 

[William St]

I am curious ….

A lot of my clients admitted being more open and comfortable to ask for things they like during our sessions , but won’t with their wives because they think they’ll be judge or she won’t be open to it.
Some of them like Hentai , but will watch regular porn with their wife. Some like prostate play or pegging , but would never even think of bringing up the kink at home.
Same for foot fetish or domination.

I find it interesting to see how reserved some gentlemen are about their fantasy & sexual desires.

What’s the thing you would never try with your wife , but you do with your provider ?

Simple. I don't like my wife, for a lot of very good reasons. So I get my satisfaction elsewhere. Thank you, ladies, for all you do!

 

[daemonhead]

Mine won't even let me give her oral sex. I love feet, Dato, light anal play... I love her to death so it's hard to go out to take care of my urges from time to time, but we just can't connect intimately anymore. I do believe SW save marriages, they've helped me to avoid getting into messy affairs.

 

[SIRLOKI]

Hi Alison
Maybe it,s the way you touch me
Maybe it,s the way you listen
Maybe it,s the way you let me touch you
Maybe it,s the way you look at my manhood like a person would look at a popsicle after crossing the dessert
Maybe it,s the way you don,t make me feel like a sex freak for asking sexual things
Maybe it,s the way I feel after we have fun , I feel good
Maybe it,s the way you also enjoy yourself in session

A lot of people have the opinion service providers wreck marriages , I think its the opposite , I think it keeps a lot of them together.

Thank you for what you do .

 

[rlemond]

Hardcore/rough sex and domination are fun things to do every once in a while with providers to satisfy a deeply arousing, but somewhat shameful fantasy. They are not so wise to do with your life partner from fear of the relationship evolving into some kind of degenerate state or from fear of the underlying possibilty of reputation damage if the relationship goes sideway and one of the partner wants to get revenge.

 

[DesRicardo]

but won’t with their wives because they think they’ll be judge or she won’t be open to it.

It's not that. It's because they don't wake up and see you every morning.

They can take every dirty secret to the grave.

 

[monstertruck2024]

Based on my own plus mates experiences, we felt wives were often super judgmental, and a wrong suggestion = weeks of cold shoulder. For some of us, once they're the mother of your children they gain this holy honored status that made me feel additionally bad to push boundaries.

Wow. This totally made me realize why I do this and cheat. Since my wife gave me children I haven’t felt “comfortable” doing the nasty things with her. I feel it’s almost disrespectful to her. When we have sex it’s great but we don’t do half the things I do with my providers. But I also don’t care for or love my providers anywhere near the way I do my wife.

 

[lundunguy]

Welcome to our world famous club

 

[speakercontrols]

I am curious ….

A lot of my clients admitted being more open and comfortable to ask for things they like during our sessions , but won’t with their wives because they think they’ll be judge or she won’t be open to it.
Some of them like Hentai , but will watch regular porn with their wife. Some like prostate play or pegging , but would never even think of bringing up the kink at home.
Same for foot fetish or domination.

I find it interesting to see how reserved some gentlemen are about their fantasy & sexual desires.

What’s the thing you would never try with your wife , but you do with your provider ?

Shrug - I'm pretty vanilla and straightforward so there isn't anything I don't do that I don't do with my wife. That being said, I wouldn't ask my wife for anything too weird because there are long term relationship consequences if it goes bad or if it changes her opinion of me. With escorts, there are no long term relationship consequences. We (me & escorts) don't "matter" to each other so we do it or we don't and then move on.

 

[Poetof69]

hmmm, all I can think of is the following...
missionary, doggy, CG, RCG, anal, bj, cbj, bbbj, hj.
I think that about covers it

Missing dfk, I think. For those of us starved for affection that is a fairly important one.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

Don't have a wife but my girlfriend is not so good with massages and body slides .
Although she enjoys my massages and keeps asking me how I'm so good at it. Little does she know these skills have been acquired and honed by spending hours with MAs
Also can't watch porn or erotic movies with her but I've never watched porn with providers either. I prefer watching alone anyways

 

[TigerFlex5]

I don't have a wife, but my most 3 significant long time relationships ended all because of no more CIM, SW, no Greek or lack of excitement. Things turned to boring missionary and zero sensuality. Only fun was with Doggy, which is a must!

 

[Asher99]

My wife will only engage in sex when she's drunk. Problem is, I can't stand her when she's drunk

 

[Robert205]

I'm 70 years old and I have known only 1 or 2 guys who said that they were happy with their married sex lives. Almost everyone I've known said how inhibited their wives were and how puzzling that is. Sex is free, fun and should lead to relationship intimacy, so what's the problem exactly. Our culture sure does a number on us.

Now I admit that this is one-sided, as we're not hearing what women say about this. Maybe lots of guys are repulsive slobs, how would I know. But my first wife would not let me eat her or give her massages, by far my favourite things to do. I did eat her once, about 8 years into our relationship, and she said that she really enjoyed it and I could tell that was true, but she never let me do it again. Why the f**k not, I wondered. Once I've been turned down a few times, I stop trying, how many blows to my ego am I supposed to take. How many damn dragons am I supposed to slay? Other partners reported having a good time with me, so I'm pretty sure I was at least ok at it.

This whole area is one of the biggest mysteries of my life. Pretty much all the long-term attached guys I've known just sit there and shake their heads, don't understand. But it's not pleasant watching the best years of your life fly past knowing you're not having your share of fun. LIfe isn't about paying off a damn mortgage and mowing the lawn.

One pf my best friends, now deceased, was married to a lady who claimed to be asexual. She was quite forthright about it, she simply did not care about sex. Funny how that only came to the surface a few years after they were married. The thing is, if she really did not care about sex, then it should not matter to her if her husband sought solace elsewhere. But she insisted that since she didn't want sex, then he would simply have to go along. She would reluctantly agree to it every year or two, and the sessions were literally, "Are you done yet?". They had a young daughter so he didn't want to end things. Needless to say, he had an endless string of affairs. And I cheered him on.

I am so sick and tired of all the sanctimonious laws on the books that make sex between consenting adults illegal because a few bucks change hands. And the recent rise of the Christian Taliban in the US and in many places in Canada make me seethe with rage. Who the f**k are these assholes to tell me how to live?

 

[MikeO]

I'm 70 years old and I have known only 1 or 2 guys who said that they were happy with their married sex lives. Almost everyone I've known said how inhibited their wives were and how puzzling that is. Sex is free, fun and should lead to relationship intimacy, so what's the problem exactly. Our culture sure does a number on us.

Now I admit that this is one-sided, as we're not hearing what women say about this. Maybe lots of guys are repulsive slobs, how would I know. But my first wife would not let me eat her or give her massages, by far my favourite things to do. I did eat her once, about 8 years into our relationship, and she said that she really enjoyed it and I could tell that was true, but she never let me do it again. Why the f**k not, I wondered. Once I've been turned down a few times, I stop trying, how many blows to my ego am I supposed to take. How many damn dragons am I supposed to slay? Other partners reported having a good time with me, so I'm pretty sure I was at least ok at it.

This whole area is one of the biggest mysteries of my life. Pretty much all the long-term attached guys I've known just sit there and shake their heads, don't understand. But it's not pleasant watching the best years of your life fly past knowing you're not having your share of fun. LIfe isn't about paying off a damn mortgage and mowing the lawn.

One pf my best friends, now deceased, was married to a lady who claimed to be asexual. She was quite forthright about it, she simply did not care about sex. Funny how that only came to the surface a few years after they were married. The thing is, if she really did not care about sex, then it should not matter to her if her husband sought solace elsewhere. But she insisted that since she didn't want sex, then he would simply have to go along. She would reluctantly agree to it every year or two, and the sessions were literally, "Are you done yet?". They had a young daughter so he didn't want to end things. Needless to say, he had an endless string of affairs. And I cheered him on.

I am so sick and tired of all the sanctimonious laws on the books that make sex between consenting adults illegal because a few bucks change hands. And the recent rise of the Christian Taliban in the US and in many places in Canada make me seethe with rage. Who the f**k are these assholes to tell me how to live?

Brilliantly presented. Thank you! I would feel the same but I'm a retired Snowbird and, with libation in hand, I gaze down upon the beach below my oceanfront balcony and wonder if the guys scouring the sand with metal detectors are searching for the 3 wedding rings I've tossed into the waves over the years. I've enjoyed the fine company of some wonderful young ladies who have pleased and been pleased since 2016 when I separated, retired and began hobbying. Note that a couple of the exwives were great in bed.... until they were affected by the special diet the decreases or negates their sex drive... it's called wedding cake.

 

[Slobus]

... the recent rise of the Christian Taliban in the US and in many places in Canada make me seethe with rage. Who the f**k are these assholes to tell me how to live?

word, and literally lol'd at "christian taliban'

 

[David b]

Because I have a family and a wife, I have to spend all my money to support my family. This resulted in me visiting girls with money depending on whether I won money at the casino or not.