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I know each lady is different when it comes to daty, so I try what I like 1st, & ask them if I'm pleasing them. Sometimes no questions are needed by their reaction if its really good. The other thing to remember is the brain is the largest sex organ & getting her mind into it helps 10fold. Compliments on how sweet she tastes or how moist she is getting, etc I have found works wonders. Some enjoy digits, some do not, some love licking & sucking on their pussy while circling with 2 fingers up top on the edges. Also reminding her to take deep breathing through her nose, hold & breath out through her mouth.
Enjoy