Paid time is up - but you wish he wouldn't leave

IM469

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The date was terrific. He was everything that you would have ever wanted in an encounter... but his paid time was up and he began preparing to leave...totally respectful of you and your schedule.

But no one else was booked in, you liked him and your heart wanted him to stay a bit. What to do?
I am guessing that you are the guy imagining that she wants you to stay. If she really was infatuated and want you to either stay or get together off the clock, she would let you know.
 

Jacklyn7

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Not really. Some ladies are super shy and some just do not want to be assumptive.

I am guessing that you are the guy imagining that she wants you to stay. If she really was infatuated and want you to either stay or get together off the clock, she would let you know.
 

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So close and yet so far.
Two really nice incidents happened to me recently.

A local SP that I had seen only a couple of times tweeted that if anybody happened to be going into Toronto the next day and would like a passenger she could use a ride. I wasn't going into TO but I had absolutely nothing to do so I offered and she took me up on it. We wound up spending four and a half hours, had breakfast (on her) and just drove around and chatted until I left her at the hotel she would be using that day. I had an incredibly nice time, just hanging out and talking to a pretty lady.

The other incident was a really amazing one--I was at the other end of the city seeing a completely different SP, but I was in the neighbourhood of one of my favourites. I contacted her and invited her to lunch at Hooters, and she accepted. So I spent an hour and a half with one SP, left and met another SP at the hotel where she was working, and took her to lunch. Between the hotel, lunch, and driving her home I spent two and a half hours with her. Man, my head was spinning by the time I got home after the best day of my hobbying life so far!

Oh, before you ask, SP #2 knew exactly why I was in the neighbourhood and didn't mind. Fortunately, she's not the jealous type, and I'll be seeing her this weekend for a more normal visit.
 

eagle1man

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I find most men are really good at the, "I should probably go and let you get back to work" line, which leaves it open to either saying, "Ok, until next time" or "It's okay, I have time, let's chat!". It is smooth, and allows both parties an out without being awkward.
Absolutely the way to go I've found. I always say this when the appointed time is up (unless of course the action is still going lol). So often the answer is no rush, I've got some time. I'm used to extended stays chatting and laughing together. Earlier this year, after cuddling for a while we both fell asleep which led to an unexpected overnight stay. We've since developed enough of a friendship to meetup for lunch on her off days.
 

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Gotta love those non jealous types ;) I hear they especially fun in bed too... :thumb:
(P.s. Don't forget the crackers)

Two really nice incidents happened to me recently.

A local SP that I had seen only a couple of times tweeted that if anybody happened to be going into Toronto the next day and would like a passenger she could use a ride. I wasn't going into TO but I had absolutely nothing to do so I offered and she took me up on it. We wound up spending four and a half hours, had breakfast (on her) and just drove around and chatted until I left her at the hotel she would be using that day. I had an incredibly nice time, just hanging out and talking to a pretty lady.

The other incident was a really amazing one--I was at the other end of the city seeing a completely different SP, but I was in the neighbourhood of one of my favourites. I contacted her and invited her to lunch at Hooters, and she accepted. So I spent an hour and a half with one SP, left and met another SP at the hotel where she was working, and took her to lunch. Between the hotel, lunch, and driving her home I spent two and a half hours with her. Man, my head was spinning by the time I got home after the best day of my hobbying life so far!

Oh, before you ask, SP #2 knew exactly why I was in the neighbourhood and didn't mind. Fortunately, she's not the jealous type, and I'll be seeing her this weekend for a more normal visit.
 

Titalian

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Two really nice incidents happened to me recently.

A local SP that I had seen only a couple of times tweeted that if anybody happened to be going into Toronto the next day and would like a passenger she could use a ride. I wasn't going into TO but I had absolutely nothing to do so I offered and she took me up on it. We wound up spending four and a half hours, had breakfast (on her) and just drove around and chatted until I left her at the hotel she would be using that day. I had an incredibly nice time, just hanging out and talking to a pretty lady.

The other incident was a really amazing one--I was at the other end of the city seeing a completely different SP, but I was in the neighbourhood of one of my favourites. I contacted her and invited her to lunch at Hooters, and she accepted. So I spent an hour and a half with one SP, left and met another SP at the hotel where she was working, and took her to lunch. Between the hotel, lunch, and driving her home I spent two and a half hours with her. Man, my head was spinning by the time I got home after the best day of my hobbying life so far!

Oh, before you ask, SP #2 knew exactly why I was in the neighbourhood and didn't mind. Fortunately, she's not the jealous type, and I'll be seeing her this weekend for a more normal visit.
I thought your bringing her to lunch was a normal visit. :confused:
 

Titalian

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I do luv these stories, it puts a more human factor into the equation !!!

Oh ! I forgot to mention that in my original post up top, I did tell her I was good with my hands (and I don't mean sex, she already knows that) with fixing things and putting things together.
So she asked me if I could come over during the week and help her out putting some new electronic components together, which she said she had no clue about. I gladly obliged and
went back during the week. We had a great night together, ordered out. which she payed for, drank a few beers laughed and joked around and basically got to know each other better.
I do enjoy those moments !!!
 

Titalian

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I have a feeling it is bolt who does most of the eating *wink wink* oh, that was not nearly as subtle as it sounded in my head.
LMFHO I Never thought about that, but your probably right :thumb:
 

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The problem with relaying a good story in this vein is that someone always comes along (ya, I know who) and gets pissy about guys glorifying themselves.
 

Titalian

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The problem with relaying a good story in this vein is that someone always comes along (ya, I know who) and gets pissy about guys glorifying themselves.
Please, ask me if I give a shit !!!!!
 

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I'm a massage client, so the term "date" may be a bit of a stretch but I have been in that situation before.
On some occasions, the MPAs weren't booked right after me so they just extended my sessions at no cost.
Other times, just to keep things legit, we finished up like normal then just spent some time talking with the door open so that everyone knew we were done.
I did this exact very thing tonight @ AGS...the doorway thing that is. I stayed about 20 mins past appointment time. The receptionist and I are also becoming friendly, so she was kool with me hanging out for a bit. I only left because I felt like I was breaking the rules. Don't want to take a mile from an inch right?
 

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This is why I had to ditch the sugar babe I had a few years ago. She started questioning the boundaries and forgetting that the money was for her to keep her distance.
 

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I'll share three of them that stand out.One is recent,the others were over a year ago,but interesting to say the least.

Booked a two hour appt a couple weeks ago after i returned home from a biz trip.Was the last appt. of the day with an indy i never met before & ended up having a great time.She had asked me earlier what my favourite drink was & surprised me with it.Between the drinks & snacks,two rounds of steamy action & some very interesting conversations when i finally got dressed it was almost 3.5 hours!I asked if she was hungry when i was getting dressed & she said yes so we went & had a nice late dinner.Have to say i was blown away by her intelligence for such a young age.Could have went for a nightcap after taking her back to the hotel,but opted for a good nite kiss as i had to be up early to coach hockey.

This ones a little weird.Met a cute agency girl that only worked at the airport area for a few months.First time we meet i have an hour appt & get two shots on goal.She's right into things & when i get out of the shower she says i don't have an another appt for a bit can you go down on me one more time.With a straight face i said sure it'll be $50,she looked stun for a second & than started laughing.We had a drink & then i got to work on her little kitty for a bit & then she said i wanna fuk you once more.Who am i to argue,i start banging the snot out of her & i'm just about there when we here a knock on the door.Son of a bitch!She put her phone on mute earlier & looked at it to see clients on way up!I'm a calm guy & not much bothers me,but i have to admit i kinda panicked!She's sayin wtf wtf wtf,& i had a brainstorm! I said open the door a little in your towel & tell him you feel sick to your stomach & ask if he can get you a gingerale.Well it worked,i got dressed in about 60seconds gave her a qwik smouch & walked out the door & into the elevator with a semi.Funny thing is she texted me 45 mins later & asked if i wanted to come back up & finish where we left off.Yeah maybe next time lol. To anybody out there that reads this & got the gingerale,i owe you a drink & a i'm sorry!

This is the strange one! Met this agency girl about two years ago & had a great time,she made it into the prettiest face sp thread & had some comments in her reviews as model looks.She gave me her number & i didn't put it into my phone correctly.Couple months later i look to see if she's working & she's gone,bummer.To my surprise about 8 or 9 months later she pops up again so i make an appt.Get there late in the aftn & bring her a little gift for one of her hobbies she mentioned.Wasn't sure if she'd she remember me,but once the door opened she pounced & pushed me on the bed & asked why i didn't call after all these months.Gave her the little gift,made amends & then some no holds barred rauchy sex im sure someone in the hotel heard!After the appt was done we started talking & had a couple glasses of wine.Started telling me she doesn't like her job & some personal issues.Couldn't help but notice her phone vibrating from all the texts,& then she says its not important & excuses herself to the washroom.Phone starts ringing so i hand it to her in the washroom,& this is the agency calling telling her she has an appt waiting in the parking lot.I here some arguing & then "fine i quit"! I tell her to think it over & she says i don't want to fuk any other guys,& me in my infinite wisdom says maybe you'll change your mind tomorrow.Yeah not the words of encouragement she was looking for!After another drink she packs up & says lets go for dinner.We start heading for the front door & get to the lobby when she looks out & says shit thats my driver!So we end up going out a side entrance & she ducks as we pass her driver.Have to say we had a great dinner,& its even better when the girl buys! The story gets stranger from here,so i won't go into anymore details.


Passed my bedtime,but can't get to sleep.Really excited about dinner tonite with the girl i met on labourday.Wish me luck boys!
 

Titalian

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I did this exact very thing tonight @ AGS...the doorway thing that is. I stayed about 20 mins past appointment time. The receptionist and I are also becoming friendly, so she was kool with me hanging out for a bit. I only left because I felt like I was breaking the rules. Don't want to take a mile from an inch right?
This is why I had to ditch the sugar babe I had a few years ago. She started questioning the boundaries and forgetting that the money was for her to keep her distance.
Well !! I'm just guessing now, but I think, that you two, really don't get it, at all !!!! In fact I believe these ladies, were not even interested in meeting with you, but maybe not facman though. JMTs
 

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The date was terrific. He was everything that that I had ever wanted in an encounter... but his paid time was up and he began preparing to leave...totally respectful of me and my schedule.

But no one else was booked in, I liked him and my heart wanted him to stay a bit. What should I have done?
 

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I think if it is a regular you see often perhaps it is okay to ask her if she has time to catch up/hang out for a bit post session, just thinking since she knows your time is often short maybe there is a way for you to signal to her those days where your schedule is a little more open, I dunno, just a thought! :)
When I really feel like staying, I usually ask her if I could extend the time and I would normally pay her ( I do not feel right to take advantage of her or her time). The point I was making is that, she does not have to see me leave at the dot - most of the time anyway. :p
 

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The date was terrific. He was everything that that I had ever wanted in an encounter... but his paid time was up and he began preparing to leave...totally respectful of me and my schedule.

But no one else was booked in, I liked him and my heart wanted him to stay a bit. What should I have done?
Maybe drop him a hint? You're human and it's not abnormal to attracted to someone. Who knows? Don't the best relationships start off unexpectedly?
 

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Since you said please, do you give a shit? :D
Looking at Mr T's posts I think he types up a bunch of strange things then inserts them in any old thread regardless of the context. Perhaps he is aspiring to a level of humour that he does not posses
 
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