Paid time is up - but you wish he wouldn't leave

[bemused]

The date was terrific. He was everything that that I had ever wanted in an encounter... but his paid time was up and he began preparing to leave...totally respectful of me and my schedule.

But no one else was booked in, I liked him and my heart wanted him to stay a bit. What should I have done?

 

[VirginJohn]

The date was terrific. He was everything that you would have ever wanted in an encounter... but his paid time was up and he began preparing to leave...totally respectful of you and your schedule.

But no one else was booked in, you liked him and your heart wanted him to stay a bit. What to do?

Do you have any ads up?

 

[Mr Bret]

I'm a massage client, so the term "date" may be a bit of a stretch but I have been in that situation before.
On some occasions, the MPAs weren't booked right after me so they just extended my sessions at no cost.
Other times, just to keep things legit, we finished up like normal then just spent some time talking with the door open so that everyone knew we were done.

 

[BAMan 55]

Do you have any ads up?

Not likely. 2 posts. Joined Nov 2007!!

 

[thumper18474]

he would probably get more responses if it was
Time isnt up yet...
But you wish he WOULD leave

 

[IRIS]

Just say it.
-"Can you stay a little? I really like you!"
Fuck your EGO or don't think you weak because you ask him. SP-s need love too. Maybe the best thing is on its way in your life.
Lots of beautiful things are missing from people's life, because they become silent in a very important moment.

 

[GameBoy27]

Just say it.
-"Can you stay a little? I really like you!"
Fuck your EGO or don't think you weak because you ask him. SP-s need love too. Maybe the best thing is on its way in your life.
Lots of beautiful things are missing from people's life, because they become silent in a very important moment.

This ^^^^

If you ask him to stay, what's the worst thing he can? No, got to go!

 

[DB123]

This ^^^^

If you ask him to stay, what's the worst thing he can? No, got to go!

I can tell you from experience (this afternoon, as a matter of fact), when that happens and you've actually 'got to go', you kick yourself the entire way to wherever it is you're going.

 

[Jacklyn7]

I find most men are really good at the, "I should probably go and let you get back to work" line, which leaves it open to either saying, "Ok, until next time" or "It's okay, I have time, let's chat!". It is smooth, and allows both parties an out without being awkward.

 

[justfor]

I find most men are really good at the, "I should probably go and let you get back to work" line, which leaves it open to either saying, "Ok, until next time" or "It's okay, I have time, let's chat!". It is smooth, and allows both parties an out without being awkward.

Very good line to say to her. I always respect the time and watch the clock closely with every lady I meet. A few times when I said this to a lady whom I had met for 3-4 times, she'd say it's ok, I am not busy, and we ended up chatting a bit longer. With my regular, she knows I have a certain time limit most of the time. She tends not to ask me to stay even though sometimes I could have stayed longer if she had asked me. I wish she had asked..

 

[Titalian]

I find most men are really good at the, "I should probably go and let you get back to work" line, which leaves it open to either saying, "Ok, until next time" or "It's okay, I have time, let's chat!". It is smooth, and allows both parties an out without being awkward.

Sort of on the same wave length. I set up an appointment for two o'clock on a Saturday. When I called that morning to confirm, she replied why don't you come over at 1 pm instead. I thought to myself
that she might have had another appointment. I obliged (I was horny), and met her at 1 at her condo. After our intense sexual encounter, she asked if I wanted a beer?? And we just talked about things and laughed a lot, I ended up leaving at 3.30.

 

[Jacklyn7]

I think if it is a regular you see often perhaps it is okay to ask her if she has time to catch up/hang out for a bit post session, just thinking since she knows your time is often short maybe there is a way for you to signal to her those days where your schedule is a little more open, I dunno, just a thought!

Very good line to say to her. I always respect the time and watch the clock closely with every lady I meet. A few times when I said this to a lady whom I had met for 3-4 times, she'd say it's ok, I am not busy, and we ended up chatting a bit longer. With my regular, she knows I have a certain time limit most of the time. She tends not to ask me to stay even though sometimes I could have stayed longer if she had asked me. I wish she had asked..

 

[FTWWTF]

I used to hobby in Kingston, and had to drive over an hour to get there. I had a regular that I was seeing for over 3 years. Booked her for 2 hours. Session was great as always. When i arrived it was a nice night. As I was getting ready to leave at midnight, we both noticed that it was a wintery hell outside. Knowing that I had to drive home in that shit, she offered me to spend the night. I accepted, we chatted for awhile, and she said well its time to go to sleep. I was expecting to sleep on her couch, and was surprised when she said I could sleep in her bed with her. We went to bed, and we talked a little more, and we fell asleep cuddling. It was a nice night. Slept in, and was late for work the next day. But it was worth it.

 

[bolt.upright]

I generally like my appointments to be early--10 a.m. is ideal for me and I rarely have anything pressing until mid-afternoon. My favourite ladies, after a few visits, usually know this and I have occasionally been invited to stay for a chat or a snack. If I'm feeling a little clueless that day I have always found that SP's are very good at sending a signal as to when it's time to leave. "Thanks for coming to see me today" along with a little kiss is usually enough to get the message across for me.

It's always wonderful when it seems that the lady is enjoying your company almost as much as you're enjoying hers. When she gives you just an extra five or ten minutes it means so much compared to leaving, looking at your watch and realizing that it's been 23 minutes since you walked in her door for a half hour session. And yes, that's happened to me too.

 

[zefroggy]

When I read the title of the thread I though, yeah, right! And I realized this happened to me.

One time we just kept on talking naked on the bed for an hour or so. Nice and enjoyable time.
Another time, another SP. Last appointment of her day, and we kept at it for another 30 minutes on a one hour booking. And we then met off hobby, as friends with DFK.

So yes, this happens.

Voidphase had the best stories. This is when I miss his posts.

 

[Ridgeman08]

Voidphase had the best stories. This is when I miss is posts.

I have a sneaky suspicion he's lurking in the shadows... and yes he did have some great stories.

I've been fortunate enough to be on the rec'ving end of some extended appointments, including a couple of dinners and even a couple sleepovers. (I won't name names, so don't ask... ). A word of advice though, it ALWAYS has to be at the ladies suggestion... I had suggested on a few occasions with one lady I was particularly fond of, and it didn't fly. :hand:

Then, there's that time when an impromptu duo partner showed up! :wink:

 

[Titalian]

I have a sneaky suspicion he's lurking in the shadows... and yes he did have some great stories.

I've been fortunate enough to be on the rec'ving end of some extended appointments, including a couple of dinners and even a couple sleepovers. (I won't name names, so don't ask... ). A word of advice though, it ALWAYS has to be at the ladies suggestion... I had suggested on a few occasions with one lady I was particularly fond of, and it didn't fly. :hand:

Then, there's that time when an impromptu duo partner showed up! :wink:

Now, thats what I call, a glorious moment !!! :wink:

 

[Jacklyn7]

Haha, the surprise duo is always fun!

I have a sneaky suspicion he's lurking in the shadows... and yes he did have some great stories.

I've been fortunate enough to be on the rec'ving end of some extended appointments, including a couple of dinners and even a couple sleepovers. (I won't name names, so don't ask... ). A word of advice though, it ALWAYS has to be at the ladies suggestion... I had suggested on a few occasions with one lady I was particularly fond of, and it didn't fly. :hand:

Then, there's that time when an impromptu duo partner showed up! :wink:

 

[DanJ]

I have a regular lady I have gotten to know pretty well over the last year. Had a session with her in the morning a couple months ago. As we laid there after, chatting, and before getting dressed, we made small talk about the rest of our respective days. She said she had to go shopping for a friend's birthday party that night. I said I had the day off and might try to get some yard work done, or some other uninteresting task. I knew she didn't drive, so I offered to drive her to the mall if she wanted. She readily accepted if it wasn't too much trouble. One thing led to another, we had lunch, I offered that if she had any other errands to run, I would be happy to take her. She said she didn't want to take advantage, and of course, I was like "I'm having a blast with you today", so off we went to a couple other places, all the time, sort of hoping I ran into someone I knew (not family though lol). We ended up at a strip club later on, where drinks were on her. It was about 5 hours after our session ended when I dropped her off at home. Really fun afternoon.

 

[Cobra Enorme]

LOL at this post.