Are you married ?

She is likely getting it on the side

lamwi said:

Hi Everyone

I was married for 5 years in my second marriage. During the first year of our marriage we had sex at least 2 times each week. Now we had sex about once every 10 days or more. I try to encourage her for more sex but seems she is not interested.

When I need it and she is not interested I went out for a release. I wonder for all who see SP on a regular base how many times each week you have sex with your wife ?

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Been Married for a Loooonnnngggg time. Sex is a thing of the past with the wife, she was never a big fan.

Isn't "sex with wife" an oxymoron?

been married and used my get out of jail free card!!!!!! my ex's couldn't handle me but i never did go astray, never would in a relationship. I just hope my next husband loves sex as much as me. he would be a happy man with at least 2 times a day if not more

I've been married for 17 years. I have some type of sexual activity once every two to six weeks, but even then, it's routine and mundane and it's more to shut me up than because she wants to. She had a final hysterectomy about a year ago, but her sex drive has been way down for years. She then has the nerve to tell me to make myself more attractive to her (not physically, but emotionally), but I give her a whole lot more support than she does me. She's also gained some weight and not as attractive anymore, but that's not the issue. My happiness doesn't seem to be to important to her. An example is that after her hysterectomy, her OB wrote the name of an herbal supplement called Avlamil to increase sex drive. The reason I knew how to spell the name was because the paper is still on our refrigerator and product was never ordered.

I lost my job of 16.5 years at the end of 2005. To have that rejection, plus the spousal rejection, is not making me real happy now. We'll probably end up in marriage counseling, but I'm thinking divorce isn't out of question like I thought it might have been previously. Of course, you can imagine the reaction if she found out about the hobbying. It's embarrassing when an SP asks you how long its been since I've had sex with spouse and once hearing my answer, she looks at me and says, "oh, you poor dear" (this has really happened).

Sorry for the rant, but the question struck a nerve.

Crownandseven

lamwi said:

When you married to your husband is he more interested in sex than a few years later ?

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i got more out of him before we got married lol * spent most nights on the couch *
after marrige i was lucky if i got it 2 times a week

Would kill for 2x a week.......

massman said:

Would kill for 2x a week.......

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so i guess you would die for 2 times a day

lol sorry i couldn't pass that up

I am still single. You guys suck!

sorry - can anyone define what marriage is??

its not in my vocab!!!


still single and enjoying the single life!!!

zanner69 said:

sorry - can anyone define what marriage is??

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Trust me, you dont want it

luv4lust said:

so i guess you would die for 2 times a day

lol sorry i couldn't pass that up

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Youre not kidding....

In my experience, I think it would be more accurate to give the following options.

- Once a month
- Once every 3 months
- Once every 6 months
- Once on your birthday
- Once every ice age

brik said:

In my experience, I think it would be more accurate to give the following options.

- Once a month
- Once every 3 months
- Once every 6 months
- Once on your birthday
- Once every ice age

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that bad, eh?

I'm married to my work and having sex at work would get me in trouble.

brik said:

- Once every ice age

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LOL...you're in luck, we have one coming up

Wow ... this has been an interesting thread.

You guys are confirming that I'm not missing anything by not being married.

I thought you married guys got it all the time for FREE.

Might actually get more as a single hobbyist.

baltimoron said:

I thought you married guys got it all the time for FREE.

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That depends on who you're married to