I don't think you know what the word "theocracy" means.Backing Israel as 'Jewish' state is like backing the Iranian theocracy of the Saudi theocracy.
Regardless, it's clear that even you don't seriously believe Saudi Arabia and Egypt and others are so committed to your arguments about "democracy" that they're going to risk everything by supporting the so-called "refugees" taking charge of Israel.
Israel is and will remain a Jewish state. That's reality.
If the Palestinians want their own sovereign state, they're going to have to accept that reality. The only alternative is the status quo.