That's so sad.
I love a meaty labia, like a butterfly with its wings spread, or the petals of a flower. Visually, I find it very exciting. I know I'm not alone as there are quite a few threads on TERB with respect to women with meaty labias and they clearly show that there is a large number of men actively looking for women with pronounced labias.
Lastly, of all the things in life for a person to worry about, a labia is not one of them. Any guy who makes a crack about a woman's labia is obviously a little boy.