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markymark

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I’m going to keep this as short as possible. After 20+ years as a hobbyist, I am retiring. It’s just not who I want to be anymore.

I’ve had enough. I now deeply regret it. I urge anyone considering stopping to see a therapist and get help. I’m going to stop denying that I wasn’t a big part of the problem.

I understand. I hear a lot of you say this is the only way to satisfy your sexual desire. While this was not the case for me, I want everyone to know if you have the funds and intelligence for this hobby, you can improve yourself to become more desirable and find a partner or go back to your partner (in my case).

stay safe everyone and thanks to the terb community for all you help and entertainment over the years.
 
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don't let the door hit you on your way out.
 
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markymark said:
I’m going to keep this as short as possible. After 20+ years as a hobbyist, I am retiring. It’s just not who I want to be anymore.

I’ve had enough. I now deeply regret it. I urge anyone considering stopping to see a therapist and get help. I’m going to stop denying that I wasn’t a big part of the problem.

I understand. I hear a lot of you say this is the only way to satisfy your sexual desire. While this was not the case for me, I want everyone to know if you have the funds and intelligence for this hobby, you can improve yourself to become more desirable and find a partner or go back to your partner (in my case).

stay safe everyone and thanks to the terb community for all you help and entertainment over the years.
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This and other boards like it are tantalizing places. I signed up about a month after you back in the day(had to reboot about 7 months later).If you are serious, delete your account. Have the mods do it. When your having dark times, or dark days this seductress WILL welcome you back. If you don't REALLY want this then delete your account. Otherwise we'll see you down the road......
 
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Robert Mugabe

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Scarey said:
This and other boards like it are tantalizing places. I signed up about a month after you back in the day(had to reboot about 7 months later).If you are serious, delete your account. Have the mods do it. When your having dark times, or dark days this seductress WILL welcome you back. If you don't REALLY want this then delete your account. Otherwise we'll see you down the road......
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Beware of the dark master...
 
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You sound so brainwashed by society. Someone got to you brother.

There is nothing wrong with two consenting adults participating in this hobby.

It’s our fucked up society that believe they can take our fundamental right to choose what to do with our bodies in the privacy of our homes or established business.

This is no different then getting a massage, or haircut or dental appointments. This is why funds are exchanged and everything stops when the door closes. However your mind body and soul benefit. The good sex hormones get released throughout your body and you are overall healthier.

Reason you feel like this because society is shaming you because they want to control you. They make you feel and believe like you are doing something wrong. They stigmatize this hobby for a reason. The like to see broken marriages and people sick and taking drugs and feeding money back into the system. This should be an open option for both partners in a marriage provided it is done responsibly. If you are single there is even less issue.

Are you going to live your whole life allowing people to program you, to label you, to tell you what you are and what you can’t and shouldn’t do. See this is the problem and people like you just contribute to the downward cycle of our fundamental human rights, our awakening and self actualizing.

You will burn in hell and remain ultimately unforgiven for your sins lol see how dumb that sounds


markymark said:
I’m going to keep this as short as possible. After 20+ years as a hobbyist, I am retiring. It’s just not who I want to be anymore.

I’ve had enough. I now deeply regret it. I urge anyone considering stopping to see a therapist and get help. I’m going to stop denying that I wasn’t a big part of the problem.

I understand. I hear a lot of you say this is the only way to satisfy your sexual desire. While this was not the case for me, I want everyone to know if you have the funds and intelligence for this hobby, you can improve yourself to become more desirable and find a partner or go back to your partner (in my case).

stay safe everyone and thanks to the terb community for all you help and entertainment over the years.
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Robert Mugabe

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markymark said:
I’m going to keep this as short as possible. I urge anyone considering stopping to see a therapist and get help.
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I did exactly the opposite. I stopped seeing a therapist and started pooning. Felt much better. Far less money.
 
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You sound so brainwashed by society. Someone got to you brother.

There is nothing wrong with two consenting adults participating in this hobby.

It’s our fucked up society that believe they can take our fundamental right to choose what to do with our bodies in the privacy of our homes or established business.

This is no different then getting a massage, or haircut or dental appointments. This is why funds are exchanged and everything stops when the door closes. However your mind body and soul benefit. The good sex hormones get released throughout your body and you are overall healthier.

Reason you feel like this because society is shaming you because they want to control you. They make you feel and believe like you are doing something wrong. They stigmatize this hobby for a reason. The like to see broken marriages and people sick and taking drugs and feeding money back into the system. This should be an open option for both partners in a marriage provided it is done responsibly. If you are single there is even less issue.

Are you going to live your whole life allowing people to program you, to label you, to tell you what you are and what you can’t and shouldn’t do. See this is the problem and people like you just contribute to the downward cycle of our fundamental human rights, our awakening and self actualizing.

You will burn in hell and remain ultimately unforgiven for your sins lol see how dumb that sounds

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I'm actually quite happy it is such a transactional relationship. When I'm gone she fucks off and I fuck off until I pay again.

It really makes it so much simpler, it really is one of the best benefits. Makes it much more clear than random hookups culture.
 
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Good luck! The challenge for me is I don't want to find/have a partner.
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I feel the same. In my 60`s and it often bothers me but you have to accept the substantial legal and financial liabilities in a world heavily biased against men. My 2 favorite girls aren`t working now but I`m certain when things straighten out I`ll call them. I dated 3 women last year and their personalities and entitlement were horrific.
 
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luvyeah said:
I'm actually quite happy it is such a transactional relationship. When I'm gone she fucks off and I fuck off until I pay again.

It really makes it so much simpler, it really is one of the best benefits. Makes it much more clear than random hookups culture.
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All the good. None of that bad. That is what I always say. It works both ways.
 
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torex

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Well said! .... I've been in this hobby for many years!!! ... it's not because I can't get laid on my own etc... I hobby because I don't want to wine and dine and go through the whole dating scene or now in a relationship but bored ... the fact I can just call up a lady of my choice, pay ,have fun and be gone!! No strings attached is awesome.. I don't need some clingy woman texting me calling me all the time because she wants more than what it was ...
lots of guys in the same boat...I've been in a relationship for the last 10yrs but I've become board and complacent... I just find I need a different woman sometimes ... it's the excitement and promiscuousity for me that I enjoy :encouragement::rockon:
 
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torex said:
Well said! .... I've been in this hobby for many years!!! ... it's not because I can't get laid on my own etc... I hobby because I don't want to wine and dine and go through the whole dating scene or now in a relationship but bored ... the fact I can just call up a lady of my choice, pay ,have fun and be gone!! No strings attached is awesome.. I don't need some clingy woman texting me calling me all the time because she wants more than what it was ...
lots of guys in the same boat...I've been in a relationship for the last 10yrs but I've become board and complacent... I just find I need a different woman sometimes ... it's the excitement and promiscuousity for me that I enjoy :encouragement::rockon:
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Well said! I would also like to add. Im 41 years old for most of my 20's my beliefs on love were very blue pilled for example find "the one" and live happily ever after. I was in a relationship where my GF at the time took advantage of my disney view on women and relationships. Now I enjoy the hobby. I love the variety and my career allows me to participate! Gone are the days where GF's would want me to help pay there rent / car lease or buy them stuff from Holt Renfrew on a regular basis... Just because they feel entitled. I still remember my ex GF telling me "everything is about benefiting me" so I moved on.
 
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Smallcock

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The only time this hobby is a problem is when:

1) You catch feelings for an SP and believe what you have with her is more than a mere transaction. It's in an SP's interest to hook you emotionally, but never fall for it and enjoy it for what it is... a financial transaction to satisfy a physical need.
2) You use it for therapy or something else lacking in your life. The hobby is to take care of your base physical urges only. It cannot substitute for a real relationship or much of anything else. If you allow it to, it opens you up to abuse.
3) You're in a committed relationship and are exposing your SO to diseases that you contract from hobbying. Lord knows we've all contracted numerous contaminants from these filthy women of the night.
4) You refuse to repent for your sins when you attend church services on Sunday
 
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Awww
 
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I understand where the OP is coming from. I was like that 20 yrs ago. Then after a few relationships and a marriage ending in an amicable divorce, I realized I was meant to be single and happy about it. So now, it's just me and my son. No one telling me what to do. Life is grand.
 
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