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    What do you think about when you encounter your more-significant exes later in life?

    What do you think about when you encounter your more-significant exes later in life? Not the short-term relationships, casual encounters, etc., but the long-term relationships?

    For me, I find it interesting for all sorts of reasons:
    1. What weird odds that I even see them again (eg. different City on one and bizarre 6-Degrees of separation on another)?,
    2. One is a pure her-mom version of herself (funny as they 'despised' one another),
    3. One had a kid (vowed that she would never),
    4. One, who I was supposed to marry, is following her life-plan exactly, except her fitness goals (and that I find CRAZY as she was a model),
    5. While I see their aging, but I don't really see them that way. I see them as the younger versions, as they were. (that was interesting...).

    While I'm sure they are still thinking of my epic penis and how it felt so good, I sort of wonder myself as to what else they thought... In these cases, these are ladies who know me deep-down. They could call bullshit and even hurt me. What do they think of the years tacked onto me or the changes that have occurred?

    No judgement really as decades go by quickly. I'm surprised the encounters even happened - none of them with my wife and kids in tow either...

    Just thought I'd throw it out there for some different discussion.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Goodoer View Post
    What do you think about when you encounter your more-significant exes later in life? Not the short-term relationships, casual encounters, etc., but the long-term relationships?

    For me, I find it interesting for all sorts of reasons:
    1. What weird odds that I even see them again (eg. different City on one and bizarre 6-Degrees of separation on another)?,
    2. One is a pure her-mom version of herself (funny as they 'despised' one another),
    3. One had a kid (vowed that she would never),
    4. One, who I was supposed to marry, is following her life-plan exactly, except her fitness goals (and that I find CRAZY as she was a model),
    5. While I see their aging, but I don't really see them that way. I see them as the younger versions, as they were. (that was interesting...).

    While I'm sure they are still thinking of my epic penis and how it felt so good, I sort of wonder myself as to what else they thought... In these cases, these are ladies who know me deep-down. They could call bullshit and even hurt me. What do they think of the years tacked onto me or the changes that have occurred?

    No judgement really as decades go by quickly. I'm surprised the encounters even happened - none of them with my wife and kids in tow either...

    Just thought I'd throw it out there for some different discussion.
    I’ve only run into one of my exes. Dated her for over a year, she broke up with me via text over one relatively minor argument a month after taking her on a very expensive vacation. She tried to hide behind a bus shelter so I wouldn’t see her. What, was she afraid I might cook her a nice dinner, buy her a gift, and give her an orgasm? That shit made me mad. I was very good to her, I legitimately loved her, I gave her her space and respected her privacy, never tried to contact her after we broke up. Nearly a decade after suddenly breaking up with me for virtually no reason (which fucked me up pretty bad, that breakup was actually kind of the catalyst for me finding this hobby in the first place), she tries to fucking HIDE from me? Not cool.

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    I'm trying to act casual but deep down I know that I want to look to be in a better condition than them..

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    They are exes for a reason so I keep walking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bazokajoe View Post
    They are exes for a reason so I keep walking.
    I think how lucky I am that she dumped me and broke my heart. She is a tub now. I feel bad saying that but itís true.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Grimnul View Post
    I’ve only run into one of my exes. Dated her for over a year, she broke up with me via text over one relatively minor argument a month after taking her on a very expensive vacation. She tried to hide behind a bus shelter so I wouldn’t see her. What, was she afraid I might cook her a nice dinner, buy her a gift, and give her an orgasm? That shit made me mad. I was very good to her, I legitimately loved her, I gave her her space and respected her privacy, never tried to contact her after we broke up. Nearly a decade after suddenly breaking up with me for virtually no reason (which fucked me up pretty bad, that breakup was actually kind of the catalyst for me finding this hobby in the first place), she tries to fucking HIDE from me? Not cool.
    I had the same thing happen to me... treated her well and did everything right. It turned out that she had major anxiety/depression issues. Anyway, it was her, not me. Don’t beat yourself up over it since you don’t know what’s going on inside her head. Her loss...
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    Happened only once, close to 30 years ago at a mall, where she was with her new boyfriend. Very cordial and friendly meeting. But all I could think of was the time she sucked me off twice in a span of about a half hour, and she was so drunk she wasn't sure if I came in her mouth the second time. Too bad we didn't go down memory lane when we ran into each other.

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    I went to a loud party with the girl I considered my SO, we both got drunk, she held it well. On the ride home she farted on my lap, I thought to myself, "this is love". Then she tells me that she was moving to Calgary to improve her job prospects. I agonized over going with her but after crunching the numbers I decided that I didn't want to take a pay cut and live in a colder city than Toronto. So we parted ways, she took a taxi to the airport.

    Earlier this decade I ran into her again. She'd gotten married, we exchanged pleasantries and moved on. Later, I thought to myself, "I thought she was hot".

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    Luckily moved about the planet so tend to have 1000s of kms between the exes lol. But, TBH, holding grudges or unresolved anger only destroys you. Thus, move on and wish them well. However....I know cases where some other people had shit...where their exes did the most horrible things to the other - thus in those cases ....I stand down on offering opinions (I'm not talking cheating, but shit like secretly draining the finances, trying to falsely pin sex abuse or drug use onto other, etc).
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    don't think. just ask if she wants to fuck for old times sakes



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    I ran into a chick I dated for a couple years in a bar downtown several years ago. As the night was ending, her friends left and it was just her and I. She planted a big kiss on my lips. Following that was a BBBJTCCIMSW with my pants around my ankles in a dark alley behind the bar. I still run into her from time to time, sometimes with my wife. That's what I think about.

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