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antoine2

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I would like to hear from providers their views on achieving full on real orgasms during a session with a client.

If you had your choice, is this something you would like to have happen for every session?
Or is it impracticable given the frequency of sexual encounters you have?
Or maybe it's not often possible given that often there is minimal emotional intimacy during these encounters.

I would love to hear your views.
 

yomero5

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They fake them for their clients, and sometimes, for their boyfriends, too.
 

malata

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you know you're doing good if they push your head away just when they're at the brink

 

kherg007

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It's like asking for an honest assessment of your dick. The kindest thing to do is not put the lady on the spot here. If you can feel cervix dips etc then ya got it.
 

FlorenceYi

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I would like to hear from providers their views on achieving full on real orgasms during a session with a client.

If you had your choice, is this something you would like to have happen for every session?
Or is it impracticable given the frequency of sexual encounters you have?
Or maybe it's not often possible given that often there is minimal emotional intimacy during these encounters.

I would love to hear your views.
Good Morning Terb!
Generally speaking, I shelf away my orgasms as bottom of priority for a session unless a client explicitly wishes for it and it would enhance his session, especially for 1hr sessions. The pressure is way too high for short sessions for me personally to have to worry about his orgasm(s) as well as mine, looking pretty, being a conversationalist, being a hostess, being mindful of the time. It isn't always do-able either depending on just the way the session goes and his personal sexual preferences. Personally, if I have too much penetrative stimulation first, I'm difficult to climax - the reverse works better with oral stimulation first. Rather than assuming a lady's preferred method of cumming, it would be wise to make it clear at the beginning of your session that it is important to you, or that you wish to focus on her orgasm, or to not have expectations of it happening at all. Often times clients are pounding away expecting an orgasm and I just don't cum from penetrative sex - as is true with many other women. Orgasms are also hella tiring and suck out your energy to do any other tasks, errands, administrative duties for the rest of your day after a session - naps tend to happen after orgasms for me, or else coffee is very much needed lol.

The worst is when a gent is going about the session with 15 mins remaining, turns to me and goes "did you cum". When I realize that's what he wants, it gives me anxiety to have to switch gears and is somewhat of a performing act and then I still have to worry about getting his orgasm in. I prefer not to fake, but of course this is a service and I can understand why girls would - I prefer to manage expectations and tell the client that next time we can focus on that and that I don't cum easily, which can perceived as true but in reality it needs planning and foresight. It can be really stressful and frustrating if a client persists because we don't want to go over the clock. Lesson - say so at beginning or early on in session.

Of course, sometimes it just happens naturally with certain gents and their method of pleasuring you can align exactly with how you prefer to be pleasured. For my sessions, I always try to create emotional intimacy and so that is hardly ever an issue there in terms of 'cum-ability'. If the emotional connection or level of respect is severely lacking I would pass on seeing a gent again, as it would neither please me emotionally nor physically to entertain him.

But it's all really individual - orgasms.
 

MidGuyy

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It's like asking for an honest assessment of your dick. The kindest thing to do is not put the lady on the spot here. If you can feel cervix dips etc then ya got it.
Do providers actually compliment your dick off of their own?
 

rhuarc29

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The worst is when a gent is going about the session with 15 mins remaining, turns to me and goes "did you cum".
Jesus, guys, don't ask an SP this question! Chances are she did not, and this question puts her in a very uncomfortable position.

Unlike a civilian relationship, I go into a session with my own pleasure in mind, hence why I am paying for it. I still want her to have a good time as well, but getting her to climax is a bonus, not an expectation. And I think guys are deluding themselves if they think otherwise.
 

Jasmina

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I am a selfish lover, even when I was working, I came with clients more times than not. Almost always with DATY, and usually vaginally. A few special clients were apt at getting me to squirt too. Some things cannot be faked (well).

Granted, I am a mature woman and was single so I both knew my body and had no reason to hold back with my trusted clientele (which was most of my clientele).

I did know another working woman who did not like reaching orgasm with clients and would fake it more times than not. And she was incredibly well reviewed. Seems most men cannot tell the difference and/or do not care.

There isn't one set answer for this question.
 

bazokajoe

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Jesus, guys, don't ask an SP this question! Chances are she did not, and this question puts her in a very uncomfortable position.

Unlike a civilian relationship, I go into a session with my own pleasure in mind, hence why I am paying for it. I still want her to have a good time as well, but getting her to climax is a bonus, not an expectation. And I think guys are deluding themselves if they think otherwise.
This.
I highly doubt I've ever made an escort orgasm. I just don't have the talent or the weapon,lol.
 

Jasmine Raine

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I am escorting for the sex. I clearly want my cake and to eat it too which is why I take money as well but I don't want to dating. The dating scene now a days is a scary. I'm safer seeing clients that I can screen verses swiping a direction on an app. So for me, I like to cum when I am with clients.

I cum in different ways. Sometimes lightly, sometimes hard, sometimes multiple, etc. Sometimes I don't cum and yet like others have still truly enjoyed my time with that person.

I also like the companionship aspect which is why I prefer some longer dates and building relationships with regulars.

They key to remember is that we are all different. And if you are a man who really wants to ensure he has pleasures the woman he is with, just make sure to not put so much pressure on it happening. Since women are emotionally based creatures, that type of pressure could have the opposite effects.
 
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I had one SP that creamed up so much she looked like she had a Jello vanilla pudding cup in her crotch. She told me she had not had sex in a long time. She was a part time student/SP and to kill two birds with one stone as Jessica does, she gets her sex on the job.
 

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I had one SP that creamed up so much she looked like she had a Jello vanilla pudding cup in her crotch. She told me she had not had sex in a long time. She was a part time student/SP and two kill two bird with one stone as Jessica does gets her sex on the job.
Quit fucking around on the job!
 

stevieray

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I always try to get my lady off, however, you can usually tell when they`re just playing along. I can`t help but feel a bit sorry for her, although I realize I`m the paying client, and she`s there to please me. BUT, there are those (few) times, when going down orally, when you feel her legs clamp hard against your face, and you hear their breath get harder, that you know, you must be doing something right! For me, there`s no better rush!
 

Perry Mason

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Some articulate ladies here! Thanks for the candor. :yo:

Very interesting question and comments.

My wife and I practiced Tantra for many years. In Tantra, the female orgasm is very important.

Tantra is that "place" where the erotic and the spiritual encounter each other. A dance of masculine and feminine energies. A vicious circle in which he gets "high" on her "high" and she gets "high" on his "high"... and so on and on and on. Which eventually reaches an apex with her release in orgasm of torrents of her energy.

When -- perhaps, if -- that happens, both he and she can touch and experience a state of bliss... the "transcendental peace that follows ecstasy." Sometimes known as "Samadhi," "Satori," "Nirvana"...

Once I tasted that, I seek those kinds of connection and experiences in all my erotic encounters...

I found it with civvies often enough.

For a while, I believed I could find it with a courtesan. But I more or less gave up the hobby when I realized how foolish my expectations were.

No woman can do that several times a day. Nor on demand. Or under pressure. And it takes time. For both connection and foreplay. Sensitivity. Skill. Communication. And it can't be done with a clock ticking away like a taxi meter, either.

That kind of intimacy cannot be bought or sold.

Nor can you fake it, either! :smokin:

So I well understand you, ladies. And more power to those of you who can and/or frequently do orgasm with your clients. Perhaps, in some way you each touch that state of bliss... do you?

But I am surprised to hear that so many of you cannot orgasm from intercourse. Is it like that in your non-professional encounters, too?

And assuming a cunning linguist, do you orgasm in oral in a professional encounter? Or do you hold yourself back?

Perry
 
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