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    Question to providers about orgasms

    I would like to hear from providers their views on achieving full on real orgasms during a session with a client.

    If you had your choice, is this something you would like to have happen for every session?
    Or is it impracticable given the frequency of sexual encounters you have?
    Or maybe it's not often possible given that often there is minimal emotional intimacy during these encounters.

    I would love to hear your views.

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    Or is it impracticable given the frequency of sexual encounters you have?

    Would be an interesting question to ask a male provider.

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    They fake them for their clients, and sometimes, for their boyfriends, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yomero5 View Post
    They fake them for their clients, and sometimes, for their boyfriends, too.
    Pros never fake!
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    Quote Originally Posted by luvyeah View Post
    Pros never fake!
    They just fake better

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    It's like asking for an honest assessment of your dick. The kindest thing to do is not put the lady on the spot here. If you can feel cervix dips etc then ya got it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by antoine2 View Post
    I would like to hear from providers their views on achieving full on real orgasms during a session with a client.

    If you had your choice, is this something you would like to have happen for every session?
    Or is it impracticable given the frequency of sexual encounters you have?
    Or maybe it's not often possible given that often there is minimal emotional intimacy during these encounters.

    I would love to hear your views.
    Good Morning Terb!
    Generally speaking, I shelf away my orgasms as bottom of priority for a session unless a client explicitly wishes for it and it would enhance his session, especially for 1hr sessions. The pressure is way too high for short sessions for me personally to have to worry about his orgasm(s) as well as mine, looking pretty, being a conversationalist, being a hostess, being mindful of the time. It isn't always do-able either depending on just the way the session goes and his personal sexual preferences. Personally, if I have too much penetrative stimulation first, I'm difficult to climax - the reverse works better with oral stimulation first. Rather than assuming a lady's preferred method of cumming, it would be wise to make it clear at the beginning of your session that it is important to you, or that you wish to focus on her orgasm, or to not have expectations of it happening at all. Often times clients are pounding away expecting an orgasm and I just don't cum from penetrative sex - as is true with many other women. Orgasms are also hella tiring and suck out your energy to do any other tasks, errands, administrative duties for the rest of your day after a session - naps tend to happen after orgasms for me, or else coffee is very much needed lol.

    The worst is when a gent is going about the session with 15 mins remaining, turns to me and goes "did you cum". When I realize that's what he wants, it gives me anxiety to have to switch gears and is somewhat of a performing act and then I still have to worry about getting his orgasm in. I prefer not to fake, but of course this is a service and I can understand why girls would - I prefer to manage expectations and tell the client that next time we can focus on that and that I don't cum easily, which can perceived as true but in reality it needs planning and foresight. It can be really stressful and frustrating if a client persists because we don't want to go over the clock. Lesson - say so at beginning or early on in session.

    Of course, sometimes it just happens naturally with certain gents and their method of pleasuring you can align exactly with how you prefer to be pleasured. For my sessions, I always try to create emotional intimacy and so that is hardly ever an issue there in terms of 'cum-ability'. If the emotional connection or level of respect is severely lacking I would pass on seeing a gent again, as it would neither please me emotionally nor physically to entertain him.

    But it's all really individual - orgasms.




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    I've had real orgasms but only from daty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kherg007 View Post
    It's like asking for an honest assessment of your dick. The kindest thing to do is not put the lady on the spot here. If you can feel cervix dips etc then ya got it.
    Do providers actually compliment your dick off of their own?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FlorenceYi View Post
    The worst is when a gent is going about the session with 15 mins remaining, turns to me and goes "did you cum".
    Jesus, guys, don't ask an SP this question! Chances are she did not, and this question puts her in a very uncomfortable position.

    Unlike a civilian relationship, I go into a session with my own pleasure in mind, hence why I am paying for it. I still want her to have a good time as well, but getting her to climax is a bonus, not an expectation. And I think guys are deluding themselves if they think otherwise.

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    Most clients are still visiting for themselves and their needs. I'm sensitive so I would not prefer to have every client that books try to force an orgasm on me "at any cost" or have every client make that his prime focus. Sometimes guys are way too rough violently fingering, or suctioning hard and biting/chewing when doing oral and for me that's quite painful and not pleasurable. Like Florence I also can't orgasm from penetrative sex. Some gents are truly shocked for some reason that not every woman can. I have had a few clients mid thrust again after 2 or 3 minutes ask me if I'm coming or going to come and I'm put in that awkward spot of trying to explain that I can't. They just assume and that I find a bit weird.

    I am fine either way with or without, but having that pressure put upon us especially with a new partner who may not do things the way we like can be a lot mentally and physically. I would be numb and sore if every client tried/insisted. For me, it's oral only and takes some time, at least 15 minutes. So I much prefer each session with each client to be different and go with the flow as opposed to having the same exact goal/agenda for each one. Also, many clients simply don't have the patience and seem to get bored if a provider doesn't finish in 2-3 minutes. I don't fake it myself, but I can definitely see sometimes clients are "shocked" that we're not writhing and screaming in "ecstasy" in 2-3 minutes. That's just not realistic for me. If I had 1 or 2 a week that's fine for me, again I prefer quality over quantity. I'm not trying to "get mine" from every session with a client and I don't want to be sore for days after because someone was so insistent and it still didn't work.

    We have to balance time constraints, skillset, expectations, feelings etc all with this. So there's no way for every client that books to truly be able to have the provider reach orgasm. Some are very intuitive or experienced and some sessions are ideal circumstances. But it's not realistic to expect every client to make me orgasm, and I don't want every person to try to force it to happen. I think with any partner it takes a little time to get to know each other's bodies and what they like and don't like. Sometimes guys try the same approach on every woman and get their hopes up or disappointed when they don't get the exact same reaction every time.

    Not every one that books us is also intuitive or skilled. Some are learning, some are shy, and some are emulating porn or just not interested in the female orgasm. Everyone who books is different. Every provider is different. Some prefer to fake it because they don't see it going anywhere or it's painful and they want it over with. I find it awkward to act like that and personally don't fake it. I don't want to reinforce bad technique personally. Very occasionally someone's ego is hurt a bit because I didn't fake it, but I want to be as me as possible and not an orgasm actress.

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    I am a selfish lover, even when I was working, I came with clients more times than not. Almost always with DATY, and usually vaginally. A few special clients were apt at getting me to squirt too. Some things cannot be faked (well).

    Granted, I am a mature woman and was single so I both knew my body and had no reason to hold back with my trusted clientele (which was most of my clientele).

    I did know another working woman who did not like reaching orgasm with clients and would fake it more times than not. And she was incredibly well reviewed. Seems most men cannot tell the difference and/or do not care.

    There isn't one set answer for this question.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rhuarc29 View Post
    Jesus, guys, don't ask an SP this question! Chances are she did not, and this question puts her in a very uncomfortable position.

    Unlike a civilian relationship, I go into a session with my own pleasure in mind, hence why I am paying for it. I still want her to have a good time as well, but getting her to climax is a bonus, not an expectation. And I think guys are deluding themselves if they think otherwise.
    This.
    I highly doubt I've ever made an escort orgasm. I just don't have the talent or the weapon,lol.

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    I looked at Charlotte's Sig pic and I forgot what I was going to say so nevermind.

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    I am escorting for the sex. I clearly want my cake and to eat it too which is why I take money as well but I don't want to dating. The dating scene now a days is a scary. I'm safer seeing clients that I can screen verses swiping a direction on an app. So for me, I like to cum when I am with clients.

    I cum in different ways. Sometimes lightly, sometimes hard, sometimes multiple, etc. Sometimes I don't cum and yet like others have still truly enjoyed my time with that person.

    I also like the companionship aspect which is why I prefer some longer dates and building relationships with regulars.

    They key to remember is that we are all different. And if you are a man who really wants to ensure he has pleasures the woman he is with, just make sure to not put so much pressure on it happening. Since women are emotionally based creatures, that type of pressure could have the opposite effects.
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    I had one SP that creamed up so much she looked like she had a Jello vanilla pudding cup in her crotch. She told me she had not had sex in a long time. She was a part time student/SP and to kill two birds with one stone as Jessica does, she gets her sex on the job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wild Wiglin Willie View Post
    I had one SP that creamed up so much she looked like she had a Jello vanilla pudding cup in her crotch. She told me she had not had sex in a long time. She was a part time student/SP and two kill two bird with one stone as Jessica does gets her sex on the job.
    Quit fucking around on the job!
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    I always try to get my lady off, however, you can usually tell when they`re just playing along. I can`t help but feel a bit sorry for her, although I realize I`m the paying client, and she`s there to please me. BUT, there are those (few) times, when going down orally, when you feel her legs clamp hard against your face, and you hear their breath get harder, that you know, you must be doing something right! For me, there`s no better rush!

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    Some articulate ladies here! Thanks for the candor.

    Very interesting question and comments.

    My wife and I practiced Tantra for many years. In Tantra, the female orgasm is very important.

    Tantra is that "place" where the erotic and the spiritual encounter each other. A dance of masculine and feminine energies. A vicious circle in which he gets "high" on her "high" and she gets "high" on his "high"... and so on and on and on. Which eventually reaches an apex with her release in orgasm of torrents of her energy.

    When -- perhaps, if -- that happens, both he and she can touch and experience a state of bliss... the "transcendental peace that follows ecstasy." Sometimes known as "Samadhi," "Satori," "Nirvana"...

    Once I tasted that, I seek those kinds of connection and experiences in all my erotic encounters...

    I found it with civvies often enough.

    For a while, I believed I could find it with a courtesan. But I more or less gave up the hobby when I realized how foolish my expectations were.

    No woman can do that several times a day. Nor on demand. Or under pressure. And it takes time. For both connection and foreplay. Sensitivity. Skill. Communication. And it can't be done with a clock ticking away like a taxi meter, either.

    That kind of intimacy cannot be bought or sold.

    Nor can you fake it, either!

    So I well understand you, ladies. And more power to those of you who can and/or frequently do orgasm with your clients. Perhaps, in some way you each touch that state of bliss... do you?

    But I am surprised to hear that so many of you cannot orgasm from intercourse. Is it like that in your non-professional encounters, too?

    And assuming a cunning linguist, do you orgasm in oral in a professional encounter? Or do you hold yourself back?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissCroft View Post
    I've had real orgasms but only from daty.
    Priceless. First order of business.

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    That type of intimacy absolutely happens with some clients and sex workers. It breaks my heart that it hasn't happened for some others.

    Years later and I still recall some amazing sessions.

    Like the one time I was doing a duo and I was riding the gentleman and he said, "Slow down or I wont be able to hold back" (or something similar) and I just couldn't stop.. I came so hard on him that my duo partner was laughing at how my ass jiggled when I came. He was right.. he couldn't hold back. I felt like an asshole for being so selfish. I always wanted him to know that.

    Quote Originally Posted by Perry Mason View Post
    Some articulate ladies here! Thanks for the candor.

    Very interesting question and comments.

    My wife and I practiced Tantra for many years. In Tantra, the female orgasm is very important.

    Tantra is that "place" where the erotic and the spiritual encounter each other. A dance of masculine and feminine energies. A vicious circle in which he gets "high" on her "high" and she gets "high" on his "high"... and so on and on and on. Which eventually reaches an apex with her release in orgasm of torrents of her energy.

    When -- perhaps, if -- that happens, both he and she can touch and experience a state of bliss... the "transcendental peace that follows ecstasy." Sometimes known as "Samadhi," "Satori," "Nirvana"...

    Once I tasted that, I seek those kinds of connection and experiences in all my erotic encounters...

    I found it with civvies often enough.

    For a while, I believed I could find it with a courtesan. But I more or less gave up the hobby when I realized how foolish my expectations were.

    No woman can do that several times a day. Nor on demand. Or under pressure. And it takes time. For both connection and foreplay. Sensitivity. Skill. Communication. And it can't be done with a clock ticking away like a taxi meter, either.

    That kind of intimacy cannot be bought or sold.

    Nor can you fake it, either!

    So I well understand you, ladies. And more power to those of you who can and/or frequently do orgasm with your clients. Perhaps, in some way you each touch that state of bliss... do you?

    But I am surprised to hear that so many of you cannot orgasm from intercourse. Is it like that in your non-professional encounters, too?

    And assuming a cunning linguist, do you orgasm in oral in a professional encounter? Or do you hold yourself back?

    Perry

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    Quote Originally Posted by drlove View Post
    If they squirt during a session, does that mean they came for real?
    Or their bladders were full.

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