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Anyone experienced FMTY?

DaveBoone

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Hi All,
I have a tropical vacation coming up and of course my mind turns to how much more fun it would be to share the time with a companion who enjoys the vacation part of the trip along with some time in the bedroom ... it's too short-notice for this time, but my wheels are turning a bit ... do any of you have experience with this? I'm curious about everything from the pragmatic side like arranging travel, sleeping accommodations, etc to the less obvious like choosing the perfect length of a visit, figuring out compatibility for extended time together (which is different than being compatible during a 1hr incall), and how to arrange a mutually feasible budget while still showing respect for a lady's value and not offending her by making it sound like a negotiation (which again, may be more flexible than her rate for incall visits). Maybe it's a pipe dream for an average joe like me to pull off, but it has me daydreaming a bit and I'd love your input. Cheers! DB
 

KatrinnaHendrix

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I'm an SP who's had 5 fmty (within Canada)
My advice is best to find an SP you are interested in, mention the idea of travel, book her for a multi hour date (I'd say 3-4 hours) and see how the chemistry/connection works. It's important if you are going to be spending a bit of time. You could also ask if they are comfortable with a skype chat (I have done this for 3 of my fmty since they live across the country)
Ask what they're daily needs are - time to self, sleep arrangements, if they need to check in with family or friends here and there. Communication is key!

I hope you find what you are looking for & have a great trip!
Any questions feel free to DM
 

Vera.Reis

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It really depends on the SP. I know some want their own room to sleep in, we all have different needs. If I knew a client was super cuddly I'd want my own bed at least, I'd be happy to cuddle and fall asleep with you, but if eventually I need room to stretch out or either of us decide our sleeping style isn't working with the other, we have somewhere to move to! Most of us will want to have a couple or a few hours to ourselves, I wouldn't even want to spend 24hrs a day for a week with my partner lol

So just ask her, you will find rates for trips really depend. If we were at a resort and I knew sexy time was likely only to be morning and night and that the rest of the day we'd be pool side or doing something, that would be different rates than a client who's expecting to bang 5x a day haha

All expenses on the trip for flights, accommodation, food, stuff you go and do together will be on you.

I wouldnt try to negotiate but I would be like I was thinking of going xyz and I have xxxx that I can afford to pay you on top of me covering the expenses. How many days would you feel comfortable with for that compensation, what are your needs on a trip like that. That way it's in her court, if she says more days than you were planning, great say I was thinking only x amount of days so what would that cost? You know at this point it will be less than your budget anyways.
 

DaveBoone

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Thanks for the suggestions! It does seem super-important to have clear communication about all the practical aspects of sharing a vacation with someone before even starting to discuss the financial part of the picture ... thanks for the tips ...
 

DaveBoone

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... if eventually I need room to stretch out or either of us decide our sleeping style isn't working with the other, we have somewhere to move to ...

... that would be different rates than a client who's expecting to bang 5x a day haha

I wouldnt try to negotiate but I would be like I was thinking of going xyz and I have xxxx that I can afford to pay you on top of me covering the expenses. How many days would you feel comfortable with for that compensation, what are your needs on a trip like that. That way it's in her court, if she says more days than you were planning, great say I was thinking only x amount of days so what would that cost? You know at this point it will be less than your budget anyways.
Thanks Paola ... I'm 100% with you on "sleep style" being a very real consideration -- this is supposed to be vacation after all! And the 5x per day made me chuckle ... it's been a while since that's been on my radar ... although maybe that first day would be extra revved up, the gas tank empties sooner than it used to ... :) And I actually really appreciate the "how many days" approach because it's difficult to bring up the topic of money in a classy way that makes the lady feel respected; money discussions often come with unintended emotional undertones because we don't have them often ... think about it, most of us feel very open to discussing likes and dislikes sexually which helps us arrive at a mutually enjoyable experience in the bedroom, but when the subject of money comes up it's difficult to be as open without fear of giving a negative impression to the other person ... having a back-and-forth discussion about money seems more taboo than about sexual preferences ... :)
 

Roseank

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This thread has been very informative and timely as I'm currently arranging to do a FMTY for a vacation with an SP down South (DR or Cancun) within the next month or two.
One question I had, when you're at the resort, you're bound to interact with other people, how do you broach the standard question of "and what do you do for work?", I know and believe that SP work is real work (I'm in the IT field), so do SP's answer that they're a sex worker? I all honesty, I wouldn't care how the question was answered (I'll never see those people again anyways!) Does it or can it cause any issues?
I do intend to have an open conversation with my guest about this as well, but any input would be appreciated.

Thanks!
 

Chrisfly

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There are a few informative threads about this topic.
I really would get to know anyone ... sp or civ... before going on vacation anywhere, especially for a week. You’re probably safer off with a 3-4 day long week to Bahamas or Cancun. At least do an overnight to Niagara Falls or something beforehand just to make sure you aren’t at each other’s throats after just 24 hours.
As for budget, assume sex twice a day, I would be looking to offer $300 per day max to an sp travel companion. And any shopping trips or other expenses not part of the all inclusive package are on her. Seems reasonable as I’ve taken girlfriends on vacations and probably spent $1000 on shopping trips - jewellery, clothes, souvenirs, etc. If she wants $500-$1000 per day and says that what she can make in Toronto... then fcuk her. Let her stay in Toronto and blow and fcuk 5+ guys a day for that kind of cash. It all depends on the connection and chemistry you have with a girl.
Personally I would just catch an flight to Colombia for a week. Whatever you incur in expenses and payment to any local sp will go much further in Colombia or Argentina.
I spent a couple months in Argentina a few years ago. For $200-$300 you can see 2 daytime super hot escort girls plus an overnight. Check out https://www.bairesgirls.net/escorts-acompanantes.htm for an idea of the Argentina escort scene.
If you have some game super easy to pick up local girls. But you will need Spanish skills.
There are lots of sex tourism friendly countries ... Germany, Thailand etc.
Better option is to look on seeking.com for travel friendly girls. After 2-3 dates if you have some chemistry she’ll be ready to travel, more often than not for no $$ other than expenses and some pocket money for shopping. And no risk of getting outed for travelling with an sp. Still amazes me how many people I know and run into on my travels.
Other option is misstravel.com though I’ve never actually met anyone via that site.
 

hoffa68

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I did a survey on Twitter last year in regards to how much a SP would want for a week or 2 all inclusive trip. My 4 choices were I believe 10000, 5000, 2500 or the free trip was enough. It ended up being evenly split for all 4. Although I suspect it was guys who answered the trip was enough.

I did have a friend who had a sugar baby and was paying a monthly allowance. He took her with him on a few trips and didn't pay anything extra other than the trip and gifts etc. Still spent about 15000 on one trip. Dudes got money.

One question I have is how does it work going to a resort. If I book a trip for 2 I have to provide names of both that appear on a passport. The SP would have to willing to give their real name. It would be different if I'm giving them money and they book their own travel to say a airbnb or something but a resort needs both names in the room.
 

StillROAMing

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I did a survey on Twitter last year in regards to how much a SP would want for a week or 2 all inclusive trip. My 4 choices were I believe 10000, 5000, 2500 or the free trip was enough. It ended up being evenly split for all 4. Although I suspect it was guys who answered the trip was enough.

I did have a friend who had a sugar baby and was paying a monthly allowance. He took her with him on a few trips and didn't pay anything extra other than the trip and gifts etc. Still spent about 15000 on one trip. Dudes got money.

One question I have is how does it work going to a resort. If I book a trip for 2 I have to provide names of both that appear on a passport. The SP would have to willing to give their real name. It would be different if I'm giving them money and they book their own travel to say a airbnb or something but a resort needs both names in the room.
In general,
It's tough to compare SBs and SPs. Some are one of the same but for the most part they are two different types of people. Let's call SPs pros SBs semi-pros. They have different mindsets, if you will.

As for passport names, they do have to match. For someone like you it can be easier than, say, someone with no online presence. You have a Twitter account and a terb handle. In general, the ladies in this industry have more trust than we do, with what they do they pretty have to, so it shouldn't be an issue for the names to match.

IMO, unless you know them or know they are highly reputable I would advise to not send them money to purchase tickets themselves.
 
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