anyone else feels absolutely nothing fucking with condom?

YellowFeverr said:

I know this is not a general discussion part of the forum but I am curious.

I feel NOTHING when having sex with a condom, zero pleasure. It is annoying as hell and kinda embarrassing because I can't have sex with an sp no matter how hot she is. I just lose that boner! I have to stick to a bbbj and daty. Always fun to see them moan

I wonder what options are available to fix that. Any super thin condom or anything? I heard there are some condoms that are so thin it almost feels like you are fucking bare but can't find them.

I am uncut so the skin doesn't move at all. I wonder if it not part of the problem. Even with a thin condom, the skin wouldn't move either.

Sorry for the weird post but it makes me sad not to be able to enjoy that part of the play

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No need to be sorry. These are all very valid concerns of yours.

If you have a girthy dick, a regular size condom might be too tight on your dick. This in turn reduces sensation even more. It might be worthwhile to bring your own upsized condoms still boxed up when you see a SP (which will reassure her regarding them not being expired/kept inside your jeans' pocket for 2 weeks). Here's a website to start off your research onto which particular brand would fit you best : https://www.condom-sizes.org/condom-sizes/condom-calculator
You will obviously also need a soft measuring tape to measure the girth of your dick fully erected.

Other than that, when you say that your skin doesn't move on your dick, do you mean you're unable to pull back your foreskin past the glans even without a condom on ? If that's the case, it's a medical condition called phimosis. Depending on its severity (degree of tightness of your foreskin), you might be able to fix it yourself by stretching it regularly until you finally manage to pull your foreskin back. Otherwise, a simple medical procedure can help. In doubt, consult your doctor obviously.

Speaking for myself, I do agree that condoms obviously reduce the overall sensation. But in my case, I'm sure glad they do since I tend to pop quite fast anyway. Losing sensitivity completely isn't something I've experienced while having intercourse with a condom. So yea, I'd look up into those two hypothesis stated above to start off your research.

Good luck !

Get some Kimono MicroThin Large Condom.

Don't get a BJ before the main event

Do not let her touch you manhood

Let the first thing that pleasures your manhood be a vagina .

Losing boners due to condoms is a common problem and it's as old as time itself yo. I think that's why a lot of guys use recreational Cialis, when your boner is unnaturally raging like an over inflated balloon, you'd feel something even there ere several layers of Glad garbage bags wrapped around it. Sure you can use ultra thin condoms, but that will never ever match upgrading your body chemistry.

I can vouch for Kimono brand. You can buy them at Aren't We Naughty on Merivale. Unfortunately, amok SP don't go for the bring you own bag concept because of safety concerns.

YellowFeverr said:

"when you say that your skin doesn't move on your dick, do you mean you're unable to pull back your foreskin"

Yes I can. What I meant is once the condom is on, it keeps the foreskin from moving because there is no contact or friction to make it move.

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Gotcha. Well look into my first cue then condom circumference/dick girth should be about 0.8-0.9 for optimal results. Also as other have suggested, look into thinner condoms.

I have this issue, too. Basically zero sensation while wearing one.

I can generally stay hard, but have to keep looking and checking because I cannot determine it by sensation alone. It's a pretty weird feeling when you think you've gone flaccid and then take a peek and are like, "oh, guess not, I just have zombie dick."

I frequently get self conscious about lasting too long without it going anywhere, because some women (at least in civilian experience) start to feel like they're doing something wrong if you take forever to finish. I've experimented with Viagra and Cialis but they don't really have any effect on sensitivity, in my experience.

Besides ultra thin condoms you might also want to try female condoms, if you have a relationship with a companion who is comfortable using them. I've picked up a few packs to try out with a couple of SPs who I know are ok with it, but haven't actually used them yet (since I tend to prefer oral anyway, and don't mind briefly serving as an insensate dildo in between other things that work better for me).

Oh, and it's also worth mentioning that sensitivity -- both physical and mental -- can be partially determined by the frequency with which you masturbate/consume pornography.

I think your situation is quite common as it comes up on here from time to time. It seems like most of the time the issue can be overcome so stay positive. Not all of these may apply to you but here are some things to consider:

1) Stop watching porn - it desensitizes you in many ways. https://nofap.com
2) Stop wacking off or cut back a lot. Also, when you do be really gentle. Some guys "iron grip" their dicks to the point that anything less than an "iron grip" and you feel nothing.
3) If you do jerk off, put on a condom and practice. They can take some getting used to.
4) Try some lube inside the condom as well as outside. Use Fuckwater http://www.fuckwater.com
5) Try some different brands and sizes of condom. There can be significant differences.
6) See SPs less often and/or have sex less often. Give yourself adequate time to get horny.

If the issue is friction, you can try the female condom which goes in your partner instead of on you. And take a look at the Sensis thin with quick strips & Trojan Pure Ecstasy. It’s also important not to overstimulate which can numb your nerves, use lubricant when you masturbate, inside condoms (as mentioned above) slow down and breath, take the time to build up arousal. I’ve witnessed many men cum without any touch at all and have done so myself. It’s a mind body connection so you need both pleasure centres engaged.

twatjuice said:

Another uber-like thread

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Now that you mention it, yes.

Larger condom (even tho I’m just above avg statistically, and not thick like a beer can, still I find some brands of normal size are too tight at the base, and make me numb). Put a bit of lube inside the condom. Non latex are more sensitive too (tho non latex for some reason seem easier to slip off, make sure to grab the condom on withdrawal). Agree with other advice to lay off the self love several days before too, to increase the pent up sexual energy.

During sex, take things slow, don’t worry about cumming, focus on enjoying each other’s bodes. One of the best ways not to cum, it to worry that you won’t cum.

i find the condom that the lady had
was too tight on me and it might hurt a little
i bring my own never had a problem with it
find the one that fit you the best and have fun :encouragement:

Lots of times erection has more to do with blood flow to the penis than type of condom used, etc. Supply of blood to that organ can drop if you are 40+. Ask your doctor for a prescription of Vial is and I think you'll find things improve!4

Sorrry I meant Cialis of course in that last post!

Would a cock ring help sensation? Would certainly help keeping the erection on but I wonder if it would do anything to sensation. Been too long since I tried this.

try Crown condoms. and add a drop or two of water based lube inside before rolling it on...I found it felt pretty good. better than others.

https://www.condomdepot.com/reviews/condom-reviews/crown-condoms.cfm
https://www.amazon.ca/Okamoto-Crown-Condoms-Sensitive-Sensation/dp/B00B4Y9ZD4

I offer female condoms, they are great and give a less restrictive feeling for male play partners. Other than that, trojan bareskin are great too. I make sure the penis is lubed up before putting on the condom and after for enjoyment for both !

beneath69 said:

Would a cock ring help sensation? Would certainly help keeping the erection on but I wonder if it would do anything to sensation. Been too long since I tried this.

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Cockring May be counter productive, as it can compress the nerves at the base of the penis (think of a “deathgrip” handjob you may have had where the mpa just squeezes the shaft super tight and jerks it up and down).